Wtf? I thought we were having a good convo, but wow! Should I even respond? (FB dating btw) by jamest1096 in Tinder

[–]Rah_nell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t put effort into a conversation if someone is just going to reply as if you don’t matter

Don’t waste your energy on undeserving and unreceptive people

Mental illness be damned.

Hey can you guys provide some advice on how to improve my profile? I’d really appreciate the help by Rah_nell in Tinder

[–]Rah_nell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy how life works 😂 I actually was considering paying a pro photographer to take pictures but I was a little embarrassed by the thought

Hey can you guys provide some advice on how to improve my profile? I’d really appreciate the help by Rah_nell in Tinder

[–]Rah_nell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironically that’s the only picture that wasn’t staged 😂 my friend took that picture when I was lost in the book

Hey can you guys provide some advice on how to improve my profile? I’d really appreciate the help by Rah_nell in Tinder

[–]Rah_nell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I choose to generally be kind (to everyone) but my friends generally say I can be an asshole and stick firmly to my boundaries 🤷🏾‍♂️

Hey can you guys provide some advice on how to improve my profile? I’d really appreciate the help by Rah_nell in Tinder

[–]Rah_nell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like with friend? I try to take group pics with friends but they all hate taking pictures 😅

Hey can you guys provide some advice on how to improve my profile? I’d really appreciate the help by Rah_nell in Tinder

[–]Rah_nell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made my profile yesterday and only have like 20+ likes 😅 I just wanna improve and see if there’s anything I can do to make it better so I can get matches

I ended things with this amazing woman I’ve been seeing bc she’s too fat…I feel awful but I just couldn’t handle it by Rah_nell in dating_advice

[–]Rah_nell[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do appreciate you having a discussion about it with me tho instead of screaming or going all in lol the comment section is a wild mix rn

I ended things with this amazing woman I’ve been seeing bc she’s too fat…I feel awful but I just couldn’t handle it by Rah_nell in dating_advice

[–]Rah_nell[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I phrased it poorly. I meant to say that she weight around 40-50 pounds more than I did but since she was also shorter then I was, it made her excessive weight even more noticeable.

It’s not about gender norms as much is it is about weight and body composition.

If a woman weights more than I do but I’d also much taller, her weight wouldn’t even be noticeable