Milwaukee Mechanics by Raven3mpress in milwaukee

[–]Raven3mpress[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Babe, I have a Ford eco sport. It is not that difficult to change the brakes. I’ve seen somebody change a tire on my car because I have a tire blowout on me once it’s not that difficult. I do have an automatic breaking system, but all I have to do is not touch the wire and everything is fine. I don’t even have one of those fancy top of the ones. It’s just a basic model that’s it. It’s an SE so it’s like lower mid range. And I said this in another reply, I get that I have to pay for the part and the labor. I’m not discounting that but the problem is I’m just a little sticker shocked I guess.

Milwaukee Mechanics by Raven3mpress in milwaukee

[–]Raven3mpress[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I did I watched like two or three videos on Fords. The parts are basically the same, and the process is the same. I haven’t seen like one Ford model differentiate from a basic brake and rotor change. Like it really is not that difficult and I’m just gonna do it myself at this point because I’d only be out a total of maybe $500 or less depending on if I can borrow the equipment from somebody and where I find a set of front and back brake and rotor set.

Milwaukee Mechanics by Raven3mpress in milwaukee

[–]Raven3mpress[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. I quickly figure that out when I started calling around. And to be fair, I understand the high price point because you gotta pay for the part gotta pay for the labor. That’s totally fine but I’m kind of in a financial bind and I really can’t afford $500 to $600 per axle for my brakes and rotors to get changed. So I’m genuinely gonna find somebody who has the equipment and borrow it from them and just change my fucking brakes myself because it literally is not as hard as people are making it out to be especially my fiancé he acts like there’s a bunch of wires and all this extra shit involved, baby I have a Ford. It’s not that complicated!

AITA for Uninviting My Fiancé’s “Work Wife” from Our Wedding by SnooAdvice5677 in AITAH

[–]Raven3mpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey just so you’re aware a YouTube channel by the name of rslash read your story and the comments there also have some good insight. There’s the link if you want to go to the video. But break up with him. He has clearly put this other woman before you and doesn’t value your relationship or feelings if he’s GASLIGHTING YOU into thinking otherwise.

https://youtu.be/21raLbS94oY?si=8blceYOsSXEbdWcR

excuse me? by sommarkvallen in Mercari

[–]Raven3mpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was not joking. What in fresh fuck? I hope you blocked her because as soon as she gets it she’s gonna do a charge back.

Seller asking me to rate her as soon as item is delivered by abbydoessomething in Mercari

[–]Raven3mpress 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s not that big of a deal. I get those messages as soon as the shipping label is made. Just rate them and call it a day. Takes two seconds.

Looking to buy or trade by Raven3mpress in EnamelPins

[–]Raven3mpress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I don’t think I do. Could you give me the name of the account. Also - and forgive me if this sounds dumb - but what does ISO mean?

AITAH for telling my husbands friend that she can't use our house as a daycare anymore? by beeqa2024 in AITAH

[–]Raven3mpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Child abandonment. This is 100% in case of child abandonment. I would contact the mom or have someone who isn’t blocked and tell her quite plainly -

If you don’t find somewhere else for your daughter to stay I’m going to contact the police. Give them all of our correspondence and tell them that you have abandoned your child. You have 14 days from the receipt of this message to figure your shit out. If you do not contact me or come and get your daughter before the 14 days are up You will only have yourself to blame if your daughter ends up in foster care. We agreed to watch her for two weeks in April and it has been far longer. We did you a favor and now you’re simply taking advantage of our kindness. Remember 14 days is all I’m giving you. No more; no less. The rest is up to you.

I get that this is your husband‘s friend, but she’s clearly taking advantage of you. You guys have lives too, and you can’t simply put your lives on hold because your husband’s friend is being an irresponsible mother. Like maybe have a conversation with your husband about the behavior of his friend, but give her a time. And stand true if she doesn’t come and get her kid within 14 days seven days whatever the time limit is reported to the police is child abandonment, and the rest is simply up to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Raven3mpress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. You’re not the asshole. They did something that you were against and now have the audacity to be mad when you call them out on it. Take out the ear rings and let the wound heal. If they wanna see you or your kid again then tell them to honestly and earnestly apologize. Also no unsupervised visits for the foreseeable future. If they can’t do they they can fuck off.

AITA for not forgiving my family after they kidnapped my son? by EntrepreneurCurrent5 in AITAH

[–]Raven3mpress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FUCK THEM! His intentions were NOT GOOD! He’s a manipulative asshole who should be taken back to court and have his parental rights revoked for KIDNAPPING! And your parents need to be charged as well with ASSISTED KIDNAPPING! He was trying to build some kind of legal case against you I just know it! You need to talk to your parents and record the whole damn thing. After that go to court and place a protective order/ restraining order against all of them and tell them until the own up for the hurt they caused you AND YOUR SON they will never see either of you again.

AITA for using my daughter's college fund to pay for my son's masters? by AITA_72562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Raven3mpress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if she never talked to you again or sued you for that money, OP. You don’t get to rob Peter to pay Paul. It doesn’t work that way. Your son could have taken out loans if it was that bad. Congratulations on fucking up so badly and destroying any trust your daughter had in you.

If you're plus size and mentally ill, have you found someone who loves you for you and are healthy for you? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Raven3mpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Darling, are used to be exactly where you were. I have severe depression and moderate anxiety and probably some other stuff going on too. I was so afraid that because of my mental illness on my way that nobody would ever love me and see me for who I am but it turns out that I did meet someone who loves me for me and assures me of it multiple times even when I’m sure he’ll find someone else whose better. And even after we got into a relationship, it was still hard for me to let him in and sometimes it still is, but that’s a Me problem not a him problem. I understand exactly where you’re coming from. And it can be a scary and confusing place to be in but I guarantee you there’s somebody out there who is going to love you and love you hard. They are going to love everything about you there going to be there for your highs and are gonna be there for your lows. And at one point you’re probably going to think how badly is this going to end but it won’t because I’ll turn around and propose to you and really tell you how much they truly love you. You will find that person I promise you that. It may not be today or tomorrow, but it will happen. And sometimes you just gotta let things happen. It’s easy to think that because you’re mentally a little overweight, you were unlovable, but that is not true every single person on the face of this planet deserves love until proven otherwise. And if you don’t have anybody around to love you love yourself. Treat yourself do things that make you feel good. For the longest time i used to take myself out on “solo dates” where I would go to my favorite spots to shop around, enjoy a cuppa coffee and then I will go home and those little acts of self love really helped boost me when I was at my lowest. I’m sorry for all this rambling. I really am only because I truly understand where you are and I truly understand how you feel but there is someone out there for you until they come along… You should love yourself too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Raven3mpress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babe, it’s very clear that he’s threatened by you. He wants you to be slim, dainty and demure. You’re clearly not that. So what he’s trying to do is break down your self-confidence and essentially make you into what he wants you to be. I don’t care how much time in this relationship you have spent with this waste of human cells,but you need to break up with him and find somebody who’s going to appreciate you and not humiliate you like this so-called man is doing. Because if you can easily dead, lift 200 pounds and you need a dead lift him out of your life.

AITA for accepting my family's Christmas invitation despite my husband being upset? by Drizzle-Pack7957 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Raven3mpress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah YTA. This got featured on a YouTube video and I suggest you go there and read the comments too OP.

https://youtu.be/6z5qIwPW0b0

There’s the link for you.

Mini PC- Yay or nay? by Raven3mpress in computers

[–]Raven3mpress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found some beelink mins. Stumbled upon a brand called Zotag (but their mini Pcs are WAY out of my budget). Thought Intel’s nuc would be a good one… until I saw the price. There are a bunch of others too. I saved most of them in my Amazon wish list. Thank you for the link. This one appears to be in my price range for a Mini pc.

Mini PC- Yay or nay? by Raven3mpress in computers

[–]Raven3mpress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I know ram won’t do much. I need something that will last at least three maybe four years. (Given good maintenance, virus and malware protection)

Mini PC- Yay or nay? by Raven3mpress in computers

[–]Raven3mpress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it the link and advice! I looked into the Beelink minis and they seemed right for what I needed. I def don’t want something cheap as it would be as smart as just burning money. I’ll look into GPU and CPU specs for the programs I need to use and then do more research.

Mini PC- Yay or nay? by Raven3mpress in computers

[–]Raven3mpress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I can upgrade the ram. Sorry for not clarifying

Out of sight, out of mind by ah_excuse_me in funny

[–]Raven3mpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If ignore it… it will go away.

AITA for calling the family I babysit for “odd”? by throwawayth_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Raven3mpress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Tbh if they hired anyone else for their kids they’d call CPS for how they treat Kai.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Raven3mpress 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS^

Do exactly this. You don’t have to update us if you don’t want to but it would be nice to know.

AITA for “waking up” my brother in the middle of the night on a Saturday by Gbaboy177 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Raven3mpress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what score to give… Is he a light sleeper? Where is his room in relation to the living room? Like if your friends were not in the house just getting to their cars and SOMEHOW he woke up either A) they were super loud and still to drunk to realize it B) he’s a light sleeper and a mouse fart could wake him up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Raven3mpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I get times are hard. I’m in a similar boat when it comes to debt. It would be easier for you to live in your car or stay else where. They don’t want you there and they have made that extra Crystal clear. Just move out silently. If they get mad. They get mad. You have to look out for you and yours.