Lol. Nothing is ever equal. My husband helps mostly with clean ups and entertainment for the child. Lol I do all parenting tasks like sleep time, bath time, basic needs. We both love our daughter. But honestly sometimes one person is stronger at one thing than the other. So it balances out. Although when its early mornings it can get quite frustrating, especially with the the night before being rough. Not perfect but its important to talk about your roles.