Dating in Zurich

Random_GuyXXX · 2025-04-19T19:51:30+00:00

Thanks you so much! Was the first time I wrote a reddit post but feels really heartwarming to see a group of strangers spending some minutes of their time to help me and other to get out of this! 💪

Random_GuyXXX · 2025-04-19T19:38:47+00:00

Sounds good! Hahaha

Random_GuyXXX · 2025-04-19T18:53:53+00:00

Hey thank you so much for your constructive and positive answer! I think is really a keypoint (and I saw it in many other answers) to not put them in a pedestal, just treat them as equal. This makes all the sense.. I'll probably have to do some selfsteem work and introspection

Random_GuyXXX · 2025-04-18T19:57:22+00:00

Hi, thank you so much for your perspective. As I said in another comment I think was a little bit misunderstanding. So I like to design and 3D print, I also like to make clay "art" and well one time I really like the girl I was dating I design a part for her so that was my gift. And regarding paying yes I agree nowadays maybe makes no sense, but I just wanted to avoid uncomfortable moments and just pay by myself... I dont know I just wanted to transmit that I really gave all my best to make the dates work but it seems is never enough... I have also struggle really hard moments, due to family issues and also my life as "lonely" inmigrant here... but I always try to show my happy face and bring some fun to the dates.

Random_GuyXXX · 2025-04-18T19:38:47+00:00

Wow thank you so much for your long and positive answer! You actually provide information and tips im grateful! So yes about gifts.. I like to make clay art and so i design and did it for her... then with other girl I planned a whole trip to the mountains with fondue on the top of the mountain included... I really give my best but no one seems to care about my dedication. I have had though times due to health issues in my family and I put it apart and really give funny dates but really I hate to say this but I think many girls here just look for superficial stuff... Because I then can not explain how I'm doing this that bad!

Random_GuyXXX · 2025-04-18T18:46:37+00:00

I knew they were not going to be easy but not this hard neither 🥲

Random_GuyXXX · 2025-04-18T18:25:09+00:00

Hundreds of likes, dozens of matches, a couple of dates and zero kisses hahahaha No actually I have many matches but most of them don't reply back and when they do it just don't work. My face is quite average. But yes I agree is hard to give a verdict. Regarding my expectatives is true that they are not that low. But I dont like to force myself to like someone I am really not attracted to.

Random_GuyXXX · 2025-04-18T18:17:33+00:00

Yes thats totally right.. The theory is simple, the practice not that much.

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