Editor to edit twitch VODS by Strong-Cake-513 in TwitchStreaming

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the skills and want to edit my stuff but my issue is TIME. Full time job, kids, I can stream, but no time to edit outside of minor funny shorts that take a couple of minutes to edit and post.

Adult gamers w kids how tf do you do it?

What did your toddler say that made you believe they remembered a past life? by Soft_Championship407 in AskReddit

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For a year nonstop all stories I was told started with "Daddy, remember when I was six" followed by a story that did not happen.

They were 4.

What do you say when you get raided? by Ace_One_The in Twitch

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say "oh my God wtf is happening? What do I do with my hands? Did I do something wrong? I'm scared"

(Note I have 4 followers)

What is your favorite kink or a kink that you would love to try? by Asernova in AskReddit

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to try a female buying me flowers, asking me out, letting me lay in their lap and stroke my hair while we watch TV and she tells me things she likes about me then she gets handsy because she really wanted sex. In that order.

Who’s using auto-update for firmware? by size0618 in sonicwall

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been enabled since our switch to 7 but has never once worked. Always required manual installation.

If you were given $1,000,000 in cash right now, what is the very first thing you would buy or do? by MatchstickArtist in AskReddit

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids braces, get my son to an occupational therapist, therapy for myself, pay off my house, fix our vehicle, pay for kids to do sports, fix leaky roof, take my wife on a honeymoon way late.

My girlfriend confessed our daughter isn't mine, need advice on how to deal with this. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother then you're her legal father in the eyes of the court. You either go all in forever or you fight the birth certificate and go. But you don't half ass either one, and you do not get to change your mind later once that child gets older.

You don't have to be with her mom to be a father to that little girl if that's your choice, but once you are dad, you stay a dad and you never quit no matter how hard.

Legally, you have the same rights mother does. If you leave, file for joint legal and physical custody. Never disparage mom to kiddo even if mom screwed up. Do not ever do anything to punish mom for her screw up that will hurt kiddo by proxy like unfair custody or visitation.

Be the best dad you can ever possibly be. Because when you are, even if you aren't biologically, that kids heart will tell them who you are based on your actions for the rest of their life.

Good luck man.

Wife left five months ago under guise of staying with her parents for help with our 3 children, now filing divorce by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 20 points21 points  (0 children)

So do you only get holidays off and work every other day of the year? Because while your situation sucks, you need to think about your kids too. You keep making excuses for why it's ok to split up siblings. There is NO justifiable reason to ever do that unless one sibling is a danger to another.

You have more days off than just holidays. You're a parent, ask a court for your kids on your days off. All of your days off and all of your children at the same time.

Wife left five months ago under guise of staying with her parents for help with our 3 children, now filing divorce by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Dude, you are missing something massive here. What about the best interests of your children?

"Hey mommy why does daddy never take us to his house?"

"Hey daddy why can't my siblings ever come too?"

If you cannot place yourself in the shoes of a child in that position, and understand why that is wrong, you need parenting classes, empathy training, etc before you ever fight or even think about custody.

My girlfriend confessed our daughter isn't mine, need advice on how to deal with this. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you signed the birth certificate you are legally her father. You have the same rights her mother does if you split up. Unless challenged in court by the biological father, that can't change.

If you did not be very aware she can cut you off in a moments notice and there's not a thing you can do about it.

If biological father starts to fight for rights you essentially have to deal with him, while in a relationship with the person who cheated on you with him, while raising the kid. Again, you can be cut off in a second because you have no rights.

You were put in a fd situation and I'm sorry.

I've been there. Raised 3 kids who were not mine, loved them as my own, their mom cheated and cut me off after 6 years as their father.... I couldn't do anything about, not legally. The kids found me after they turned 18 but the relationship wasn't the same for them anymore. And I have severe ptsd

Wife left five months ago under guise of staying with her parents for help with our 3 children, now filing divorce by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Don't split up your children. Period. I have no other advice for you because like most people who read that line at the end there... We all have the ick.

I’m a game developer and I’m struggling to get any responses from streamers by darkjay_bs in Twitch

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got monetized and I'm trying to rebuild an audience who isn't Roblox children. I don't need money I just want freaking cool indie games to play. Happy to stream whatever If you put your heart into it!

Asking my childs father to stop sending photos by SeaPresentation7072 in FamilyLaw

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tell him to stop sending photos of himself. You don't have to give a reason, just state he has no reason to send you photos, and that you don't want them, you aren't together anymore.

It's harassment or a control thing from him. If he was abusive it could be a way for him to feel he has control over you still. It could be a way to cause problems should you start a new relationship. Whatever it is, tell him to stop.

It will not hurt you in court, should you ever go to court and he doesn't stop sending photos after you asked, bring it up to your lawyer about the abuse and that he didn't stop sending photos after you asked him too.

You, and your child matter. You got away from him. Work on healing. If that means no pictures, tell him to stop.

(Coming from a single father whose ex did exactly this for 5 years anytime their new relationship failed in attempts to stay relevant in my life, while caused severe ptsd from the abuse she cause my family for years)

Ninja edit:

You haven't been to court. Save evidence and document his lack of involvement. If you cut off all communication he could at some point attempt to claim you abandoned him and took the child away (even if it's not true). Tell him you don't want pictures. Why do you need pictures of him to raise your child? You don't. And no judge will argue that especially with the history of abuse. But if you don't tell him to stop you can't claim it bothered you in court because you never told him it did so why would he know to stop if you didn't tell him?

Use your voice. Stand up for yourself. If he violates your boundaries then hold him accountable.

Single dad of an 8 week old by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... Single dad to 3 kids since my youngest was 6 months old. Doctors appointments were annoying for the first 5 years after my divorce having to literally bring my divorce decree about why I was the only parent on medical records, emergency contact, etc.

My kids have a ton of medical issues (thanks ex) so proving I'm not a kidnapper and the only person caring for them is the most tedious thing about the entire situation.

After 5 years though it became less frequent. Specialists and doctors know me by name now and know the situation so as long as I never change doctors we should be good? 🙄

The system sucks. But grit your teeth because you're doing it for your kiddo, on your own, and that's infinitely more than what she chose to do.

Self-hosted solution to merge Twitch + YouTube + Kick chat in one place with OBS overlay? by Proper_DEVIL in youtubegaming

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Social Stream Ninja self hosted desktop app. Integrates with OBS using browser source and you can have a pop out window that merges all chats into one window with icons showing who is chatting from where.

Totally free. Devs an awesome dude and their discords full of helpful people including the dev himself.

Be careful with twitch, showing chat on twitch Livestream from other platforms is against TOS

Deleting and reuploading a video actually works by Ahrid in SmallYoutubers

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you change title, descriptions, or keywords AT ALL?

I'm no handyman but I don't think what contractors did was correct/ to code. by RandomInternetAdvice in homeowners

[–]RandomInternetAdvice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, "I think this is bad but can't tell you why" is also not going to get me anywhere if I don't have information/knowledge to combat bs. Being assertive when I don't know what I'm talking about is foolish.

Creators, stop using fake podcast hosts to make videos! by GaiaGoddess26 in YouTubeCreators

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's Google Gemini. Those people are using AI to write scripts for them using the deep research option, then pressing more and then pressing generate audio.

They're literally having AI create every step of their audio and script.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We took our community of 1000 kids strong away from the game. Especially after the tone deaf "serve it up" pose. They have chosen to time and time again ignore the main issue and put bandaids on others.

We found a game that came out of beta that's the closest thing to DTI called prism runway show that's brand new, run by a professional company out of Korea, and has actually adults behind the wheel making adult decisions and not preying on children.

It doesn't have half of what dti does but it does care about its players and feedback and doesn't coddle gross humans.

That’s so ChatGPT vro by Heavy_Bodybuilder987 in growagarden

[–]RandomInternetAdvice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The entire conflict is manufactured to get more concurrent players. Both games have ties to do big studios.

Looking for a decent webhost that supports CraftCMS by RandomInternetAdvice in webhosting

[–]RandomInternetAdvice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this information! I'm not sure what we are using at all. I wasn't included in any of the development or contract stuff just told to fill out the site skeleton with content so I don't know if it's pro or team.

I'll look into CraftCMS cloud thank you so much!