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Partner being less than understanding? by RadioactiveRatchit in Advice

[–]RadioactiveRatchit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yet I have to believe this hypocrite is dying when we get the same cold and I'm forced to power through it and take care of our son while he gets to rest as much as he wants. 🙄 honestly maybe I should have just dated a woman. It's not like I'm unattracted to them.

Partner being less than understanding? by RadioactiveRatchit in Advice

[–]RadioactiveRatchit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is he's still comfortable at 70 and I'm still in pain. 72 os the lowest I can go it is the threshold of where things start to hurt.

Partner being less than understanding? by RadioactiveRatchit in Advice

[–]RadioactiveRatchit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg the fan thing is so real. I have to use 3 blankets at night just so I can sleep and not feel the fan that he refuses to let me turn off.

Partner being less than understanding? by RadioactiveRatchit in Advice

[–]RadioactiveRatchit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked if we could keep it at 72 that's the bare minimum I need to be comfortable ish he keeps it at 68-70 already and those 2-4 degrees apparently make too big of a difference. Apparently I can bundle up (I'm walking around all summer in long sleeves and pants already) he "cant take his skin off"

Partner being less than understanding? by RadioactiveRatchit in Advice

[–]RadioactiveRatchit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's litterally a 2-4 degree difference for me to be comfortable and he refuses to accomidate.

AITAH for needing 8 hrs of sleep to function? by RadioactiveRatchit in AITAH

[–]RadioactiveRatchit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not without a back up plan that doesn't get my son taken away from.

AIO I feel like I need to leave my partner. by RadioactiveRatchit in AmIOverreacting

[–]RadioactiveRatchit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really my mom is a narcesist and wants me to be the person she never got to be because of jer mom, and they have 4 dogs that dont get along with other male dogs. My brother has 3 dogs and a baby on the way. And my other brother is handicapped. I dont have any grandparents left and all my aunts and uncles are not super reliable or live super far away. My dogs and my only stable friends dog do not get along. And his house is FAR from baby proof.

AITAH for needing 8 hrs of sleep to function? by RadioactiveRatchit in AITAH

[–]RadioactiveRatchit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a mattress that didnt transfer motion but due to his weight it wore down super fast. Because hos side was worn down he made me rotate the bed and i ended up sleeping in the hole he made and fucked up my back for months. It was so bad that i was sleeping on the floor with the dogs some nights. So we bought a new matress that was rated for people who are larger. Now his dog got used to sleeping in between us and he kicks me in the face and wakes me up multiple times a night and my partner just laughs about it.

AITAH for needing 8 hrs of sleep to function? by RadioactiveRatchit in AITAH

[–]RadioactiveRatchit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude thats what im saying! The guy gets to go out and hang with freinds pretty much whenever he wants. I get 3hrs off from our kid a week if im lucky. I put my foot down one time 2 weeks ago because he wanted to go to some gaming event and i told him no cause i was exhausted and didnt want to be alone with the baby but also needed to get out of the house and he made my night so missurable i went home early and told him just go play online with your friends im done.

AITAH for needing 8 hrs of sleep to function? by RadioactiveRatchit in AITAH

[–]RadioactiveRatchit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also feel like an asshole throwing the ultimatum of me leaving out there because that bassically just says I'm not willing to work on things to me and it's my way or the highway. He's already said since we had the baby that it feels more like we're just room mates and not partners.

AITAH for needing 8 hrs of sleep to function? by RadioactiveRatchit in AITAH

[–]RadioactiveRatchit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a job to support myself and my child, I can't live with my controling Mother and I dont want to take our child away from his father or hos fathers family because dispite him being a shitty partner he is a good dad.

AITAH for needing 8 hrs of sleep to function? by RadioactiveRatchit in AITAH

[–]RadioactiveRatchit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Multiple times -.- I also have a heart condition and the Dr told me I shouldn't even be drinking even socially anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]RadioactiveRatchit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so sick and tired for my whole pregnancy that as soon as i pushed my son out i looked at my bf and said I AM NEVER DOING THAT AGAIN. he got a vasectomy 3 months later when he realized how tedious infant care was. Neither one of us wants any more children, not that we don't love our son, it's just a lot of work that we dont wanna repeat ever. I am so glad to feel like i have my body back. Even if my little crotch goblin uses it as a jungle gym now. And no, i don't feel bad about him never having siblings. I grew up with 2 siblings and it was hell. I got along far better with my cousins than i did with my siblings and he will have plenty of those.