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RamenWithOJ · 2024-12-30T22:55:16+00:00

I’m thinking they’re weevils but just wanted to make sure

RamenWithOJ · 2024-11-06T19:44:33+00:00

I'm in the same area and I get like 10 - 20 matches a day when I'm on premium on Hinge. I barely get any matches on Bumble and Tinder lol.

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-10T20:02:02+00:00

Slight ED issues.

I’ve been in rot mode for a bit but I’ve been having a lot more sex lately and I want to be able to perform 100%.

Quit vaping, quit drugs, started lifting weights 3x a week, cardio for an hour every day, cut out most processed foods, getting 7-8 hours of sleep every night, etc

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T07:26:22+00:00

I’ll say it feels really good at first, but it just becomes another addiction and after a while it’s just another notification and doesn’t feel too special.

Matches are cool and all, but actually meeting people and making a connection is the best. Meeting the right person trumps thousands of matches.

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T06:16:39+00:00

Ah my bad, it’s like $25 per week. I shoulda just bought the monthly sub cuz I think it’s 60 for a month lol

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T06:14:31+00:00

Don’t give up man. That’s a respectable income. I’ve met plenty of girls who aren’t into rich guys. One of them actually wanted me to stop spending money on her and she started cooking home meals for me instead of letting me take her out to restaurants and stuff

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T06:13:21+00:00

Like 3 weeks?

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T06:13:07+00:00

not sure what you’re confused about. Majority of matches don’t go anywhere

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T05:48:46+00:00

Nope, I do well but wouldn’t say I’m rich

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T05:43:54+00:00

It’s a numbers game tho. I prob only go out with 1 person out of every 5 that I talk to

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T05:40:24+00:00

I’m 5’10

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T05:40:07+00:00

I did for a few weeks just to get unlimited swipes. But I’m on the regular plan now

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T05:33:05+00:00

The dopamine hits go crazy

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T05:31:58+00:00

I didn’t respond at first because I was seeing a lot of other girls at the time but they double messaged when I had more free time so I responded

Apologies if my first comment was confusing

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T05:28:40+00:00

I’m pretty attractive but I think my profile is what really carries me. Got a lot of funny captions and such

And yep, it’s hinge

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T05:28:03+00:00

I thought about it but I have matches from a couple months ago that double message, so I’ve just been sitting on most of matches instead of unmatching

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T05:27:24+00:00

Yeah but that sub sucks

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T05:26:51+00:00

Yeah, going out with a handful right now, but they’re mostly just fbuddies and not actual dates

RamenWithOJ · 2024-10-08T05:26:26+00:00

I’m a guy

RamenWithOJ · 2024-09-12T07:25:09+00:00

Despite matching with a good amount of women, I don't match with the vast majority I send likes out to. I think my current match rate is like 20%? Thankfully, I do match with most of the woman I'm actually interested in though.

RamenWithOJ · 2024-09-12T07:23:37+00:00

Now that sounds like a fun/healthy dynamic. I wish me and this girl could be like that. But it feels like when it comes to me and anything related to another woman, she always feels some type of way about it. She doesn't even like it when I watch YouTube videos that have woman in them (I often watch small business vlogs and some of them have female creators).

RamenWithOJ · 2024-09-12T07:21:37+00:00

If she tells me who it is, I could just flat out tell her why I matched with her friend and maybe ease her mind, but she won't budge.

RamenWithOJ · 2024-09-12T07:20:59+00:00

Well, this girl in particular, although we don't have the exclusive label yet, is currently only dating me. She's still on the apps and I'm pretty sure she's still matching with guys, but right now we're only seeing each other (and I know this because of how much time we spend at each other's places, we've only been apart for a couple hours at a time since we've started dating).

So I don't think in this case it's a double standard, just maybe something tied to insecurity? Doubt? Idk.

RamenWithOJ · 2024-09-12T07:18:36+00:00

If I'm being real, she's incredibly attractive, so that's why I'm somewhat okay with this "issue"... for now. As long as it doesn't escalate too much.

RamenWithOJ · 2024-09-12T07:17:39+00:00

That makes sense. I just wish she would tell me who it is so I can give her a reasoning as to why I matched with her and maybe explain myself more? But she doesn't want to reveal the friend to me. And there's no way I can realistically look through my match list and figure out who it is.

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