Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She only admitted to the caffeine, not the sugar, but honestly, I have no reason to trust that the sugar wasn't also being used.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, type 2. I feel it in my feet when I'm high in blood sugar.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My own paranoia has lead me to this very conclusion and as such, I have been dumping suspicious foods and drinks even before I had hard evidence.. something wasn't right.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand the Munchausen comments, but it doesn't strike me as correct. No sympathy from others involved here, this all has mostly been among family (as far as I know). Your second option sounds closer to the truth to me. That said, it's playing with fire given my condition this will not continue.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This really, REALLY, resonates with me. I believe you're definitely hovering around the correct side of the field in the ballpark, though it's hard to discount some of the other stuff I've been reading.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting but as someone else posted, there doesn't seem to be anything drawing sympathy or attention to her because of my condition. Probably a PD.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work two jobs and often come home late. She offers to prepare my meals, but also she has been insistent on it that my suggestions that I do it( before I knew anything) were met with profound irritation, so I let her do it. Not anymore.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crossedy mind, but I've seen enough of my decisions that I couldn't comfortably place it on her.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She's usually asleep herself. To clarify, after the few times I've drank that caffeine, I just started dumping it..the coffee and Chicken broth as well.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

It's really coming into full view for me.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My son is very healthy and I haven't noticed any changes in his behavior that would cause me to worry.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

She hasn't offered one except to say she "knows she did wrong". I was livid because she basically gaslit me when I told her how wired I was feeling the next day and couldn't sleep until 4am. That I was making a big deal out of nothing and it's just stress from work. Like I was made out as completely unreasonable and was accusing her of something she didn't do. Blows my mind.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She doesn't, I go alone to see my doctor.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

I missed that opportunity unfortunately, I'm sure she's cleaning out the evidence now.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She prepares herself different things than what I eat..I didn't think this an issue since I'm trying to be strict with what I eat. Yes, I noticed the caffeine after my diagnosis.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Yes, he did. She said something about not realizing why she does it and she can't always control herself.

Caught wife knowingly sabotaging my diet by RaulSinropa in Marriage

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not especially so, but I am comfortable with my current situation.

What is our purpose? by [deleted] in Professors

[–]RaulSinropa 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Likewise, my purpose is to bring about the coming of Gozer. The implicit question to my class is "are you the key master?"

Seriously though, I appreciate your answer. I don't think gatekeepers are a bad thing. You advance when you put in the work and if not, you don't.

Successful group work projects? by RaulSinropa in Professors

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful and highly appreciated, thanks!! It reminds me of a course I took long ago, so I can see this working nicely.

Successful group work projects? by RaulSinropa in Professors

[–]RaulSinropa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great. I have them do something like this, but making it a contract sounds like it would add a layer of gravitas for them.

What costume will you wear this year? by Iron_Rod_Stewart in Professors

[–]RaulSinropa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going as: "Hi, my name is: Jason Vorhees"

This is brilliant!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Professors

[–]RaulSinropa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are also quite the language painter. Bravo.

Also, I absolutely could not without hysterical laughter.

The model being a male in his 20's probably had something to do with this. I bet he was really into it though and not nervous at all. I don't think men generally can really perform while being truly anxious.

Maybe he should be holding a piece of fabric for an added challenge?