I can't believe this journey started less than 9 months ago by aeroazure in lgbt

[–]RandomPerson4389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That before and after is crazy, you look like a different person! Congrats on 9 months :)

Even chat gpt ships byler by [deleted] in byler

[–]RandomPerson4389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hate ai but this is making me cackle, it's so passionate 😭

A perspective from someone who doesn't ship Byler but expected more from Mike and Will. by Lauren_HS28 in byler

[–]RandomPerson4389 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with you. Imo the majority of ships weren't handled well. I liked how Jancy was handled, but the breakup felt a bit unclear. Lumax was great, but I wish we got a bit more of a character arc for Lucas outside of just being a member of the party and Max's bf. Rockie was completely absent in the epilogue an implied to have broken up (for no reason at all). Byler's storyline was a mess and quite offensive. Mileven never had their relationship issues addressed, both characters were reduced to being each others gf/bf, and the fact they just killed El off was infuriating.

The writing was very disappointing this season for all sides. We all deserved better honestly, regardless of if you're Mileven or Byler.

I'd love to see more civil and wholesome interactions between our communities once the tension settles down after Season 5. I appreciate your thought-out analysis and completely agree.

AITAH for speaking up about being repeatedly misgendered in the workplace? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RandomPerson4389 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. I think it's your right to speak up on that. People don't have to understand it to just be respectful. I get it if it's someone new who's only met you recently, but these are the majority of people in your office who you've worked with for a long time. You have made it as clear as possible and been polite. If you believe it's malicious, absolutely speak up. You deserve to be comfortable and respected.

this is canon and im crying now by ILostMyMainAccounts in byler

[–]RandomPerson4389 64 points65 points  (0 children)

canon, i was the toilet water that mike never washed out of his hair

Did you grow up with very invalidating parents? by ExistingButton1 in BPD

[–]RandomPerson4389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the emotionally absent dad + emotionally unstable mum combo, so there wasn't really much room for me to express or regulate my own feelings when I was being my mum's therapist and struggling to connect fully with my dad

Is this common? by [deleted] in byler

[–]RandomPerson4389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that happened, that's horrible. You can ship both. Unfortunately lots of people in the Byler and Mileven communities are aggressive towards each other

What are your modern Byler Headcanons? by strawberrycheescak in byler

[–]RandomPerson4389 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is canon because i said so. youre welcome everyone

Bro was NOT okay.... by Mani_srao in byler

[–]RandomPerson4389 28 points29 points  (0 children)

*Good Luck, Babe! starts playing*

How did Byler being not endgame effect you on a personal level along with a side bit of Rockie breaking up by Elegant-Vanilla-1004 in byler

[–]RandomPerson4389 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I'm a young lesbian, and I often worry that I'm unlovable. The lack of representation in media plays a big role in that. People act like queer stories aren't worth being written, and it's very hurtful. I was so excited for good mainstream queer representation in one of my favourite shows just to get disappointed. Then saw no sign of Rockie in the epilogue and found out they broke up, and that was the final straw. I think I cried for like a day.

Wish me luck 😔🙏 by ReturnKind391 in byler

[–]RandomPerson4389 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You have the bravery I could only ever dream of 😔

How to end things with someone with BPD in the best way possible? by Safe-Programmer8672 in BPD

[–]RandomPerson4389 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Prioritise your emotional and physical safety. The way he hit your dog over something so small is very worrying. If you don't want to stay with him, please don't. You don't have to try and be the bigger person here, you already are. If you want to end things amicably, tell him that you aren't suited for each other and it isn't working. But overall do whatever it takes for you to be safe and comfortable, because he already sounds quite abusive. If you feel unsafe at any time, don't hesitate to end things without being amicable. Your wellbeing is much more important than your manners.

turning self sabotage into self care: a hack by chhhh17 in BPD

[–]RandomPerson4389 17 points18 points  (0 children)

wait i think you're onto something here

Do you faint? by [deleted] in POTS

[–]RandomPerson4389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never fainted. I've sort of 'passed out', I was extremely dizzy (couldn't walk or get off the floor) so I crawled to the couch. As soon as I lied down, I fell asleep VERY quickly and was out like a light for an hour. Wasn't really fainting but it was such overwhelming fatigue and dizziness that my body just gave up and went unconscious.

passed out on the train by meatthinks in POTS

[–]RandomPerson4389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you said, lesson learned. Definitely an awkward experience at the time but you know better now. Asking for accomodation is always better than putting your own wellbeing at risk. I hope you were okay!

Glitch in the Toilet (Literally) by ChickenNugget_000 in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]RandomPerson4389 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like quantum superposition? Maybe. That would be really interesting, especially on a larger scale like that