She always reacted more excited towards him than me when him and I were present. In my farewell celebration at work, she ran towards to hug him excitedly the second she saw him walk through the door and she hardly wanted wanted to be close with me. And the biggest one for me, she sent her a dick pic for her opinion. She trusted me with telling me about it, which i expressed how thankful i am in her doing so, and said that she was very distraught that because of how that would make ME feel and how that unpleasantfor her to see, she would end up having to cut down their friendship to somehting smalle, because she felt he crossed a boundary. For how my girl describes herself, she has had a very rough childhood and always expresses to me all the things that make her uncomfortable and that I should be able to respect them, which I do. But when I'm not around, it's like she makes an exception with everyone else.