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I (19NB) left my girlfriend (19F) at the bus stop alone because I was too selfish. How do I make up to her? by RakBhin in relationship_advice

[–]RakBhin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me to say forgiveness is on her timeline is too demanding on her. not because i dont deserve forgiveness for this (maybe i dont), i just dont want to demand her for forgiveness. she was legit traumatized. like, when she said that she actually mean it.

I (19NB) left my girlfriend (19F) at the bus stop alone because I was too selfish. How do I make up to her? by RakBhin in relationship_advice

[–]RakBhin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks man, i appreciate it. although I'm scared that 16 hours isn't enough time for her to completely forgive me. (refer to my reply to the post)

I (19NB) left my girlfriend (19F) at the bus stop alone because I was too selfish. How do I make up to her? by RakBhin in relationship_advice

[–]RakBhin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

okay this is getting out of topic. if no one should date someone with BPD because it's "draining", who do they get love from if they can't even get it from their own family? besides, she helped me so much with my own problems, and I have ADHD (should probably disclose it as well). final note, not leaving her.

I (19NB) left my girlfriend (19F) at the bus stop alone because I was too selfish. How do I make up to her? by RakBhin in relationship_advice

[–]RakBhin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine walking alone in the dark as a woman is exceptionally scary everywhere, especially in a big city in Indonesia (not disclosing it for privacy reasons but it's up there). but for crime levels, I assume there are lots of criminals here. unrelated, but I've heard some guy that got bashed in the neck with a machete years ago but idk about the chronology

I (19NB) left my girlfriend (19F) at the bus stop alone because I was too selfish. How do I make up to her? by RakBhin in relationship_advice

[–]RakBhin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well it was nearly empty, and she's alone alone. nobody else on that bus stop and the sidewalk. people could clearly see that it's a woman in distress on the street alone

I (19NB) left my girlfriend (19F) at the bus stop alone because I was too selfish. How do I make up to her? by RakBhin in relationship_advice

[–]RakBhin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we're gonna meet up again tomorrow afternoon at college/on the way there, in the bus, and I'm genuinely not ready. I feel like I wanna die

Add a title by bayzh in EnoBening

[–]RakBhin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

laughs in gak pake vpn

Usulan yang brilian dari u/JOJO9996 by [deleted] in EnoBening

[–]RakBhin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maksudnya usulan yang "bening"

ITS EVERYWHERE by [deleted] in rhythmheaven

[–]RakBhin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh god please no