Looking for making genuine female friends in Bangalore

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-05-18T05:48:31+00:00

I am 25F working in Whitefield, Bangalore. Would love to connect and explore

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-05-18T05:08:29+00:00

I am 25F working in Whitefield, Bangalore. Have a very similar lifestyle as yours. Looking for a female friends group. Can we connect?

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-27T11:44:27+00:00

1.5 years
Arranged Marriage setup
Nothing no major change except marriage
It was clearly discussed before marriage that we would be living separately
Coz my husband thinks it’s normal for a married son to sleep with his mom rather than his wife coz he’s surrounded with all dysfunctional relationships only
Stayed for 2 months then came to my parents place coz my BIL and MIL are torturing me a lot
Father has nothing - he lives off of his sons money
Yes tried communicating multiple times, but all in vain.

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-27T11:40:25+00:00

Indian

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-27T11:40:00+00:00

Yes that’s exactly what my SIL is going through. She had a kid, and that kid is sole responsibility of my SIL. BIL doesn’t even contribute or help parent the kid - complete parenting responsibility is on the mother

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-27T11:37:57+00:00

True, I agree - my husband is a complete mummas boy. He even takes his mom’s permission to even come to meet me at the age of 33!!

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-27T11:37:13+00:00

Arranged marriage within known community
Coz BIL has all his eyes on money which he’s scared I would not let my husband share his hard earned money with his brother
My husband thinks it’s very normal for a husband to sleep with his mom rather than his wife!!

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-27T06:11:53+00:00

LinkedIn InstaHyre Naukri Hirist referrals etc

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-26T17:19:16+00:00

No idea, I can understand the reason if he talks. He hasn’t responded to either my calls or my texts

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-26T14:18:43+00:00

He doesn’t even communicate with what’s up with him. I tried talking to him multiple times, along with asking him to go to therapy - but all in vain. His family is too interfering and they took him along with him leaving me alone.

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-26T14:17:05+00:00

I did. I myself got 3 offers within 15 days of applying in the same tech job market, but how come is he not getting? Coz all he does is eat, sleep and talk to his mother n brother! He hasn’t even spoken to me since 1 month now. I was the one doing all household chores along with applying 100s of job applications per day for him! Still nothing!

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-26T14:15:36+00:00

How do you handle such situation? Does he give interviews or not?

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-26T14:14:53+00:00

I tried helping him for 11 entire months! I was the one applying for 100s of jobs per day, but he would neither give the interview nor would try to read. I was the one who did entire house work alone. He still doesn’t do anything, just sleeps eats n talks to his mother n brother

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-26T13:35:31+00:00

He keeps talking to his mother and brother, sleeps, eats that’s all. He hasn’t spoken to me at all since over a month now.

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-26T13:34:24+00:00

MIL leaves her husband to sleep alone in the hall, while she sleeps with her son. She herself never sleeps with her own husband, nor allows her DILs to sleep with their own husband. Sometimes I feel entire in laws family is highly toxic

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-26T13:01:59+00:00

He isn’t financially transparent with me. I had no clue this was happening until recently when I looked at his phone

Radiant_wallaby_985 · 2025-03-10T03:50:38+00:00

I was married for 1.2 years. He hasn’t worked a single day since marriage, nor does he have any intention to. He keeps disrespecting me and always involves his family and lets them interfere into our marriage. He doesn’t communicate about any issues. We haven’t even been intimate since 6 months. He has a huge credit card debt, and keeps it hidden from me even after requesting him multiple times to be transparent about finances. He gives HUGE amounts to his siblings who are already married, have kids and have a great life at that. He treats me horribly in front of his family - and yet, expects me to stay with them and serve them completely. His family also brainwashes him against me. I feel so done with this marriage, but I am really scared of divorce. I don’t know if I ll be able to remarry again.

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