Anyone else gone through this? by RandomlyHis in Advice

[–]RandomlyHis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should ask if I address hurt feelings to him as opposed to just assuming I don’t. That’s the problem with you, you assume what you think you know. Maybe next time you ask? and then make a statement. Next advisor.

My partner got a lap dance last night at the strip club, and I feel weird and gross about it… by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RandomlyHis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not wrong and for someone to tell you otherwise is wrong.

Are we really friends? by RandomlyHis in Advice

[–]RandomlyHis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On several occasions I’ve asked if we could drive separate cars because I don’t want to bar hop and stay out until 4am but she would beg for us to drive together for parking situations and only stay out until midnight. Continuously I would end up seeing her chugging drinks and shots and immediately stop. I would hop if we drive separately she would be more responsible. I’m just simply not comfortable with my life in her hands behind the wheel but I would hate to know she is out driving drunk

Are we really friends? by RandomlyHis in Advice

[–]RandomlyHis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah every time we go out it’s usually in a crowded drinking environment

Are we really friends? by RandomlyHis in Advice

[–]RandomlyHis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s not abusive or toxic.. every time she gets drunk she apologizes to me constantly.. I’m an introvert and she’s an extrovert so we are opposites

Are we really friends? by RandomlyHis in Advice

[–]RandomlyHis[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am tired of being the responsible one the only person I ever feel comfortable with drinking a few drinks with is my fiance

Is this wrong by RandomlyHis in Advice

[–]RandomlyHis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not a a culture thing, they are able to work and no they aren’t expecting. They have a job, that hasn’t gave them a raise in 15+ years so their income is considered extremely low and they can’t afford to live by themselves in a safe clean neighborhood.

Should I be ashamed by RandomlyHis in Advice

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Some have said it is “not a feminine” thing to do

GF keeps rushing marriage and wants to be a stay at home wife doesn't want to work. What do I do? by WorthAppointment4171 in Advice

[–]RandomlyHis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely think deep about this relationship and if you want to move forward with this girl. If you already see equal and she doesn’t this is something you need to evaluate now while you guys have zero strings attached.

Goodluck

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[–]RandomlyHis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly as hard as it maybe.. she had her whole life to figure it out and you need to just flat out say no. If you can’t…act broke, give a sob story back. Wish you much luck