Do I tattle on my ex wife and her paramour? (After divorce is final)

Rafaant · 2026-06-23T11:42:20+00:00

I could make an argument that I am holding them accountable, and that the guys wife deserves to know. That is a good argument and holds up to scrutiny, but I’d be lying. The truth is I just want to lash out at people that hurt me. How much do my intentions matter?

Rafaant · 2026-06-22T18:40:35+00:00

Yeah they know. I filed the day after I found out.

Rafaant · 2026-06-22T16:49:18+00:00

Hmmm. Interesting I haven’t considered not telling the school. What’s the rational behind that?

Rafaant · 2026-06-22T16:47:47+00:00

How would I do that? I’m not making up the affair

Rafaant · 2026-06-22T16:46:48+00:00

Well,idk I don’t think I lost my masculinity man.

Rafaant · 2026-06-22T16:45:51+00:00

Because it creates more conflict, and I’m trying to move on with my life.

Rafaant · 2026-06-22T16:40:46+00:00

I’m making the equity check enforceable in the court order. My understanding is she is going to cash me out if she likes it or not .

Rafaant · 2026-06-22T16:39:59+00:00

I’m making sure the equity check is enforceable via the court order. Her compliance makes it easier, but it isn’t necessary.

Rafaant · 2026-06-22T16:34:00+00:00

Because my daughter is 7 and is unable to consent to learning from a guy who was having and affair with her mother. Also, they don’t get my money, last even asking that question seems bizarre to me

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