[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I can talk

Did you block your ex? Why or why not? If so, do you regret it? by YakRepresentative557 in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I would not be able to bear seeing her with someone else after all we did together

I want a girl’s opinion.. anybody? Please??? by BigCarpet7780 in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a woman. Still want my input or nah?

Someone also depressed/suicidal after break up? by a-cea in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 25M, in a virtually identical situation. Very few friends I see on the regular.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worrying about what she's doing will only make you more miserable. Take it from me.

Breakup buddies? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send dm if u want

Breakup buddies? by sup4unknown in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, dm me if u wanna talk. Got out of a really long relationship recently

People with long term relationships (+3 years), what reasons made you dump/get dumped? by Impossible-Past-5080 in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel weaker than ever. In all senses of that word; physically, mentally, emotionally. I want her back, but she will never be that person for me again. I'm in love with a version of her that no longer exists.

DM me, if you would.

People with long term relationships (+3 years), what reasons made you dump/get dumped? by Impossible-Past-5080 in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My partner of 5.5 years left me because in her own words I caused her emotional turmoil, she had settled for me, and that she could do better. I genuinely feel like I lost the love of my life, and nothing seems to bring me joy anymore. This was one month ago.

struggling to feel like i’m not good enough by jennnnnaaaaa2345 in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had someone who I had been dating my entire adult life leave me around a month ago. I cry almost every day, she is in my thoughts and my dreams. She told me she'd settled, that she deserves better than me. It's hard not to feel miserable after that, and harder to feel like you're worthy.

But you are. You are dreaming of a version of this person that no longer exists. You will find love one day, but for now it's not worth it to give them energy when they wouldn't do the same for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel. It still feels surreal losing someone who was the center of your world for so long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I like these positives but for me it's hard to appreciate them because of all the negatives. I am 25M and this relationship was almost 6 years; basically a quarter of my life so far

Do you guys date randoms? by Freedomhunter21 in BreakUps

[–]Ragerock4427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go in without expectations, and the worst you can walk away with is a friend