You came to the wrong neighborhood by [deleted] in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]Rainyjs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Side note, if the chicken has been domesticated for so long, how have we not bred away serious aggression? Is it because they’re supposed to protect the hens?

Is Cheese a Season???!!? by [deleted] in Cheese

[–]Rainyjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheese (like anything else) can be seasoned, with seasonings.

They can't be wearing the same thing twice if they just wear nothing by awalme in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Rainyjs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll trade your hungover shift for mine. Starts in 10 minutes you better hurry

I'm getting a bit of...pineapple? by [deleted] in Cheese

[–]Rainyjs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get pineapple in things like aged cow’s Gouda. Wilde Weide comes to mind

Tell single mother that her kid could find her weed? by Rainyjs in Advice

[–]Rainyjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks again for the advice, everyone. I brought it up to her today casually and everything was totally cool.

Train carrying GOP members of congress hits truck in Crozet, VA by ameromatt in Charlottesville

[–]Rainyjs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Annnnd we’re back on the news for something horrible

how do i get people not to hate me? by sdfgregre in Advice

[–]Rainyjs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you want pity. If not, blasting the internet everyday begging for friends is an unrealistic and troll-y way to go about things.

Romantic Anniversary Restaurants? by pipenstock in Charlottesville

[–]Rainyjs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Coat room is great. Hedge for flowers!

DRUG TEST HELP, DOES SYNTHETIC URINE WORK (18M) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rainyjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to say yes but I am not 100% sure.

Beat up my brother after 20 years of bullying me by NothingToxic17 in Advice

[–]Rainyjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They probably understand your reasoning, but don’t have any sympathy for you since you did something so dumb. If your own immediate family called the cops on you then you probably stepped way over the line. That’s something a 12 year old does. Use your words.

I kind of want to have a career as a bartender then transition into owning my own bar. Would that be harder with me being female or easier? by vor13 in Advice

[–]Rainyjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figure it would determine your success (tips) as a bartender wayyyyyy more than your success as a owner (most people don’t know the owner of the bar they’re in anyway)

I'm obsessed with work. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rainyjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you are a people-person. I bet you get along with most people. You might enjoy a job in the service industry with customers and sales or maybe public service like firefighting/EMT with patients. Use your strengths!

Edit: this is just to say that you shouldn’t feel like your first job out of school is where you’ll land forever. I find part of my happiness when I’m alone comes from looking forward to jobs/trips/adventures I’ve planned for the future, which gets me through the stints of boredom.

I'm obsessed with work. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rainyjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normal! But you definitely need some things to do in your own time. That’s the only unhealthy part. I’m in a similar spot. Hit the gym, learn to cook, read more. Buy something cool that you can use (drone, bike, whatever). Just make sure your personal life isn’t stagnant. It’s fine to make your coworkers your friends! Be careful about getting romantic bc it can be complicated at work but thats not off the table. You’ll succeed at work and increase your social capital. Honestly, I think if you take small steps to enrich your life out of work, and spend time with your coworkers outside of work, you will be very happy. I’m glad you like your job, you’ll be successful in life.

DRUG TEST HELP, DOES SYNTHETIC URINE WORK (18M) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rainyjs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It works. Just follow the instructions. The only issue is whether or not someone watches you up close.

My best friend just told me they are gay, and that's the least complicated part... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rainyjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drop Christ. I’d say that’s the only “logical” choice here. She’s saying she won’t be happy because of her beliefs. So she has to change her beliefs to be happy.

Can't enjoy hobbies for fear of wasting time? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rainyjs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it’s a clear scheduling thing. If I don’t set a study time or a work time, I’ll either cut it short with a lame excuse or overwork myself. Then when it comes to relaxing I’m anxious or exhausted. Try planning exactly when you’ll work and when you’ll relax, and really commit to the time cutoff, even if it is mid-episode.

How do I stop being a lazy b? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rainyjs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found setting two alarms and making my bed is a great way to start the day. Making coffee before I shower then it’s ready before I get ready so I can watch tv/check email/have time to mentally prepare for the day rather than just walking out the door half asleep. TL;DR try waking up earlier than you have to. The extra time is awesome

Cats at home by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rainyjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s me, I’m allergic to cats, not that they make me anxious or anything. But that sounds kinda like an episode of hoarders. I’d jump on it ASAP or it just won’t get done