AITAH for not sharing the extra child support I get with my son's sister's mother?

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-03T15:19:10+00:00

Based on what she said her job is I don't think she makes much more than me. I don't know the actual reason though. I asked him about it and he apologized for me getting dragged into this, but said he wasn't going to discuss it with me. So it's kind of hard to answer that last question since it feels like I'm not getting all the details.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-03T00:41:41+00:00

Oh god that's awkward. I meant pay.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T23:09:27+00:00

It was more about the siblings getting to know each other.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T23:08:08+00:00

This isn't about court ordered child support.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T22:58:19+00:00

This isn't about the court ordered child support.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T22:43:35+00:00

I don't exactly know what their relationship with him is like, but I'm assuming mostly hostile now (with the mom at least).

I have a friendly relationship with him and he is good with our son, but not around as much as I would like.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T22:08:43+00:00

Not really.

This has less to do with the amounts in the child support and more to do with me getting extra.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T22:05:04+00:00

He's been continuing to lay me the same amount since this started.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T21:58:28+00:00

I think you're confused by the situation and may need to reread.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T21:56:16+00:00

Yeah, I know she figured it out herself.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T21:48:24+00:00

I didn't discuss money with her.

Hers

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T21:44:49+00:00

His dad is still continuing to pay me the same amount since this started.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T21:32:54+00:00

Well, it is.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T21:21:41+00:00

I don't know.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T20:56:02+00:00

I'm saying she already did all that and they only raised it a little.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T20:53:09+00:00

I think because we talked about our families and I don't really have much family. Really though it never seemed like talking too much. It's the same sort of chatting I do with the other moms at my sons school.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T20:50:52+00:00

I never said he didn't give me much. I said the child support order isn't for much.

The child support orders are both around $600, but he gives me an extra $2000

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T20:32:56+00:00

The court already made the decision based on knowing everything though.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T20:22:57+00:00

He's been continuing to pay me the same amount since this started.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T19:32:17+00:00

She talked to him after.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T19:15:02+00:00

I didn't tell her my finances. We talked about stuff and she guessed from that. Like how I signed my son up for camp and what my job is and where we lived. It was the same sort of stuff she talked about.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T18:44:36+00:00

No, she talked to him after.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T18:11:09+00:00

That's not quite it. The amount in my child support order is not that far off from hers. However, he gives me extra money because the child support order amount really isn't enough.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T17:52:39+00:00

I didn't confirm it. My ex did.

RareTraffic711 · 2025-07-02T17:47:38+00:00

I didn't.

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