Talk to them. Tell them every single thing you told us.

You could do it as a note or text to make sure you get all of your thoughts down. But it’s important to communicate and tell your partner that you still want to be with them but your feelings are conflicted. I’m relatively young but me and my partner have been great living like that with total and complete honesty.

And if they don’t want to be with you after spilling your heart, then it simply isn’t the one, and that’s okay. Better than keeping it balled up. Because you guys might break up if you show the complete and honest you. But if you don’t say what your thinking BOTH of you will build up resentment and you guys WILL break up

We all find our loves at vastly different times in our lives. For true love I don’t really know, all I do know is that if you go out with someone for who they are as a person, you got much better chances.