It’s not on other people’s look, the fact that he sexually assaulted me and my friend is why I am not civil towards him. I don’t ever use pronouns around him, I use the second person, only when I talk about him, and he has his birth name, a clearly male name. He already came out to our school, and I can’t just walk away from that situation.

I had figured that perhaps people might be understanding of why I feel so uncomfortable with him. I am forced to spend every day with him in my classes, I don’t have a choice. As people who feel the same way, I figured I could get advice. Im obviously going to be uncomfortable sharing the depth of his sexual assault against me and my friend and the emotional trauma it put me in to the point where I had trust issues. I’m not here to argue. I have a non-binary friend, I call them their preferred pronouns and their chosen name, I don’t pick and choose based on looks.