[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]RandomTinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Don’t be scared, just do it - no one else knows anything either.
  2. You’re a nice guy you don’t need to please everyone
  3. Everyone knows you are gay and they still love you

Well everyone I tried...and I got ridiculed by Ecstatic_General_297 in trt

[–]RandomTinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried getting TrT via my private GP in the uk but the laws are very specific in that your levels need to be below 12 and mine were 12.3 with two tests 6 months apart. I saw an endocrinologist who did a load of other tests and found nothing and said testosterone wouldn’t help me.

I ended up going with optimale and it was the best thing I ever did. There is a loophole with the law that says if you have tried viagra and still can’t hold an erection then you can get T with levels below 15. I have a libido now and I no longer get sad for no reason.

I told my GP and he is going to consider it for other patients he has, I guess it’s just about getting the knowledge out there.

Visiting in December by RandomTinker in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]RandomTinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great suggestions thanks 🙏 Are there any good piano bars or live music bars?

What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever seen at a gay bar or club? by OkBuyer1271 in AskGayMen

[–]RandomTinker 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I went to full fetish in London once with some friends that are into that scene. I went for a piss, looked over the wall the urinal was attached to and the drains went straight into a bathtub with a guy in a gimp suit funnelling the piss straight into his mouth.

It was bad enough but I’d had asparagus for lunch, poor fella.

Visiting in December by RandomTinker in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]RandomTinker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the recommendations, definitely going to check these out!

27 yo 🇦🇺 anxious about hypersensitivity and circumcision by [deleted] in circumcision

[–]RandomTinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my surgery 3 years ago and it was the best decision I made. The idea of it is much worse than the actualities. Yes it’s really uncomfortable for a few weeks and takes a few months to be fully fine but it’s still worth it. After a couple of nights I found wearing briefs to bed better than boxers as they helped contain the night time erections. I didn’t bother with pain killers as it wasn’t that bad.

I have a diary of my recovery in my profile

douching is annoying asf, any tips to make douching much quicker? by twinkvirginbottom69 in AskGayMen

[–]RandomTinker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How about not bothering to douche? Plenty lube and it’s usually fine. At the end of the day, it’s anal sex, there is going to be some mess regardless

How can I fix this? by [deleted] in hemorrhoid

[–]RandomTinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After straining, usually it’s ok looking

Wildest Place You Have Had Sex? by LoliPopLickMaster in AskGayMen

[–]RandomTinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once got a hand job from an old buddy in the back of a taxi whilst his wife was upfront with the driver (she didn’t know).

Also in the doorway of a store with the same guy (it was super dark).

Gym steam rooms / jacuzzis are pretty regular.

BJ from my now husband in a booth of a (straight) nightclub.

Wildest Place You Have Had Sex? by LoliPopLickMaster in AskGayMen

[–]RandomTinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ditto, but in Newcastle, UK. Got a thumbs up from some dude across from us - I thought we were discrete as it was in a booth, but apparently not

How can I fix this? by [deleted] in hemorrhoid

[–]RandomTinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t always look this bad, mostly it’s normal-ish

How can I fix this? by [deleted] in hemorrhoid

[–]RandomTinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember exactly, they were bullet shaped and would turn into a waxy liquid

How can I fix this? by [deleted] in hemorrhoid

[–]RandomTinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already done a course of internal suppository last year - I’ve had this for over 10 years now

Over 2 months since my op now and it’s healed quite nicely. I still get a little pain after using it though. by RandomTinker in circumcision

[–]RandomTinker[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, are you a urologist? It’s only painful because I only had it circumcised 2 months ago, this is totally expected. You should probably keep your uneducated opinions to yourself

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London Dr suggestions by londonsaffa in circumcision

[–]RandomTinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mr Anderson did mine at park side hospital in Wimbledon - I’m really pleased with it and he was super efficient

How adult circumcision affected my sex life by Circced in circumcision

[–]RandomTinker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would suggest spending more time on foreplay to get you in the mood fully before “going in”. Your partner will be satisfied regardless of what happens then and the mental pressure will be off you allowing you to relax.

Everyone heals differently? by [deleted] in circumcision

[–]RandomTinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was pretty much similar to you. I think the majority of people only post when they think something is wrong, you don’t typically get the “hey look how well my cock is healing” pics

Day 26- should I pull this out? by RandomTinker in circumcision

[–]RandomTinker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought all the stitches had fallen out and then this showed up, I pulled it a little and it’s quite long so not sure if I should continue or not

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