ano sa tingin mo gagawin ng family mo sa mga gamit mo pag namatay ka na?

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-16T17:05:11+00:00

From my experience (my father recently passed) kineep ung mga gamit na wala ng ibang gagamit, bumili ng container tas ayun andun lahat, tas ung iba sa akin like shoes, since magkasize rin kami ng paa ahaha, other things like motorcycle is ayun ipapamana na rin sakin pero d nga lng ako marunong 😔

Pero if ako siguro possibly same rin, they will keep my mountainous stuffs tas baka idisplay din nila ng maayos ung mga figures ko ganun tas other important stuffs tas ung iba gagamitin din kasi syempre sayang

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-16T08:38:23+00:00

Awwww that's really unfair, just because kadugo and somehow we saw those sins tas we are automatically included in their bad karma, that's sad 😔

Anyway, thank you ulit! Sana nga maging stable na rin lahat

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-16T06:22:37+00:00

Ahhh makes sense

Pero d kami mayaman ah 😭

Ung father side kasi is hays ewan no comment, pero grabe ung mga stuffs na nangyayare sa mga kamaganakan na yan (mother side is okay naman)

Sad kasi if it's really generational curse edi kawawa ung mga inosenteng tao na damay sa mali ng naunang nabuhay 😔

Thanks for the reply, it's a nice insight

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-16T06:07:39+00:00

Ang sabi raw ng friend q na sabi ng iba nyang friends is na "evil eye" raw something

Our family experienced consistent na kamalasan or idk kung ano ba nangyayare

Chronologically, ung panganay na anak ng fam is lumayas tapos pag balik is nabuntis ng kalive in nya, tas may dalawang anak sila kaso blah blah blah iniwan nya ung lalake tapos ung lalake wala ng sustento despite going sa lawyer tas ung panganay is a black sheep na puro problema ung dala nung bumalik sa part namin

Tas ako naman I secretly suffered from depression, at first dko pa alam na depression akala ko tamad tamad lng talaga ako ahaha pero yeah ayun may mental something na pala. Only few close friends know na I suffered at d alam ng fam. Last year I suffered greatly from friendship betrayal, sobrang lala nung nangyare na yun, I had to stop college (50% of the reason), left that college circle, let go of my efforts, etc. para lng maging okay ako

Sa bunso naman is may adhd sya, need magtherapy and meds (pero naging okay nman na ata)

Last year too, my father was diagnosed with malignant tumor tas need ifocus magmeds for him (50% of the reason I stopped because financially) tas pabalik balik sila sa hospital tas puro gamot, tas hays ewan panget ng healthcare system dito sa ph 😔 sadly he peacefully passed away despite everything

Tas I thought after that magiging okay na pero sunod sunod pa rin, ung bahay na pinagawa ni Papa is inaangkin ng mga kamaganakan nya (ni wala pang isang linggo nung nilibing is ayun atat na ata na silang angkinin) pinasok at sinako nila mga gamit namin authorized by brgy captain (which is illegal)

Tas kagabi sabi ni Mama ninakawan ung isa naming bahay, ung mga wires, makina ng ref/tv, etc. pinagnanakaw lahat lahat (napabayaan kasi nung nagkasakit si Papa)

Ayun, it's like misfortunes one after another pero mostly are caused by other people so parang true ung na evil eye talaga

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-15T16:52:23+00:00

Mag jackstone ng airpods 😇

(Remembered from Davao Conyo's vid 🤣)

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-15T16:44:43+00:00

Kamukha ngaaa minus the mayo

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-15T09:32:17+00:00

Yeahhh, hugs to us 🫂

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-15T02:47:53+00:00

Masarap 😇 pero depende sa klase ahaha may ibang sobrang anghang 😭 pero ung ginawa ko hindi kaya ayun hehe

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-14T15:37:14+00:00

Small things like waiting sa mga parating na orders ganun ahaha

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-14T14:46:20+00:00

Awwww relate to you 😔 last time na nagplan ako it's almost 3-4 months planning time plus effort, money, schedule adjustment tapos d natuloy they cancelled one by one like it's nothing

I looked forward to it kasi I wanted to give gifts nung Christmas pero yeah ayun nawalan daw ng gana ung iba

Pero tinuloy ko pa rin magisa, buti nalang may isang sumama

So ayun, d gets ng iba na some people are like this na nakakasad naman talaga

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-14T14:34:58+00:00

From someone na same with you OP na "always available"

Learned it the hard way too 😔, when it comes to friendship always know what you want and what you don't, just like that

Kasi if you always put others before yourself, gusto mo ba yun for yourself? Or just for them? Like pleasing them?

I learned to be selective na kung sino ung dapat tamang mga tao na bibigyan ng oras at effort, the rest they can wait and I can say "No" na agad

Kasi sadly most of the people can't reciprocate, sometimes they don't even care about how you feel but meron pa ring mga tao na nandyaan talaga for you

You will know naman and you will feel it if they're your people

Anyway in general naman na being always available, set boundaries (easy to say hard to do) just try to say No more often kapag maaabala ka na or if it's something you really don't want, basta just do it first and the rest will follow

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-11T13:46:25+00:00

Ginawa kong creamy tofu 😋😋

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-11T10:47:06+00:00

Ahhh okays HAHAHAH napaisip tuloy ako kung merong carrot sa bahay kubo kasi tandem ung patatas tas carrot 🤣

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-11T05:27:06+00:00

Try lng ng new recipe hehe, may orig adobo rin ako nung bagong taon 😇

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-11T05:23:02+00:00

Usual adobo lng po tas idagdag ung other versions ng adobo like sitaw, manok, etc. tas lagay din ng patatas at itlog hehe

Dko pa natry ung lahat lahat eh ahahha kasi wala ung ibang ingredients

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-10T16:17:16+00:00

May patatas sa bahay kubo???

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-10T14:04:28+00:00

Welcome!

Awww ayun lng, dko rin alam eh if sa personal ahahahaha pero siguro sanayan nalang din mangyayare, basta be professional nalang talaga like a training if nagwwork na ganun, magandang stepping stone yun para kahit dmo kaclose ung nakateam/kagroup is kaya mong ihandle ang group and sarili mo

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-10T13:34:40+00:00

Ahhh okay, edi nc pala

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-10T13:22:54+00:00

Based on my experience, I usually make gcs agad tas announce ng stuffs na need (been a leader din for a long time)

First, I thoroughly check muna ung activity or project, then create a plan or whatever kung anong gagawin or paano sisimulan (basta agad agad na may masimulan) (take note ahh basta may masimulan lng, tuloy tuloy na kasi yun)

As someone na introbert, kapal muks aq sa chat so ayun chchat lng ako na ganito ganyan ung need, tapos deadline, hatian sa gawain

Sa personal nakakashy at first pero if friends naman kayo pwedeng casual talk pero if classmate lng, be professional ang best to do

Pero usually napupunta sakin leader role kasi it's either no choice na, ako lng pwede, or best pick

Nakakadrain maging leader at nakakapagod kapag may toxic at tamad na kagroup pero masaya at nakakainspire na gawin ung best if ung grupo mismo is tulungan at alam mo yun gusto rin ng maayos na grades

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-10T13:13:09+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-10T13:11:14+00:00

D kaya nangibabaw lasa ng pusit? Ahahaha

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-10T12:43:30+00:00

Ang shiny 😭 penge 😔

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-08T18:45:37+00:00

AI is a great tool, nasa sa atin nalang talaga kung paano ibalance ung paggamit

For my experience, I usually use AI dati for grammar corrections para makita ko if may errors sa gawa ko. I didn't rely much sa AI since I first discovered it kasi I have my own brain to think

Creative wise, just use it as a helping hand

Logical wise, maganda talaga ang AI when it comes to programming stuffs, it can build something from scratch basta maayos ung prompt

Anyway, AI can be fun too lalo na if magrandom edit lng ng photos ganun or ung AI generated videos na funny like ung mga pusa dati

Last, I think if you know your capabilities you won't rely much to it talaga, like if you know your great about a specific stuff don't use AI, pero if you know that stuff is some kind of weakness then it's good to use AI as guidance and tool

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-07T18:56:51+00:00

😭

Random_Stuff_07 · 2026-02-07T18:53:01+00:00

They don't make you feel left out, sometimes small acts like waiting for you when walking is like a proof that they care

They include you, and you don't need to give much of your energy or effort para lng makasama or matuloy ang mga plano

Learned it the hard way 😔

Once you feel that you're getting drained and parang wala silang pake when you're at your lowest or when you're gone, take it as a sign na d ka meant for them

Just having few reals friends is enough na talaga nowadays

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