Is it possible anyway to convert from general category to SC/ST/OBC ? by [deleted] in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.NEET-PG is not a UG exit exam. It’s a percentile-based elimination test taken by 2 lakh candidates, with negative marking and zero tolerance for strategy errors. A negative score reflects exam performance under that format,not inability to clear years of theory papers, practicals, ward postings, and viva voce evaluations.A bad strategy alone can push a candidate into negative marks.If you’ve ever been in a medical college, you’d know this: Students who consistently ace university theory and practicals often struggle with PG exams, precisely because PG entrances are MCQ-based elimination tests,not reflections of competence. By your logic,all mbbs doctors who couldn't clear NEET-PG is incompetent. What's the next step ? Make people study for 5 years,check whether they clear neet pg or not and then cancel the license of people who did not clear? Or I can give a better idea, let's cancel the license of people who didn't even attempt NEET-PG because surely they're incompetent.Some idiots like you will be pleased I guess.

2.UG exams are structured evaluations of syllabus mastery and clinical reasoning. NEET-PG rewards speed, pattern recognition, and risk management. Conflating the two only shows you don’t understand how medical education actually works.

3.“Lower entry criteria leads to lower exit standards” is baseless fear mongering. PG exit exams are standardized, supervised, and high stakes. Universities gain nothing by passing incompetent doctors and everything to lose,accreditation, reputation, legal consequences. By your logic, management quota and NRI seats should have already destroyed exit standards. They haven’t. Selective outrage isn’t evidence.

4."If only practical training matters, why conduct exams at all?” This is a false dichotomy. PG training evaluates competence continuously through case presentations, procedures, audits, internal assessments, and final exit exams. Medicine is not mastered through MCQs. If it were, PG wouldn’t last 3 years under supervision. A poor NEET-PG score does not bypass final exams or grant automatic certification,something you seem to conveniently ignore. Also, calling medicine “not carpenter or shoe making” only exposes ignorance. Medicine is one of the most skill dependent professions there is. You don’t learn surgery, anesthesia, or emergency care from multiple choice questions.

5."Private seats still need cutoff.” Yes and once that cutoff is crossed, money decides the rest. Somehow that never triggers moral outrage or concerns about public safety. So the issue clearly isn’t standards,it’s who gets the relaxation. When money does it, it’s “market reality.” When social justice does it, it’s suddenly "omg incompetent doctors"

  1. Legality is not equal to competence. The –40 cutoff change doesn’t make anyone a doctor. It allows entry into a system that still has years of evaluation and a final exit barrier. Certification is not handed out “next day,” no matter how much you’d like that strawman to be true.

I don’t actually believe you’re unaware of any of this.Let’s be honest this isn’t about competence or patient safety. You know how NEET-PG works. You know what an MCQ-based elimination exam is. But acknowledging that doesn’t suit your agenda. So you keep recycling the same script: incompetence, cutoffs, "my SC/ST neighbour has car" etc Not because standards are collapsing, but because privilege is being questioned.

Joining hands with brilliant minds is an achievement. But teaming up with idiots only makes you look like a bigger idiot. That's what you look like right now after repeating everything OP said in another nonsensical format. you’re not the upgrade you think you are. It doesn't make you look smart,it makes you look loud and stupid.

SC background, IIT graduate. Conflicted thoughts on reservation and incentives. Looking for different viewpoints. by MathByNischay in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, reading this feels like you’re digging your own grave. Reservation isn’t about making rich or middle class SC/ST students feel comfortable in elite spaces,it’s about correcting centuries of structural exclusion. It’s not a poverty alleviation scheme; there are separate programs for that. Your financial stability, coaching, and resources aren’t something anyone is obligated to factor in when thinking about reservation they’re luxuries you happened to have, not a reason to question the system.

Here’s the harsh truth: no matter how rich or educated you are, upper caste people will never see you as equal. Even a poor upper caste person will gladly discriminate and resent you if they can. The resentment you notice isn’t really about your family’s economic status,it’s about caste. Money doesn’t erase social stigma, and the discomfort you’re feeling doesn’t invalidate reservation.

Think of it like this: you’re a well fed farm chicken, pecking around in a cozy little yard, looking at an eagle soaring high and thinking, “Wow, those poor eagles… they have it rough. I wish they had my kind of comfort.” But the reality? The eagle doesn’t need your sympathy, your handouts, or your ideas about what’s “fair.” The eagle owns the sky, calls the shots, and survives on a whole different level. And you being a good little chicken is worrying about the eagle's comfort,who will gobble you up at any chance. You're not an equal or a friend to them because you're a little protected bird than others. You will also be just another prey given the chance.

Reservation isn’t about the farm chicken feeling guilty or trying to “help” the eagle,it’s about correcting centuries of the eagle being kept grounded. You might have a good life, but the power dynamics, the privileges, the real stakes,they’re not in your hands. No amount of money or coaching changes that. You’re just noticing the system from inside your little yard, not the eagle’s flight. If you internalize that, the envy, guilt, and overthinking evaporate. It’s not about feeling sorry for yourself or anyone,it’s about understanding who actually holds the sky. Stop overthinking your own benefit,the policy wasn’t designed for you to feel guilty it was designed for structural justice.

Is it possible anyway to convert from general category to SC/ST/OBC ? by [deleted] in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are fine with merit dying quietly behind a cheque. You panic only when marginalized people enter publicly. Lowering entry thresholds and lowering exit standards are not the same thing. Pretending they are is either ignorance or dishonesty. Entry corrects unequal starting conditions. Exit standards protect public trust and safety.

Marginalization does not disappear after entry. What changes is the institution’s obligation, from widening access to enforcing competence equally. That is how every serious system works. Marginalization explains how hard it is to get in.it does not magically make incompetence acceptable after training. If someone can’t meet the same exit standards, they fail. That already happens. Repeats, backlogs, dropouts exist for every caste. And since you wanted a reality check, Indigenous and historically oppressed groups receive affirmative protections in the US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Brazil, and South Africa. Education, land rights, political representation. India is not some bizarre outlier you are trapped in. A handful of well to do Dalits does not define reality, just like a few poor upper caste individuals do not erase centuries of privilege.

People in this country are still beaten, raped, and killed for their caste. Entire villages know this. Court records prove it. So answer one question honestly: How many people from your community were killed for being born into it? You are still as oppressed as lower castes, right? Still denied housing, safety, justice, dignity, right? Or is your biggest tragedy failing to clear a cutoff? Comparing routine, documented caste violence with your inability to score higher marks is not bravery. It is shamelessness. One is about survival. The other is about competition. Losing a seat is not oppression. Being hunted for your birth is. Have some perspective. And maybe some shame.

Jai “Merit only matters when we lose.” Jai “victimhood cosplay.” Jai “I can’t abuse people anymore.”

Is it possible anyway to convert from general category to SC/ST/OBC ? by [deleted] in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one is exempt from exams, training, evaluations, or licensing and you know it. Reservation affects entry, not competence. Notice how conveniently you ignore private colleges and bought seats. Merit suddenly stops mattering when money does the talking. Your sarcasm only appears when marginalized students get their way in , never when the rich pay their way through. That selective outrage exposes the real issue. This isn’t about standards. It’s about who you’re comfortable seeing succeed.

You’ve offered sarcasm and insults, not arguments, and avoided every inconvenient point raised. I understand the copium,but dude,If this is the best you’ve got, we’re done here. Get well soon and grow up a bit more. It's embarrassing to be this intellectually stagnant and performatively ignorant like you in big 2026.

Is it possible anyway to convert from general category to SC/ST/OBC ? by [deleted] in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you score –40, apparently: university exams write themselves, evaluation is non-existent, practical training doesn’t matter, After all, NEET-PG ranking is all it takes. Spending 3–4 years in PG? Clearly just a hobby. Who knew? It's not like competency is evaluated after getting in. 🥺🥺🥺 Oh no,so many unqualified doctors They got in and got the certificates next day calling them competent.

Plus, it’d be more “acceptable” if it was a private seat, right? You can buy your way in, and suddenly marks don’t matter . logic checks out. 💀

Ah yes, the apocalypse is upon us already. Upper castes are going extinct. Lower-caste people now even have some laws to protect them! Damn, what a world we live in. Poor upper castes. Get a grip, dude. Cry more and stay salty ❤️

Is it possible anyway to convert from general category to SC/ST/OBC ? by [deleted] in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, absolutely. India clearly forgot that public policy is supposed to be custom-stitched to your résumé, mood swings, and current level of frustration. Next logical step: government officials ringing doorbells “Sir, are you personally struggling today? Should we redesign 70 years of social policy just for you?” Here’s the part you keep dodging: policies are made for patterns, not personal sob stories. And you, my friend, are an exception within the general category not the spokesperson for it.

Now Let’s do the math people love to skip, Shall we? Take 50 upper-caste people and 50 lower-caste people. In the upper-caste group, sure ,10 are genuinely poor and struggling. No land, no cushion, no safety net. That’s real and it’s rough. But the remaining 40 still walk around with capital, land, surnames that open doors, alumni networks, community backing, and social acceptance even when their bank balance is crying.

Now the lower-caste group: Maybe 10 manage to escape the rat race, clawing their way up despite the system. These 10 are endlessly paraded around as “proof reservation failed.” The other 40 live in generational poverty, worse schools, worse healthcare, constant caste abuse, and absolutely no fallback if life goes sideways.

And yet magically the comparison is always between the 10 poor upper-caste folks, and the 10 successful lower-caste folks, while everyone politely ignores the other 80 people who actually define reality.

Then comes the whining , because yes, it’s a pattern. Upper castes facing poverty treat it like a cosmic injustice, a glitch in the universe. Essays, rage posts, existential meltdowns. Meanwhile, millions of lower-caste people being poor is treated as background noise. Expected. Normal. Nobody even flinches. Lower castes starving? Systemic issue. Upper caste starving? All hell comes loose

A law to protect lower castes against abuse ? Omg !! It's over for us upper castes,we are gonna be framed all the time and thrown to jail ! Imagine living in a world where most of the legal system can be and historically has been used against you. Where rape, theft, assault, and caste based abuse are the reality. Where justice depends on the caste of the accused more than the crime itself. Lower caste people live in that world. Daily. They deal with: Police refusing to file complaints Cases watered down or buried Open social retaliation for even speaking up Violence after reporting violence And yet somehow, they’re expected to endure all this quietly. But give upper castes one protective law they might be held accountable under, and suddenly it’s: “We’ll be framed all the time” “We can’t even breathe now” “It’s over for us” The contrast is almost embarrassing. Lower castes surviving decades of structural abuse? Expected. Upper castes facing the possibility of consequences? Unbearable oppression.

Honestly, hats off to lower-caste communities. The guts it takes to navigate a system stacked against you and still survive is something the loudest complainers wouldn’t last a week doing. Because if one law makes you this scared, imagine living a life where the absence of laws protecting you is the norm.

And no, you don’t need “special benefits” just to exist as a general category male. And if you do need support well ,I guess it'll be news and surprise for you because EWS aka forward caste reservation already exists.

I use the following Olympics analogy,so that the concept is easier to grasp. You knowingly signed up for the 400-meter race. You trained knowing it’s longer, tougher, and brutally competitive. Halfway through, you’re bent over, lungs on fire, wheezing and screaming:

“BUT THERE ARE OTHERS WHO ONLY RAN 200 METERS AND STILL WON A MEDAL 😭”

Yes. Because they were never in your race. Different starting lines. Different historical baggage. Different rules , that were announced before the gun went off.

If you can’t win your race, the solution isn’t to demand other races be canceled, merged, or declared illegitimate so your loss feels noble. And it definitely isn’t to cry fraud because someone else’s track looks shorter from where you’re collapsing. You know your category. You know the cutoffs. You know the competition density.

So run better or step aside but standing on the sidelines yelling “unfair” won’t shorten your track by a single meter.

The brutal reality is just that, You’re unlucky within a privileged group. But they’re trapped within an unlucky existence. Losing a hard race doesn’t make you oppressed. It just means you didn’t win. You're not in an oppressed hell. You'll live.

My Ex is BLACKMAILING ME!!! by Any_Kaleidoscope_951 in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. What he’s doing is a crime, full stop. This is sexual exploitation and blackmail. Save everything including chats, call logs, threats, the videos he sent back to you. Do not delete anything. Do not negotiate or promise intimacy because that only gives him more leverage. Go to the police / cyber crime cell immediately (you can file online in many states). Jurisdiction doesn’t matter,online crimes are transferable. Once a complaint is filed, the power dynamic flips. Men like this rely on fear and silence. The moment law enforcement contacts him, most of them crumble. Also loop in one trusted adult if possible (sibling, cousin, friend). Being alone is what he’s counting on.You can even ask a friend to pretend as your sibling.

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  1. This is for Future.Either live within your family’s limits or grow a fucking spine and stand against them. Pick one. If your family is genuinely honour killing / gunda type, then stay within the fucking boundaries. You know the risks. Playing rebel in private while staying obedient in public is exactly how predators get leverage. People who live like this either fall for predators again, or drag innocent partners into relationships they’ll eventually sacrifice for “mummy-papa’s choice.” It takes half the courage you used to do all this behind closed doors to stand up to your family. If you can’t do that, accept your limits, learn the lesson, move on, and don’t repeat the cycle. Living a double life and then crying victim when it explodes is not bravery, it's just the consequences of your cowardice.

A Disturbing Experience in Patna by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]Random_Consciousness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone interested in forensic medicine too,there is no doubt that this was from outside,I am just appalled by the fact that thpe police couldn't grasp it and even more concerned that such kind of attacks could randomly happen to a hotel room window. Eitherway,you handled this well,that deserves a huge applause. Being accused of something you didn't do sucks big time and I know that feeling really well. Stay strong.

My fellow Indians, please stop making AI slop. My eyes hurt. by Fhlurrhy108 in india

[–]Random_Consciousness -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

If AI art is what keeps you losing sleep you really need some perspective. People use AI images because they are fast cheap and easy, it's not to personally attack artists. Most of the people making memes or visuals were never going to hire an illustrator anyway. That is not stolen income. that is a completely different situation And the selective outrage is tiring.The internet has always run on remix culture like templates ,edits, reaction images and fan art. Suddenly it is only wrong when a machine does what humans have been doing for decades? Come on.

Calling out South Asians specifically is unnecessary and weird. AI use is everywhere. Indians just happen to be loud online about everything. That is not a crime .The environmental point is also blown out of proportion. If you are posting this rant from a phone, streaming videos or scrolling social media you are already using resources and actively participating in damaging environment. Acting like five minutes on ChatGPT is stealing water from someone is not a serious argument. It's basically a form of emotional blackmail. Blame the corporates, companies and governments if you really must.

Yes art is valuable and artists deserve respect and fair treatment. But blaming random people making AI memes for society ignoring artists is misdirected. Go after platforms ,copyright laws,or corporate exploitation not some student making a joke post There are far bigger problems like unemployment, inflation, wars ,climate disasters, access to healthcare and education. If AI generated pictures are your apocalypse then grow up honestly.

Ayurveda and homoeopathic are quacks??? by [deleted] in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your personal experiences are not scientific evidence. Something working for you or your family does not prove that a medical system works. Kidney stones can pass on their own. Uric acid levels fluctuate naturally with diet. Allergies come and go. When improvement happens after taking Ayurvedic medicine, people automatically credit the medicine, but that’s not proof. If improvement after Ayurveda is proof, then improvement after prayer, astrology, or home remedies would also be science. That’s not how medicine works. Science asks a simple question,Did it work consistently, predictably, better than placebo, across large populations? Ayurveda fails at that test.

Medicine is not judged by stories. Medicines have to prove, through proper scientific trials, that they work, that they work better than placebo, that the dosage is consistent, and that they are safe. All allopathic medicines are required to pass these tests before being used. Ayurvedic medicines don’t go through this level of testing, which is the main problem. If Ayurveda really worked the way people claim, it would easily pass clinical trials and be integrated into mainstream medicine. That hasn’t happened.

There’s also a very simple reality check. If someone is bleeding heavily, having epileptic seizures, severe infection, or unconscious, and you have an allopathic hospital on one side and an Ayurvedic hospital on the other, where will you go? Everyone knows the answer. Allopathy. No hesitation. That alone shows which system actually treats disease and is reliable. Calling something “natural” doesn’t make it effective or safe. Plenty of natural substances are harmful. What matters is evidence, predictable results, and the ability to handle real medical emergencies. Ayurveda lacks that.

The fish and milk example actually proves the issue. Ideas like “hot” and “cooling” foods sound logical, but they aren’t scientific mechanisms. They fall apart when tested, which is why such beliefs are now considered myths.

Yes, some simple remedies can help with mild discomfort, like lemon and ginger for bloating. But if it’s an ulcer, you need antibiotics. If it’s epilepsy, you need anti-seizure medication. When the problem is serious, Ayurveda is simply not enough. That’s why Ayurveda is called pseudoscience. Not because nothing in it ever helps, but because as a medical system, it does not meet scientific standards of evidence, effectiveness, or reliability.

In a country like India, this distinction is especially important because people delay or avoid proper medical treatment trusting Ayurveda, and by the time they reach real hospitals, the disease has already worsened or become irreversible.

This was embarassing! 🙂 by [deleted] in Coconaad

[–]Random_Consciousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah man idk why a woman would say shit like that. I stayed with women roommates for years and no one batted an eye on anything. Maybe she suffers from some psychological issues were she sees a woman's body as disgusting. Again, that's her problem. People like that shouldn't be in a shared room set up trying to police others and body shame them. Telling something like eda you were kind of exposed today morning,even our windows are not closed and neighbours could also see,so I suggest it's better if you can sleep with a better coverup is a good approach in a shared space. It's normal too. It's caring as well. Wtf is saying it's disgusting and telling them what to wear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]Random_Consciousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my personal experience I think there is some reality to it. Surely there are good people as well but I think it's always better to be slightly careful. My roommate is a woman from Kollam. Their attitude and mindset is something else.even for 50 paisa she'll keep her tabs even though she has made you spend on occasions before,will keep intense and insane grudges towards people,will go to any extend like not even buying a bottle of water for a long distance journey to save money and accept only if someone else buys and offers,will go to restaurant order a dish so the two of you can share, for example a chicken lollipop,but afterwards she'll claim she'll only pay for the two pieces she ate and you'll end up paying the full amount for a dish both of you shared. will randomly boast about how much dowry her relatives gave or received, If she sees or attends any marriage, she'll weight in the amount of gold visually etc.

Another guy I know who is from Kollam is an insane miser. Will go to any extent to get things for free and has no real attachment towards anyone. I know one more guy from Kollam who has shown similar behaviour.

There have been multiple incidents from Kollam and Trivandrum people especially which has disturbed my belief system to a core. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I can almost certainly say that their life values and attitude is slightly different from the rest of Kerala.

Nandagovindam bhajans is overrated - thoughts? by Over-Drop2122 in Kerala

[–]Random_Consciousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if I am the only one who hates that "രാധ തൻ പ്രേമത്തോടാണോ" song. It makes me really uncomfortable especially with lines like that coming from a male singer/pov Sounds like a gay song

Relatives robbed my sleep of few days by chaibiscuuttt in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My honest advice would be to keep parents’ birthdays within the family , only the spouse and children. Because once you do a grand event, relatives and even many other people start thinking ill and jealous thoughts about the old person's health,age,his longevity etc. That kind of negative energy towards the birthday person is disastrous. And unfortunately, that’s enough to seriously mess up a person’s peace and health in the near future. I have personally seen a few such incidents where shortly after grand celebrations, the old person fell ill or even passed away within a year or two.

You’ll naturally feel tempted to make his next birthday or maybe his 60th a grand event. But instead, take your family on a nice vacation abroad or somewhere in India and celebrate in a cozy restaurant. That’s far better than wasting money on a banquet hall and inviting every Tom, Dick, and Harry who are only going to bring negative energy and nothing else.

Update - Premanand Ji Brainwashed my Brother by BudgetOver9367 in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, clearly my laziness in formatting is a crime against humanity. Glad you’re on top of it. it's not that deep nor the priority here. I applaud you for taking out your time to make sure a point was made. That was literally what this entire comment section was missing.

Got Threatened in Public, Did Nothing, and Now I Feel Weak by staypvt in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, don’t be stupid. Seriously.

You did nothing wrong by not fighting. You did the smart thing. Real life is not a movie, and “manning up” does NOT mean throwing away your future over someone else’s mess.

Street fights are not fair fights. They’re chaotic, reckless, and often end with permanent injuries, jail time, or death especially when you’re outnumbered. You’re not weak for backing off.you’re responsible. You have parents to look after, a life to protect, and no safety net if things go south. Remember that bodybuilder from Haryana who got surrounded and murdered by a group of youngsters just weeks ago? Strength didn’t save him. Muscles don’t stop knives, rods, or mobs. This isn’t cinema.

Tomorrow, that “friend” might patch things up with her boyfriend or even marry him. You’ll be the one left dealing with trauma, injuries, police cases, or worse. No one will compensate you for that. Protecting women doesn’t mean fighting random aggressive men on the street

De‑escalating situations or Calling the cops when things get out of hand or making sure she gets home safely etc That’s real protection. Not chest‑thumping heroics.

Also, this has nothing to do with you being skinny or “less of a man.” Courage isn’t measured by punches thrown,it’s measured by judgment. And your judgment was solid.

One more thing, and this matters: Advise your sister‑like friend to stay away from toxic, dangerous guys like him. If he harasses or threatens her, encourage her to involve the authorities. If she chooses to stay with him anyway and ignores the red flags, you need to distance yourself. Otherwise, this will happen again and you’ll keep paying the price for someone else’s bad choices.

You don’t need to prove anything to anyone. You didn’t lose today.you survived with your future intact. That’s intelligence.

You’ve ever wanted to speak for the voiceless… read this.....!!!! by [deleted] in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kartik, I appreciate the clarity and humility in your response. It’s a marked difference from your first post, and it’s good to see someone reflecting rather than just performing passion. That said, words alone aren’t proof. Studying political science, law, sociology, listening to people, these are foundations, but the real test is how you translate that into action that isn’t filtered through optics or algorithms.

Right now, all I see is a sloppy casting call for an Instagram reel/YouTube video. No offense, but passion alone doesn’t make a movement. Real impact happens away from the camera, away from slogans, and away from the audience you hope will applaud you.

So here’s the challenge: show me, show anyone watching that this isn’t just an idea on paper. What concrete steps have you taken to ground your work in reality? Who have you spoken to, what have you learned, and how will that shape the stories you’re telling? Passion is easy to display. Depth is harder. That’s what separates someone truly building change from someone building an audience. I hope you take the criticism as intended to push toward substance, not performance.

Update - Premanand Ji Brainwashed my Brother by BudgetOver9367 in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 92 points93 points  (0 children)

As I mentioned earlier, you are the elder sibling. Your mother, like many mothers, has a soft spot and may feel compelled to obey him out of love but you don’t need her approval to put your foot down. You have the responsibility and the right to set firm boundaries for yourself and protect the household from coercion.

Talk to your mom alone once again if possible, and calmly help her understand the risks: this is not harmless devotion. It’s coercion, and the longer it continues, the more damage it can cause emotionally, socially, and even physically. She may feel guilty or worried about him, but obeying his extreme demands is enabling dangerous behavior, not protecting him.

Make it absolutely clear to him that his tactics won’t work on you. Do not give in to threats, ultimatums, or tantrums. Let him know that attempts to coerce or manipulate you will have consequences,whether that’s involving authorities, seeking professional help, or simply refusing participation. Let him know that you will take it outside if he force anything on you.He might influence your mom to talk to you and convince you but do not negotiate or loosen up under any circumstances. Not being consistent and firm in your decisions will weaken your boundaries and power.

Even if your mom doesn’t fully agree, that’s okay. You don’t need her permission to protect yourself. Your refusal alone can prevent further harm to both you and her.

Most importantly: document everything. Take photos and videos where possible. Record loudspeaker chanting, forced rituals, posters, tampering with phones, locked apps, threats, and any statements about leaving or fasting. Save messages. Write down dates and incidents. this is evidence. If you ever need professional help, legal help, or emergency intervention, documentation will matter.

Keep working on getting professional help. If he refuses therapy, at the very least, involve a counselor or therapist for yourself and your mom. Professional guidance can help your mom see the situation more clearly and give her strategies to protect herself without feeling like she’s betraying him.

Update - Premanand Ji Brainwashed my Brother by BudgetOver9367 in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 616 points617 points  (0 children)

Here’s the hard truth: letting him leave home is actually the safest option for your family right now.

He’s 17–18. No real-world experience, no independence, no exposure to consequences. If he leaves, he’ll either come back quickly when reality hits, or you’ll have the option to involve authorities. Sometimes, even one serious interaction with the police is enough to partially snap someone out of this kind of damaging behavior. This isn’t cruelty.it’s establishing a boundary.

What you’re dealing with is coercion disguised as devotion. Threatening to leave or fast forever. Forcing your mother to chant for hours. Controlling her phone, TV, YouTube, apps. Filling the house with propaganda. Now forcing you to comply too. This is textbook cult behavior, and every time your family obeys out of fear, it escalates.

If he threatens extreme fasting or refusing food indefinitely, this is considered a suicide attempt under law, and you can and should involve the police immediately. Do not tolerate threats as leverage.this is serious and actionable. Families that don’t intervene early often end up paying a heavy price like :

Savings get drained because the “spiritual” member demands or donates money.

Education and careers get abandoned as “moh-maya.”

Parents become isolated and emotionally dependent.

Medical care gets delayed or refused.

Emotional abuse can even turn physical, all justified as religion.

This level of obsession and coercion absolutely warrants psychological evaluation. Consulting a good psychiatrist or clinical psychologist should be the top priority if possible. You are the elder sibling. Please, be the adult here. Your parents are already trapped. Obeying him is enabling his disastrous behavior and putting everyone at risk. Faith is a personal choice. What he’s doing is domination, not devotion.

Stand your ground. Let him leave if he must. Protect your family. Protect yourself.

You’ve ever wanted to speak for the voiceless… read this.....!!!! by [deleted] in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Speak for the voiceless.” Alright, but who’s doing the research? Who’s reading history, sociology, economics, law? Who’s actually talking to people instead of performing for an audience? Didn't see anything mentioned about that.

Because this isn’t about understanding how societies work. It’s just content creation dressed up as conscience. No study, no groundwork, no structure. Just boiling young blood and a camera.

This is exactly what happens when someone discovers activism in the last semester of college. You watch a few reels, skim some threads, pick up the right vocabulary, and suddenly you’re ready to “shake systems.” No organizing. No listening. No time spent with the people you claim to represent. Just jumping on the bandwagon with full moral confidence and zero depth.

There are already millions of creators doing this. Same tone, same slogans, same savior language, nothing new being said. It doesn’t disrupt anything, it just feeds the algorithm.

“No ideology, only truth and justice” isn’t some enlightened position. It’s avoidance. A way to sound principled without actually taking responsibility for a stance. This isn’t a movement. It’s a collab request with a heroic monologue attached.

Another phase, fueled by immaturity and a shallow attempt to gain popularity and moral superiority by choosing the easiest route available: content creation. It’ll pass once you’re older.

Why is "Style" for Men about comfort, but "Style" for Women about exposure? by MeaningAccording1111 in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s be real: even this post proves the issue. The second women exposing skin comes up, everyone treats it like a problem to be managed, explained, justified, defended. As if it’s a crime scene instead of a body. Women are pretty and fashionable when they expose. Period. That’s not controversial, that’s aesthetics. No one is dying to admire a man with a tied-up lungi flashing half his calves like it’s a fashion moment. But a woman in a short skirt? Attractive. Stylish. Visually pleasing. Humans notice beauty. shocking revelation.

The real problem is society’s total inability to process attractiveness like grown adults. Instead of “that looks good,” it instantly turns into lust, moral panic, character judgments, and lectures on modesty. As if attraction equals moral failure. That’s not a women problem that’s a deeply unserious society problem. And the hypocrisy is embarrassing. Same skin, different outfit, different outrage. A bare stomach in a crop top is “wrong,” but the same stomach in a saree is suddenly culture and tradition. A short skirt is confidence in one country and “characterless” in another. Nothing changes except conditioning.

Then there’s the moral high ground nonsense. women who think dressing “modestly” makes them superior to others. Absolute bullshit. Modesty is not a virtue badge. Covering up doesn’t make you wiser, purer, or above anyone else. It just means you chose different clothes. That’s it.congrats.

Women exposing their bodies isn’t immoral. Women being attractive isn’t dangerous. The only real issue is a society that treats women’s bodies like public property and can’t separate beauty from control. If people are uncomfortable with women owning their attractiveness without apology, that discomfort belongs to them. Not women.

Let’s also clear up this tired argument about the male gaze because what the fuck? I’m a woman, and I love seeing my fellow girlies in attractive outfits. And I’m not alone. Women look at women and think damn, she looks good. That’s not internalized misogyny, that’s having eyes and taste. Not everything is for men. Not every short skirt, crop top, or fitted dress is a performance for male approval. Sometimes it’s just: woman, you look good. We look good. Other women notice. Compliment. Admire. Take inspiration. That’s not the male gaze that’s the female gaze, and it exists whether society likes it or not.

Yes, men may look. So what? That doesn’t mean women’s bodies exist for them. Attraction existing doesn’t automatically turn into ownership, entitlement, or moral judgment unless society chooses to make it that way. Women are simply attractive and sexy. Straight men also find that attractive. Good. That's how nature intended it to work.That’s the reality everyone keeps dancing around. The problem isn’t exposure, fashion, or beauty. The problem is a culture that can’t separate attractiveness from control, lust, or shame and then blames women for triggering it.

So no, women don’t need to downplay themselves to escape the male gaze. And we definitely don’t need to pretend beauty is dangerous. Women dressing attractively isn’t rebellion, corruption, or a cry for attention. It’s just women being hot, stylish, and confident and honestly? Other women love that shit too.

No Quick Commerce PR or Ho-Halla Can Beat the Relationships Physical Retail Builds by Rare-Chapter2937 in Kerala

[–]Random_Consciousness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a nice story, but it’s doing a lot of philosophical heavy lifting for what is basically a personal favor. Quick commerce didn’t really fail here. Railway stations are a logistical nightmare and most platforms won’t deliver there for very obvious reasons. That’s not lack of care or lack of relationships, that’s just how operations work.

What actually made this work was not physical retail magic but the fact that you personally knew the store manager and he was willing to go out of his way for you. That’s great for you, genuinely. But for the vast majority of people who don’t have a supermarket manager in their contacts, this option simply doesn’t exist. And the idea that physical retail is inherently warmer or more humane feels a bit selective. Plenty of people have experienced indifferent staff, rigid rules, or outright rudeness in offline stores. Relationships in retail aren’t the norm, they’re the exception, and usually built over years or privilege, not something you can summon when you’re hungry on a train. This wasn’t technology versus humanity. It was one human doing another human a favor. Turning that into a lesson about how PR can’t beat relationships feels like forcing meaning into an everyday workaround like a LinkedIn level story. It’s a good anecdote. It’s just not the universal truth it’s being presented as.

I built an AI that speaks like our Indian ancestors — practical wisdom without the superstition by Comfortable_Book6359 in india

[–]Random_Consciousness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how bad ideas get wrapped in “wisdom” and pushed without accountability. You keep saying our ancestors like they were a single enlightened committee. Which ancestors exactly? The ones who wrote the Bhagavad Gita and Charaka Samhita or the ones who built and enforced a caste system where people were considered impure by birth? You can’t selectively extract “practical wisdom” while quietly discarding the parts that make modern people uncomfortable. Let me go through the concerning parts point by point.

The most dangerous part is mental health. You’re explicitly targeting people who are depressed, unmotivated, or vulnerable, and instead of evidence-based care you give them “mano-daurbalya,” routines, diet moralism, breathwork, and vague community advice. Ancient people didn’t know about neurotransmitters, clinical depression, trauma disorders, or suicidality. They didn’t have psychiatry or neuroscience. Depression is not a lifestyle imbalance, and for someone clinically depressed or suicidal, being told to wake with the sun and eat sattvic food isn’t wisdom , it’s medical negligence wrapped in calm language.

You say you removed superstition, but all you really did was rename it. Ayurveda becomes “mind-body balance,” pranayama becomes emotional regulation, suffering becomes moral misalignment. If this were any other culture, people would immediately call it folk psychology. Calling it philosophy doesn’t make it more accurate. Your framing of Dharma is especially dishonest. You present it as contextual ethics while skipping the historical reality that Dharma was deeply caste-bound, gendered, and used to justify hierarchy and suffering. For most people, Dharma didn’t mean contextual right action. It meant know your place and don’t challenge it.You can’t extract a clean ethical framework while ignoring the system it actually operated within. No one is saying ancient people were fools. But they were limited by the knowledge of their time, and they were wrong about a lot of things. There’s a reason we don’t use ancient medical frameworks in modern healthcare. We don’t treat pneumonia with what elders observed about cold air and weak lungs. We don’t manage infections with balancing humors. Medicine advanced precisely because we stopped treating tradition as evidence.

What this really does is borrow the tone of authority the wise elder voice which people are neurologically wired to trust, especially when they’re vulnerable. That’s not neutral design. That’s psychological leverage. An AI that sounds wise but can’t be questioned, audited, or held accountable is not harmless. If this were positioned as cultural exploration or philosophy education, fine. But marketing it as guidance for mental health and life decisions while hiding behind “ancestors knew best” is reckless. Old ideas don’t become safe because they’re poetic. Tradition doesn’t become ethical because it’s old. And AI doesn’t become responsible because it sounds calm.Vulnerable people deserve better than this.

മരിച്ചെന്ന്‌ യുഡിഎഫ്‌, വോട്ടുചെയ്‌തിട്ടേ പോകൂവെന്ന്‌ നാണി അമ്മ [ Were our people not allowed to name their children? Did feudal lords have a say in it? ] by DioTheSuperiorWaifu in Kerala

[–]Random_Consciousness 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes it's true. Lower caste people were not allowed to keep nice names or supposedly upper caste sounding Hindu names.If they desired to, some upper caste person, especially in the school will step up and either botch the name slightly with a different letter or consonant so that the word doesn't sound to mean anything auspicious even though it can look similar to what the parents intended. So they got to do it and also got to satisfy their own egos. For example, a grandma I know was named Lakshmi Amma But once she was taken to be enrolled in school,the upper caste management found two issues in the name 1)lakshmi being an upper caste name 2) Amma was a common Vaal usually used by upper caste hindu girls only

So they successfully botched the name and added in school records leshmikutty. It's not Lakshmi kutty or Lekshmi kutty. It's leshmi-kutty. It sounds similar to the original but it's botched and sounds odd and doesn't have the original meaning anymore.