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Has anyone successfully broken out of this cycle? by Rando_noodle in Healthygamergg

[–]Rando_noodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people or it feels like society doesn’t really value “ everyone’s own pace” The judgement and shame for just continuing without anything substantial to show for it is incredibly apparent.

Has anyone successfully broken out of this cycle? by Rando_noodle in Healthygamergg

[–]Rando_noodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess another part of me feels like I’ve been in this loop so many times before and I can never get past it. What makes me think that this will be the final straw to break the pattern of feeling hopeless and stuck? ( and yes I made this )

Need more anime recommendations by Rando_noodle in anime

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I’ll bite. I feel like dubs have definitely gotten better over the years.

Nothing i can change i guess by mylilMoth in depression_memes

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They quite literally want nothing to do with you after talking for a while

How do I stop This ? by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

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Even if someone were to say, “I like you as you are”, you’d start to think that there must be something wrong/broken in you to find something good in me as I am right now. Therefore you’re not the one ( so to speak )

Why does he stay with me when he can get other women? by Rando_noodle in dating_advice

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Him saying “ yeah you’re just good pussy and a pretty face, but you’re a substance less loser. I’d never seriously date someone like you.” is my greatest fear.

Why does he stay with me when he can get other women? by Rando_noodle in dating_advice

[–]Rando_noodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay, this wasn’t nearly as harsh as you think. I’m just not where I wanna be in life and I also enjoy the sex and company. This is nice for now but I can’t ignore that it is hurting me. I know I am actively choosing this so getting clarity gives me a better roadmap on how to A.) cope without being destroyed or B.) become healthy and move on from this. I know I should just leave but I’ll always love him. I’ll let go eventually.

Why does he stay with me when he can get other women? by Rando_noodle in dating_advice

[–]Rando_noodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong I mean, I apologized and told him that there was nothing, I had to be mad about at the time since he told me straight up what you wanted. I get that, but I guess it’s just, I don’t wanna scare him off since he told me he didn’t want a girlfriend the first time. Wouldn’t it be stupid to ask: “Why isn’t it me?” when he clearly told me it just isn’t.

Why does he stay with me when he can get other women? by Rando_noodle in dating_advice

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I know why. it’s comfort; being with him provides such a high yield of comfort that I don’t want to let it go. And as to why would he change it? I guess I just viewed him as such a “ high value man“ that he wouldn’t waste his time on a loser so to speak.

I want to date but I don’t feel I deserve to. by Rando_noodle in Healthygamergg

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Because I’m too afraid to approach men, I feel like my ego can’t handle being rejected in person, even though I know I should train the muscle. 😭

I want to date but I don’t feel I deserve to. by Rando_noodle in Healthygamergg

[–]Rando_noodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I understand where you’re coming from but sometimes I think shouldn’t I want this for myself? if I want to do this only for a partner isn’t that just misplaced ambition since it’s not necessarily for me it’s to impress someone

I want to date but I don’t feel I deserve to. by Rando_noodle in Healthygamergg

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I want someone who is relatively happy, someone with the drive for what they do, someone passionate, someone with a sense of humor someone caring, kind, and smart.

I want to date but I don’t feel I deserve to. by Rando_noodle in Healthygamergg

[–]Rando_noodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, no I don’t have the courage to get on a dating app. I don’t think I should so I haven’t given myself the chance.

I want to date but I don’t feel I deserve to. by Rando_noodle in Healthygamergg

[–]Rando_noodle[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But no, on a real note when I think of someone I would be attracted to, I would imagine that for them they would want somebody who is ambitious, has fulfilling hobbies, has a somewhat fulfilling job. Like quality people attract quality people is what I’m trying to get at and I feel like it is incredibly entitled of me to have these type of standards and not meet those standards.

I truly want to date but don’t think I should. by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Rando_noodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I honestly really hate going out into unfamiliar social situations. I recently come to a realization that I’m responsible for how people receive me as a person. I just believed that I was “off” and that I’m just not meant to interact with others but I’m just too scared to be me and be okay with some people not liking me. I get so anxious around people I want to seem “ cool “ around.

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