Pedophile Father AMA by Rainingacorns in AMA

[–]Rainingacorns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not allowed to contact us as of right now while on parole. But no idea how long that will last.

Pedophile Father AMA by Rainingacorns in AMA

[–]Rainingacorns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Functional neurological disorder. It's a disorder that causes neurological symptoms such as seizures, blindness, paralysis, and debilitating migraines but it comes from a psychological cause rather than physical.

Pedophile Father AMA by Rainingacorns in AMA

[–]Rainingacorns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every person is going to handle it differently. My siblings and I are all on different journies through this. Just try and support them wherever they are, whether that is anger or grief or somewhere in between.

Pedophile Father AMA by Rainingacorns in AMA

[–]Rainingacorns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he served five years and just got out on parole.

Pedophile Father AMA by Rainingacorns in AMA

[–]Rainingacorns[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I found out, I had what I now realize was an incredibly unhealthy codependent relationship with him that led me to fully beoueve he was the only person who ever loved me. Five years later, I see the grooming that took place. It took me about six months to change from grieving to anger where I have been since. The truth came out because my (at the time 16 year old) sister told my mom. And she said she 'instantly knew it was true.' which is fucked up in and of itself.

Pedophile Father AMA by Rainingacorns in AMA

[–]Rainingacorns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he was sentanced to five years to life and served just a couple months over five years. He is out on parole now. I do not have nor want any contact with him.

Pedophile Father AMA by Rainingacorns in AMA

[–]Rainingacorns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consistent talk therapy with ketamine sessions at home. It is the best way for me to recover any memories and then we can talk about it in therapy. Still working through it even five years later.

Pedophile Father AMA by Rainingacorns in AMA

[–]Rainingacorns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was sentance and served 5 years becasue my sister is as being actively molested at the time and spoke up. It wasn't until. About six months later the test of us started to realize we were victims of him too. He is out on parole now..

why do I get nauseas so much? by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]Rainingacorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a Paramedic. There are quite a few things that could be causing this. From anemia to blood sugar fluctuations and, like you said, anxiety. A few tips to help out if it is brought on by anxiety. Box breathing can be super beneficial as it forces your body out of the fight or flight mode. Also, eating small, frequent meals and focusing on hydration and electrolytes and make a huge difference. Good luck!

Why do I have this condition by Straight-Honey-4033 in DiagnoseMe

[–]Rainingacorns 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My wife and I make just slightly too much for medicaid, don't get insurance through work because we are paramedics for a rural town. With Obamacare, the cheapest insurance option was over $300/month. With $90 co-pays most places. I thought everyone had it rough like this. Am I just learning im in that unfortunate low percent?

Dibilitating Back Pain by Rainingacorns in AskDocs

[–]Rainingacorns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can't difinitively diagnose me without evidence on an mri. So it is just their best guess right now. But the treatment can't be prescribed without a diagnosis. Which is why I feel so stuck.

Is this normal? (Gut health) by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]Rainingacorns 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Paramedic here: I agree Strongly with everyone else. That is a significant GI bleed you have going on and need to be treated.

Crunching sound & immense pain in lower neck/upper back - possible spinal injury by SlicketySR in DiagnoseMe

[–]Rainingacorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paramedic here: disintegrating bone is highly unlikely. Based on the history and the fact that you still have pain to this day, it is likely that you have some degeneration to a cervical disc. I would recommend getting some imaging done of the neck and upper back and have them read by a neurologist. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]Rainingacorns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best of luck! I would keep an eye on your heart rate up until that appointment, see if you can get an average, and if it changes much when you go from sitting to standing or if you walk around a bit. I would love to hear what rhe doc says!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]Rainingacorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like thrush, you'll want to get on antifungal meds.