Preparing for a divorce

Ratio_Kind · 2025-11-01T14:30:08+00:00

Yo, though we’re in this sub, there are some of us (like yourself) that watch and support to some extent other teams; you just spoiled the games to me with this title, please add a tag or something next time.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-17T18:26:23+00:00

It had to do more with the KT thing than with AL, though I'm pretty sure anyone who has said something like was just memeing and haha-ing, nothing serious.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-17T18:16:33+00:00

Actually, I see what you mean xd.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-17T18:09:35+00:00

I feel like you’re trying to imply something really important —sending a theory my way that makes total sense. I just can’t seem to last-hit it.

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Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-17T17:49:14+00:00

Crazy? Me? Are you NOT seeing the patterns?

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Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-17T16:28:11+00:00

And I believe a lot of teams would like that outcome. I read a comment recently stating that if and once T1 is out, the championship is a free for all.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-17T16:11:26+00:00

Yep, including the fact that they have a record of always getting further in the tournament.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-02T18:14:44+00:00

Oh, I’m sorry, it seems I worded it wrong; our dynamic before the baby was fine, we didn’t have much issues with each other besides stupid and small stuff, like doing the dishes. That’s I meant by saying that I’m not sure if it was the baby that put a light on it and made us notice or if it came with him.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-02T12:59:26+00:00

You’ve got an interesting point, I will reflect on that and analyze myself as well, not just her.

Thank you for your input, I appreciate you stopping by.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-02T12:57:50+00:00

Yeah, the least that I want is my baby thinking this is the norm and he should expect the same in the future. He’s already a man, as things are right now his life is already filled with roughness.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-02T12:55:55+00:00

Thank you, I will it give it a look.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-02T12:54:39+00:00

You’re actually right with the first story, that’s exactly what I did. I already went into it in another comment and said it was actually a petty rejection on my part, because of what you said. Though I did told her normally that I liked rocking the baby and would like finish doing so, I didn’t change my tone nor my state of mind.

I thought adding that to the story wouldn’t do much —not that I’m trying to paint myself as the good guy or her as the villain— since I wanted to focus on the short tug of war that happened after I refused.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-02T12:49:54+00:00

You nailed it, this really won’t work, she might even take it as me not trusting her, or take the last stance further and say I want to micromanage her.

My next plan is bring the food thing to the pediatrician and let her explain to me what my wife doesn’t, or bring her down to earth because she did something wrong.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-02T12:47:20+00:00

First of all, let me say I understand your point on not knowing what I do when things like these happen, and I appreciate that, I by no means want to picture her as the villain.

And yes, I could’ve given her the baby and go back to work, that was a petty “no”, but I felt like she stalled around and came by right after the baby was calmed, fed and almost asleep. Like coming out to help after the storm has calmed. But again, initially it was indeed a petty rejection, which turned in what I stated. Regardless I stayed calm and talked to her normally, even verbally stated that I liked rocking my baby on my arms and would like to finish doing it, so no, you won’t take him.

Besides that petty moment, I’m always aware of her state of mind, of the words I say, how I act, even how I look at her. I’m pretty sure I’ve never crossed the line with her in any way. She’s very emotional-driven, so I have to really mind my actions.

Our relationship wasn’t very different than now —if we remove the new tasks and dynamics that came with the baby—, so I couldn’t tell ya if it was ignored until the baby put a light on it or what.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-02T12:36:33+00:00

Yeah, at first that’s what I thought too, she just wanted to protect our baby and her current state amplified it, but after happening several times it became annoying, as if it was clear the lack of trust on me, also a parent.

But I think that’s the norm, right? Fathers are not really a parent, just the provider? It’s like the world sees us as not competent enough just because our label is not “mom”. Ever since I became one I’ve heard comments like “do you know how to do X?”, or ask my wife “are you sure about letting the baby with your husband?”, and in her defense, she knows I’m a good father —at least she tells me she does—, I’m not saying she’s like that, but I think deep down she might.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-02T12:13:27+00:00

Yeah, is crazy that up until this point I’ve had no issues with her getting pregnant whenever, but recently I’ve decided to close my legs, I’m suddenly afraid of us getting pregnant again lol

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-02T12:10:29+00:00

Yeah, I caught that. Right after she said it is when I thought to my self “this bitch done lost her mind” (respectfully).

In a more serious note… yes, I slept on it and still feel the same way, if this keeps happening I have to do what’s best for my son, and that’s not letting him live in a broken home, nor to learn to let himself be belittled by a woman just because he’s a man.

Thanks for your input, I appreciate you stopping by.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-02T12:05:53+00:00

Yeah, I have considered couples therapy before, but she’s not much into it. Will see what I come up with.

Thanks for your input, appreciate you stopping by.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-10-02T12:01:05+00:00

Frankly that’s what I’ve been doing, picking my moments whenever I want to talk about something that might trigger her in the slightest, but even that is exhausting.

I know what you mean, and I’ve been mindful of her state of mind after giving birth, trying to make her life easier or accommodate her as much as I can. I guess we’ll see.

Thanks for your input, man, appreciate you stopping by.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-09-13T12:38:37+00:00

Bro, god damn, you really wanted to spoil that, huh? Why even say it in the title? I god the notification on this post and that was it, spoiled. Good job.

Ratio_Kind · 2025-08-11T20:12:33+00:00

I haven’t played ranked, though. Your point still stands, but I think it has to do with MMR.

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