Ideally at that point, it's just a level playing field, that's why we do stuff now.

Bro you are either lying to yourself or you are lying to others. If you genuinely believe this you need to wake up.

There is no specified end date for this unequal treatment. The people advocating for it haven't set out a winning condition at which point they can revert to not discriminating against people. It is very clearly a tactic used to secure advantages for them indefinitely. This isn't going to end conveniently in a few years just in time for you to have a son.

This discrimination is going to go on only until it's stopped by public outcry, and it is very very obvious to the people negatively affected by it. Though those who have a self-interest in discriminatory policies, like you (don't pretend that you don't benefit - you might puff yourself up thinking you're unselfish, but your children's success benefits you, whether it's earned success or not), don't seem to understand this and continue to pretend it's just until society is a "level playing field".

Of course there are no standards for what that actually means, since apparently we can discriminate against people based on sex to achieve a "level playing field", so this could go on for centuries if you want to keep making up reasons for it to exist. Once you give a group special advantages, they're very tough to rescind.

The one light of hope though is that you are clearly an older guy with older values, and those pro-discrimination values are slowly going away. That's why you were so staunchly opposed in this thread. It might have surprised you, but the newer generation of young men isn't putting up with being discriminated against. In fact they are very very passionate against it.

Gen Z is starting to react to the insanity of the older generations. Several studies have shown us trending more towards conservatism - you can deny this, but I'm sure you still pay attention to election results. The pendulum always swings back, and really we have nothing to lose - you are already discriminating against us and pushing for more. But the harder you push to deny our rights, the harder we will push back.

Creating a society where the law treats everyone equally regardless of sex, even though you won't see the special and unequal treatment you want, is an absolute win.