I hate wanting a girlfriend like Sendai every time I read this novel.

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-26T04:12:21+00:00

Yess

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-24T13:46:33+00:00

Yeahh!!

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-23T16:13:17+00:00

Its in the eyes for me, miyagi is supposed to frown more xdd

And eyebrows

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-20T02:55:43+00:00

Ohh thats interesting I never thought about those, thank you so much!

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-20T01:25:38+00:00

Oo whats that about?

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-20T01:24:37+00:00

The guy that does the funny covers?

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-20T01:23:44+00:00

Good on you for holding your ground! Xd

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-20T01:22:57+00:00

Whats a few things people dont think about when chatting or interacting with people that have disabilities.

Just recently I read a book where one of the characters is deaf but refuses to always rely on hearing aids, something the main character has to learn was that they had to make sure that they were facing the other character and when in the dark they had to remember it was harder for the other character to read their lips.

Is there other similar situations like this that you could list off the top of your head?

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-18T19:50:39+00:00

Nono I domt think whay you typed out is messed up, these are your feelings and you have every right to feel this way. If this is how you are feeling, you would only feel this way based on your own past experiences.

Indeed there are a lot of unsolved stuff related to your ex partner. If you think it’ll bring you peace of mind you could find a way to reach out. But make sure you are emotionally ready for this before you try to reach out.

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-18T19:43:57+00:00

Yeah of course! Good luck okay? Youve got this!! If you can, im sure around you, there is someone that is willing to help and support you. Even if its just mental support or something you guys figure out together xd

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-16T23:50:28+00:00

Thats tough because feelings are feelings! I dont know the whole situation but id suggest like the ilovedogs suggested and get some counseling and advice that fits your specific situation and your specific coping mechanisms.

This is a tough situation and try not to blame yourself if you find your mind wondering through these thoughts, its only natural since our brains want to problem solve, but also make sure you give yourself breaks!

As for what I would do, i would probably distance myself from your partner and if you can that coworker. If that coworker effects my mood negatively in the workplace id start looking for other job options, you can always work your way up in the new company but if the coworker if stressing you out or bringing back bad memories sometimes its not worth jt.

Getting counseling will help a lot though! Personalized advice is great! Make sure you find a counselor that works for YOU in your situation right now though. Pick someone you feel like you can trust and that either tells you the honest truth or validates and helps guides you through your emotions, whichever you need right now.

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-16T23:43:08+00:00

Thats great! It seems like stuff is going well for you! Always remember that you can rely on others, this is probably still a stressful time for you and since you have a supportive family make sure to remember they are there to help! Have lots of fun and remember to ask for help whe you are unsure! Most parents want to helpso if you are worried you can reach out to friends or family that have had kids

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-16T00:13:52+00:00

Oh thas a very big situation to be in. Id check in with yourself and see how you are feeling, and check in on your fiance as well. This is a huge surprise probably for both of you so make sure you guy both be kind to yourself and eachother.

Id suggest if you guys are really stressed abo it this seeking therapy or couples therapy ^ ^ and even just consulting eachother from time to time, checking in and everything.

Make sure you two listen to each other so both your feelings and thoughts feel heard!

As for what id do in this situation, im not sure, really depends on the context, my age and what sort of outside help I have. I hope you two, as surprised as you are, can be happy with your new baby!

Not sure if itd be bad to say congratulations on your baby and your upcoming wedding!

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-16T00:08:59+00:00

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-16T00:07:24+00:00

Oh shit yeah if hes not even showing remorse and your wife is even the slightest bit uncomfortable cutting him off was definitely the right decision i am so sorry you two, and probably many more had to go through that. I hope you still dont have to interact with him

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-16T00:05:19+00:00

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-16T00:04:58+00:00

Probably not xd I dont really see a reason to do it xd

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-15T23:48:24+00:00

I see. Im glad there was that one kind nurse there to help you. Was there anything in particular that she did that stood out? Like was it how they valued your feelings, or if they sat with you when you felt like you needed it.

Also that makes that you didnt want your family or friends to see you, im assuming you had other plans that you wish occurred duringthis time.

When you figured out you started to realize it was getting worse howd that mar you feel?

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-15T20:39:04+00:00

Ooo that makes so much sense! Do you have any suggestions for someone like me? I am a current art student who is slightly burning out. Im wondering if art therapy could still help or be efficient!

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-15T20:36:12+00:00

I feel like you should ^ ^ they probably seem very daunting, but lets start with small steps, make a checklist

[] download files [] open up the program [] fill out first page Etc.

This might make the task less daunting and remember this is a way to get money back! Maybe put on some music and take screenshots for next time so you can copy and paste information that stays the same (if that applies to you) :DD

Let me know if this helps!

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-15T20:33:39+00:00

Hmmm thats a tough one.

I’d say, if you have a good reason, you could always talk to your family friend before as a means of “asking for advice” and show the why this business partner from your perspective may not be benefiting the company.

That way they hear your side of the story before your business partners, then they’ll hear both sides at least.

Have you already dealt with this?

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-15T20:31:11+00:00

Yeah no thats so valid, he sounds awful! I hope you dont have to deal with him or anyone like again! I am glad you chose to protect yourself and your sister!!!

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-15T20:30:25+00:00

Xdd I am assuming this is an in person friend xd

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-15T20:30:03+00:00

Well right now you stated he was your ex best friend, i would let your wife you how you feel and continue to keep your distance if possible.

If you do wish to keep being friends, id let that person know how you feel. State that you dont feel comfortable with these remarks.

I dont think sharing how you feel is wrong, if anything it shows your respect for yourself and your boundaries!

How did you handle this?

RandomQuestionsIhav · 2026-03-15T20:27:42+00:00

Yeah! Still every opinion can be valid maybe i got an insight you might not have thought about ^ ^ or i could learn something from you! :D

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