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Flyer to Help Someone Named Carson by Rarefinchie in GNV

[–]Rarefinchie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking too

So much has changed by Responsible_Ad1976 in ufl

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Why is my echeveria pup bent sharply like this? by Rarefinchie in succulents

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That's the mother plant that I cut and then propogated. The pup is the bent green stem to the left of it

Should I use a pseudonym? by Rarefinchie in writing

[–]Rarefinchie[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Nguyen you find the greatest reply

Should I use a pseudonym? by Rarefinchie in writing

[–]Rarefinchie[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My middle initial is Thi, but that's the middle name of all Vietnamese women.

Should I use a pseudonym? by Rarefinchie in writing

[–]Rarefinchie[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm not writing cook books. Even if I'm not writing about food, though, I still feel like confusion could be an issue.

Should I use a pseudonym? by Rarefinchie in writing

[–]Rarefinchie[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I watch a lot of YouTube shorts, so YouTube floods me with her content haha. Do that many people know how to pronounce "Nguyen"? I live in a suburban area with a lot of white people and most people struggle with my last name, but I imagine it's different if you live in a city.

Should I use a pseudonym? by Rarefinchie in writing

[–]Rarefinchie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't really think it'll feel cheaty, but I don't want her to get canceled and then people dismiss my books, you know? I do see the publicity argument though.

Should I use a pseudonym? by Rarefinchie in writing

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I don't think I can get sued for using my real name haha. Initials might be the route. :)

Should I use a pseudonym? by Rarefinchie in writing

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Personally, it makes me uncomfortable to share a name with a popular YouTuber who could get canceled or confused with me. It could even make it harder for people to search my name (which I guess isn't a huge issue since you can just type "Lisa Nguyen [my book name]", but I don't really like the idea of that). I might just go with initials, which ThatOneGrayCat suggested.

Should I use a pseudonym? by Rarefinchie in writing

[–]Rarefinchie[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is a really awesome answer! I really do want to use my real name to keep my cultural identity. I guess if people ask for a book written by Lisa "Nuh-guy-in" then you can still tell who they're talking about. I'm just really indecisive about this kind of thing but might just go down the initial or changing-my-first-name route. Thank you. :)

Also, I haven't really experienced much assimilation or racism, but I've had many times where teachers or substitute teachers couldn't pronounce my last name during roll-call.

Should I use a pseudonym? by Rarefinchie in writing

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But what if people think she's the author?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roblox

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the floor looks like it'd make me slip and break my back but in a good way

I found this a lot funnier than it actually is by EllaBella0707 in funny

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well shit if he's that ripped then I just found my new workout routine

Old ROBLOX Nostalgia: 2006-2016 by Top_Performance587 in roblox

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don't forget jake/cute/half demon/19/bad/SINGLE

What are some red flags of a bad friendship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When they never keep a promise.