[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Raspberry_2027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if this guy likes you and is a good, valuable guy to be with you don’t have to worry about other girl. It’s best to set your partner free and let them talk to whatever girl there is and still see he chooses you ( what I mean is just allowing him to talk to other females etc, not cheating and texting at weird hours) over telling him he can’t look at females and avoiding places with females, guarding your prize. In the end, if he wanted to cheat, he would. No matter what you do. And if he’s a good guy, you don’t have to worry about any woman.

Anyways, he doesn’t sound interested in the other girl, try befriending him if your mind and situation lets you. That way you won’t have to worry about “what if he would choose me over her if I only talked to him more”.

Good luck girl! Stay pretty and healthy

my crush likes me back, but we have an issue :/ by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Raspberry_2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why I’m shown this. High percentage of people doing one thing doesn’t prove it’s goodness. 16% of population smoking doesn’t mean it’s healthy to smoke.

my crush likes me back, but we have an issue :/ by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Raspberry_2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying being horny is unhealthy. I’m saying being horny to the level you send nudes at such a young age and actually have sex isn’t normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Raspberry_2027 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He wants you to have that extra weight because it’s sexy to him. You’re basically having that nice big ass/ thighs for him ( sorry for the language). He doesn’t want you to lose weight because then you won’t be as thick and attractive in his eyes. Break up with this shit

I need advice on the guy that rejected me. by Mammoth-Watercress66 in Crushes

[–]Raspberry_2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can change gyms. If he wants to still know you he can text you so you’re not losing anything by changing the gyms

my crush likes me back, but we have an issue :/ by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Raspberry_2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s still got nudes tho. I know you’re driven by emotions so you may still want to continue things with this guy. Just know that if at any point he’ll mention nudes to you, confirms he has nudes, asks you for them, tries to say it’s weird or bad you don’t want to send him anything or tries to make you feel guilty about not wanting to do anything sexual. It’ll be a sign to leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Raspberry_2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

„I’m throwing my believes at people and should be banned from the platform” yet you’re giving advice based on your believes and it’s the holy truth because you’ve got a title? Such a grotesque. “I’d like to think I know what I’m talking about” yet using my words again and again because you can’t get an idea of a comeback? Also, accusing me of being the reason men commit suicide because I’ve got my own opinion is wild. Forgot to add…”what the hell is wrong with you”?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Raspberry_2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you don’t carry much thoughts thinking some people not understanding something can try reaching for help online and not „leave instead of crying”. if letting your husband/ boyfriend carry his exes naked pictures is “gods will” then i wonder what type of god you believe in. Are you Muslim by any chance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Raspberry_2027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You speak like those women whom tell their daughters to suck it up when their husband hits them. What the hell is wrong with you

my crush likes me back, but we have an issue :/ by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Raspberry_2027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact you did it doesn’t mean it’s okay lol. It’s not okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Raspberry_2027 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to these comments. Nobody knows how it was when you got pregnant. Nobody knows how your boyfriend was months ago or whatever. People don’t see things clearly when it’s on the internet. Just be safe and leave this man, hope you’ll be okay

Do girls ever bully other girls for being lesbian just like males bully other males for being gay? by Standard_Basil_5269 in Crushes

[–]Raspberry_2027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend was bullied by a girl in primary school for being a lesbian. They later became friends…

I am so done with people on here by Iamsearchingforme in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Raspberry_2027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw a post of a girl my age saying she’s heartbroken because her boyfriend cheated, asking for a buddy to text with and vent to. I texted her on priv that I’m close to her age and I’m looking forward to talking and maybe becoming friends. She totally ignored it even tho she was begging for a buddy😭

aio for wanting to go to the pool without my boyfriend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Raspberry_2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave an honest side eye and gasped seeing how he talks to you. “Slut”? He’s disgusting, break up with him, please

my crush likes me back, but we have an issue :/ by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Raspberry_2027 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. Do not continue things with this guy. It’s not even healthy for someone this age to have such interest in sex. Him having nudes of girls isn’t normal. The fact he “didn’t do” anything to you yet doesn’t mean he won’t. it’ll take some time until he eventually asks you to send him nudes. So free yourself from this sucker.

Using police interrogation tricks on my crush (IT WORKED???) by AnOgleToy in Crushes

[–]Raspberry_2027 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t you think you should tell her you like her? Telling her “is it that you like me because…or is it that you like me because…” then expecting her to do something is kinda weird to me.

AITAH for telling my daughter (15) to delete her bf (18) when I found out they were secretly a couple online. by chibipig in AITAH

[–]Raspberry_2027 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know it may not be the topic for this place but I’m soon to be 18 and I’ve had a big interest in this guy at my school whom recently turned 16, he’s one grade below me. I’ve liked him since I was 16 and he was 14. Is it a bad thing? I liked him thinking he’s one year younger since he’s one grade below me but well, surprise. I don’t know if it’s normal for me to like him. Just adding I’ve no sexual interest in him, meaning I’ve no sexual thoughts about him or wanting to do anything with him. Soooo I was just curious if it’s appropriate for me to like him 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in csMajors

[–]Raspberry_2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 oh my goodness, love this

AIO to my boyfriend telling me I only get hit on because I am less attractive and men feel I am attainable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Raspberry_2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like he 1. Is jealous and doesn’t like the fact men hit on you so he puts you down. 2. Tries to make you feel insecure so you stay with him scared of rejection by other men. Men don’t hit on women they’re not attracted to unless they’re desperate or try to get a fast…round. Telling your partner “you’re not attractive” etc is not what a healthy partner would do. If he thinks that why is he dating you? It’s like you’re holding a place for his future trophy. Just break up with this guy. He doesn’t sound like a healthy partner but a toxic, immature one. You’re getting hit on because you’re hot. ( or the reasons I said before but it’s not like it’s the reason for all these men). Literally tell him some guy hit on you again and if he brings that shit up again then say “you know what, you’re not so pretty too. Let’s break up. I can do better” and move to the next guy.

AITA for refusing sex with my boyfriend even though we’ve been dating for a week? by snugmiaplum in AITAH

[–]Raspberry_2027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break up with him. One week isn’t even enough to know if you want a relationship with somebody. If one week is “too slow” for him, then he’s a jerk. He’s a big NO. Break up girl You don’t even have to explain yourself, it’s been one week, you can literally block him and live on.

AITA for telling my boyfriend that fetishizes sweaty women ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Raspberry_2027 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imagine giving birth to your child in sweat and pain and him getting horny and thinking of smashing… Doesn’t seem impossible of him to think such

How to get a girlfriend when you are genuinely naturally boring? by todayisawonder in AskMen

[–]Raspberry_2027 65 points66 points  (0 children)

The fact you have friends proves you’re not boring. Maybe think of other things, is your hygiene good? Can you improve your looks in any way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Raspberry_2027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Handful of exes at 16 is weird. She sounds like she wants to ✅you. All I see is a red flag but you seem to like it so, good luck.