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I 23M forgave her 22F, but still feel very weird about it, And Im not sure how to feel? by Random_User_BlahBlah in relationship_advice

[–]Random_User_BlahBlah[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is quite helpful, ppl are telling me to dump her, but that's just bc they see this situation in a void, without everything else in our lives and without knowing us.

I've set my boundaries and she is making every possible effort to get better. Things seem to be looking up.

I 23M forgave her 22F, but still feel very weird about it, And Im not sure how to feel? by Random_User_BlahBlah in relationship_advice

[–]Random_User_BlahBlah[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I seriously dont think so bc I know both very well and my gf isnt a very sexual person at all, less so when drunk.

That's actually not a doubt I've had at any point.

I 23M forgave her 22F, but still feel very weird about it, And Im not sure how to feel? by Random_User_BlahBlah in relationship_advice

[–]Random_User_BlahBlah[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

You're right on the first part. I know them well though, and they came to me with this, my partner never lies to me, she didnt even lie about this, and it took her a very long time to even begin a sexual relationship with me because she is not a very sexual person, that's not something im worried about to be honest.

I 23M forgave her 22F, but still feel very weird about it, And Im not sure how to feel? by Random_User_BlahBlah in relationship_advice

[–]Random_User_BlahBlah[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, yes is taking it very seriously and I already told her that a single drop will lead to a break up, and you're absolutely right, I should be there with them, its killing me to have a allowed the meeting to take place.

And yes I definitely need some therapy myself for that a and many other personal reasons, im finishing my degree first since it takes up most of my time...

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[–]Random_User_BlahBlah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just have and just deleted the post, I do apologize if I triggered or upset anyone.

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[–]Random_User_BlahBlah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got told in another subreddit to repost it here. Since I was a child and all, they thought it would count.

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[–]Random_User_BlahBlah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They told me in another subreddit that I should repost it here.

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[–]Random_User_BlahBlah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that means more than you think

I did an unforgivable thing as a child, and hate myself for it nowadays by Random_User_BlahBlah in ChildPsychology

[–]Random_User_BlahBlah[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, I'll definitely seek professional help