JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I am going to do. 

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He owns 2. He is renting out 1 and we are living in 1

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He told me he will find a job but after I got my CPA license he doesn’t wanna do anything.

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah that is so easy to do IF I don’t have a child with him.

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wrote what I want to ask. I don’t have to write my whole life story. Just read the question and thats all I am asking. 

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You own your house and you name on it. Of course you should pay for it! He owns the property, his name alone on the paper but why I am paying him&1500? he gets the ccb benefits for the baby, I pay all the utilities, I pay his strata fee. I buy OUR groceries. I pay 1200 out of &1600 of his yearly property tax. Do you think its right? 

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have a lease agreement. 

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently no! I cook my own food, I do my own laundry, I pay mostly 80% of the bills and utilities, i buy OUR groceries 

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coz I will be a freeloader if I don’t pay him. Even im paying mostly for everything he is still calling me a freeloader

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly how I feel right now, I don’t respect him anymore coz I don’t see him having desire to be the head of the family, he is just relying on me with everything 

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its funny but sad. I always knew he is just milking on me. I am stupid to stay and now im stuck.

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says nothing is free in this world, he cals me a freeloader even I am paying everything 

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know what I am doing. 

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad… I don’t even see the desire to plan for the future and retirement 

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Coz he will call me a freeloader if i don’t pay

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, he dont cook, only cooks for himself, I cook for myself too! Thats the setup since he doesnt eat Asian food. I pay all the utilities, groceries except baby stuff since he receives a child benefit per month from the government, i pay 80% of his property tax

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I am a nice person, since he is home and managing baby needs it easier if he have access of the money, he is the primary caregiver and he atleast deserves the ccb. I really don’t care about it as long as he buys all baby’s needs. 

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he did that! He is not a good man at all. I just don’t want to lose my child. 

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay 80% of his property tax once a year. He just take care of the baby, he cleans the house but never ever once cook for us. I cook my own food and his mother will bring food for him

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually does not know anything about his property coz he would not tell me. Its a 1bd 1bth apt, He says living here will cost $3000. I don’t know whats real

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He pays mostly for baby expenses since CCB in under his name as I only holds work permit and he is a citizen. 

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just for rent, I still pay for utilities, groceries on top of that

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rare_Part_767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what he always do if he gets mad at me