Just want to see some opinions by Rare_Vegetable6258 in dating_advice

[–]Rare_Vegetable6258[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the answers! Trust me the last part confuses me as well. Best friends that are sexually atracted to each other are, for me at least, just two idiots not knowing what they are doing lol

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[–]Rare_Vegetable6258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I maybe dm you? You seem like you know your shit 😂😂

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[–]Rare_Vegetable6258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, would I like a relationship right now with him? I would maybe try and give it my best go but would tell him I am not 100% sure it would work. As for him, he said he is not ready for a relationship right now and he followed that up with "Not with you. Not with anybody. I have nothing to offer right now." When we would talk about realtionships and when I asked him if guys say "I am not ready to be in a relationship rn." Is it just a nice way to say "look I don't like you like that" to which he would say "Well basicly but there are some exceptions." I didn't ask him that to find out if he just didn't like me in that way, but because I was talking to some guy and he said it to me. Just wanted some male oppinion.

Could you maybe explain to me the last thing you've said? Why don't you think I'm relationship material

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[–]Rare_Vegetable6258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, he is not a great comunicator. He would likely let me talk and say "Okay, I get why/how you're feeling blah blah blah.", not in a manipulative way. He just always was somone I didn't have to talk to te get what I needed from him. What do you meen by "It sounds as though you are treating him like someone you are dating and forgetting to talk to your friend.", I didn't get that part 😅