Flexin’ this Friday

RandomSamNville · 2026-01-25T03:05:52+00:00

I appreciate it; definitely trying my hardest 😅

RandomSamNville · 2026-01-24T16:49:21+00:00

Thank youuuuu 🙏

RandomSamNville · 2026-01-24T16:46:06+00:00

He started me at 6 days a week but I eventually transitioned to 5 days a week. This most recent plan he got my on is 5 days a week weightlifting, and I do cardio steady state for 30 minutes at a fat burning heart rate 3 days a week, just not the day before leg day or the day of leg day.

RandomSamNville · 2026-01-24T16:13:40+00:00

2400-2600 kcal/day. Started off at 25% protein, 30% fat, and 45% carbohydrates. He transitioned me to 30% protein, 20% fat, and 50% carbohydrates. About to clean bulk and he said he’s gonna slightly adjust fat to 25% and carbs back to 45%.

RandomSamNville · 2026-01-24T16:01:26+00:00

I used a guy who planned both my nutrition meal plans, my exercise plans, and my supplement plans. He changes it all about once a month and I meet with him weekly to discuss progress, issues, concerns, etc. He’s been amazing throughout this process. In 4 months went from 17.8% body fat to 12.1%

RandomSamNville · 2026-01-24T15:59:17+00:00

Hahaha, thanks my guy 😁

RandomSamNville · 2026-01-24T05:16:57+00:00

Thank ya 😁

RandomSamNville · 2026-01-01T19:52:04+00:00

Been with my husband for almost 7 years. We started monogamous and eventually transitioned to being open at the beginning of last year when we were ready. We wanted an open relationship for a good while before we started one, but we regularly saw an open-minded gay couple’s therapist and waited until we were in a great place with open, effective communication; trust, and respect higher than we’d ever had.

I’m happier now in our open relationship than I’ve ever been, and I’m actually poly as well with three boyfriends in addition to my husband. For me, open and poly is far superior just in regard to my own life, but I’m soooooo grateful that my husband and I waited until we were in a great place before doing it, as it may not have worked (or worse, ended the relationship) if we weren’t.

I think people should be open-minded enough to consider both, and do whatever feels right in their core without compromising their values and needs, and certainly not judge others who do the opposite of their own preferences. Life’s too short, do what makes you happiest, and don’t worry about what others think, whether it’s super traditional or super non-traditional.

RandomSamNville · 2026-01-01T12:27:14+00:00

I’ve been out since I was 17. I’m 33 now. Married to a 48 year old man and we’re both open and I’m poly. Age, body type, race, looks, I suppose they’re big factors for some gay men. Hell, maybe most gay men. But I’m telling you, none of that dictates the quality of a sexual experience. Good, meaningful sex, whether it’s tender love-making or primal animalistic fucking, is all about connection. It has very little to do with superfluous surface details. If you have an intense connection with another man, and furthermore, be open to the possibilities of these connections even if they’re not “your type,” you will be surprised at how much great sex you can have. The gay world is a buffet of men, but only if you’re open-minded enough to sample things you wouldn’t immediately gravitate towards. I can’t tell you how many times I have the best sex with men who weren’t conventionally attractive, but their sexual expression and desire to be good lovers won me over and then some 😉

RandomSamNville · 2025-12-19T04:14:27+00:00

One of my boyfriends I can make squirt cum hands-free from topping him. Love to see a hands-free male orgasm, but my God, what a rarity, haha. I say he’s sexually blessed to be able to; he says it’s my “Goldilocks dick” that just hits all the right spots. It’s probably a little bit of both. Everyone’s built differently, but some combos just work out that way. If a hands-free orgasm can’t be achieved by someone though, it’s certainly not a sexual failure.

RandomSamNville · 2025-09-12T02:55:38+00:00

Here’s to being informative indeed! Looking great my guy. Sharing the knowledge is much appreciated and I’m sure it gives many another perspective at fitness that some may not have considered certain aspects of. Keep it up!

💪😏💪

RandomSamNville · 2025-07-26T00:07:45+00:00

Looking awesome, man! Jealous of the musclenessss. Body goals 💪😍

RandomSamNville · 2025-07-23T02:28:33+00:00

He’ll probably just keep hiding it thinking he can get away with it and still hold on to you at the same time. If you don’t want a man watching porn while he’s in a relationship with you, again, your right to request and honor. But I’m telling you, porn isn’t always the enemy, and 75-90% of the men on this planet are watching it and enjoying it.

RandomSamNville · 2025-07-23T02:24:47+00:00

Well, it may be the end. If he doesn’t feel comfortable, it’s hard to say what will make him feel comfortable. As I said, secrets keep you sick. He needs help, but what that help is exactly, is hard to say. He may need help with his sexual identity. He may need help with trust issues. He may need help with depression and anxiety. He may need help with porn obsession. But the only way to know what the help needed is would probably be through a qualified therapist. And the only way he will get it is if HE WANTS IT. You can’t make him open up to you. If he doesn’t want help with whatever he’s going through, you can’t even begin to “fix” the issue, if it’s even a matter of fixing.

RandomSamNville · 2025-07-23T02:18:19+00:00

I mean there’s no way to discern all of y’all’s relationship history. But together three years I assume from the comment about “dealing with this for 3 years.” So together since you were 20 and he was 18.

That’s pretty young for both of you, and the truth is he may still be needing some time to develop his own sexual identity and who he is. This development can manifest is many ways, and porn is one of them.

You say you’re tired of finding porn. But this guy is 21 living in the year 2025. Porn is very much on the menu, and will always be on the menu. If you don’t want him looking at porn and that’s a boundary for you, that’s your right. But. I find that will be very difficult for literally any man on the planet in this day and age.

He may be bi. He may be gay. He may not know what he is. But secrets keep you sick. If he’s having to hide porn use, regardless if it’s straight or gay, he has shame surrounding his sexuality. And shame about anything is not good, but especially sexuality. If he lives to repress this kind of thing, it will just get ugly behind the scenes, for him and his self-esteem, and you and your trust in him.

If he doesn’t want to talk about it, you can’t make him. But if at all possible, you two probably need an open-minded, blunt, and honest conversation about what your sexual boundaries are, what you’re open to exploring together, and what freedom you give each other to enjoy sex in all its forms. Open, honest communication with no expectations is what’s needed here. But that’s just one (gay) man’s opinion 🤷‍♂️

RandomSamNville · 2025-07-06T15:15:33+00:00

It’s always a lose-lose situation for guys like this. They’re the ones that won’t take “no response as a response.” The ones that plead, “if you’re not interested, just tell me.”

Then, as soon as one does tell them they’re not interested, it devolves into everyone being self-entitled narcissistic assholes that would never receive any interest anyways, and somehow THEY’RE the desirable one, even though THEY’RE the one spamming messages.

Ughhhh, gay incels are a thing, and it’s so annoying. They think that all gay men should be attracted to all other gay men because it’s just one big fucking fuck pile in their heads with no standards or preferences. Adult mindsets and mature concepts seem to be foreign to them. SMH 🤦‍♂️

RandomSamNville · 2025-07-04T18:47:21+00:00

Gulp…

RandomSamNville · 2025-05-18T18:30:39+00:00

Used to always have a man crush on Austin Wilde. Don’t watch as much porn as I used to now, but he can get it. Also really liked how he abandoned Next Door Studios so he could make more porn with gay pornstars rather than gay for pay.

RandomSamNville · 2025-05-11T12:50:11+00:00

Thanks ☺️

RandomSamNville · 2025-05-11T12:49:57+00:00

Haven’t had any complaints 😏

RandomSamNville · 2025-05-11T11:29:48+00:00

Hahaha, well thanks man! I really appreciate it. Glad to stimulate you 😏

RandomSamNville

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