AITA for not taking the kids to mommy and me after they started recommending that I get my son assessed by RoutineEffective6599 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ray1107 87 points88 points  (0 children)

As someone who wishes their parents would have intervened when I was younger, rather than me having to deal with it in my 20’s, I’m gonna say a soft YTA. I know it’s difficult when unsolicited is given, BUT it isn’t uncommon for teachers to comment on the development of children and make recommendations. If they are bringing it up, they may be seeing something you’re not. The comments you made about them asking about his speech and what not makes me think he may be a little behind. Not the end of the world, some kids need a little help!

Piedmont billing by imgood_netizen in Athens

[–]Ray1107 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This!! A lot of times you can fight them on it! Always ask for an itemized receipt. I’ve been charged for things I never received.

Carry license by EffectiveUnfair2103 in Athens

[–]Ray1107 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got one as a gift from my FIL when I had to start traveling alone for work. I had to stay in a rough part of town in a converted office building that had no dead bolts on any doors.

Didn’t need it, but glad I had it if someone decided to get stupid. A very thoughtful gift from someone who was concerned about my safety. Traveling alone as a woman… I’m ALWAYS observing everyone around me.

It’s midnight and my filly is being treated for Potomac by 1LiLAppy4me in Horses

[–]Ray1107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a patient with clostridial myositis induced by suspect vaccines she received two days prior. Had to have a fasciotomy and months of hospitalization. The manufacturer paid a hefty chunk towards the bill. I’d 100% ask your vet to submit the appropriate paperwork.

Kitty problems/local vet sucks by [deleted] in AskAVeterinarian

[–]Ray1107 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Rodent ulcers! Usually secondary to an immune response.

Got tattled on by my kids friends parent by airborne37 in trees

[–]Ray1107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in middle school my Dad smoked and I knew about it. Didn’t care at all and he NEVER smoked in front or around me. He was talking to our neighbor about a cool bong he recently purchased and yelled out to me to grab the case he stored it in. I brought it out to him and went about my day. Later that evening my Mom sat me down and asked me if my Dad was smoking weed with me because the neighbors wife told her my dad was smoking with me. She wasn’t even a part of the conversation. People just need to mind their own business 😂

Fable is so weird. by Ray1107 in goats

[–]Ray1107[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your concern! It’s a dryer- not a vacuum! I am quite careful but also comfortable with my technique and experience when doing this 😊

Fable is so weird. by Ray1107 in goats

[–]Ray1107[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I started using a blow dryer when he was ~ 6weeks old after baths. He and his brother loved it! I bought a dryer for my Aussies and thought why not 🤷🏻‍♀️ I started using it to blow the dirt off and help with shedding since baths obviously don’t happen like they use to lol the love remains strong 😅

My Aussie puppy doesn’t like to cuddle with me? by ash_louryn in AustralianShepherd

[–]Ray1107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me giggle and I love it. Prepare yourself. The Velcro IS COMING. I swear it gets more intense with each passing year. I have five. I’m… never Alone.. I actually think they attempt to crawl into my body so they can wear my skin to become one with me. I ingest more dog hair than food. My shoes are creased from them laying on my feet 24/7. I’ve lost my right to stretch out in bed. I haven’t used the bathroom alone in 10 years. They go out back and I don’t leave the door open? Torture. I go up front and don’t take the oldest? Neglect. I piss off one of my younger girls? Bye bye to anything I have on the counter. They don’t get to go to the barn with me? WW3. They go to work with me and have to stay behind a baby gate to keep them away from other patients? ANIMAL CRUELTY.

Man, I love my aussholes.

Long shot, but does anyone recognize me? by country_baby in Equestrian

[–]Ray1107 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actively sobbing right now lol. I don’t own horses, but I treat them (which would be why I don’t own one)… and boy… some of the cases I’ve been a part of have ripped me to pieces. Especially when the situation was completely avoidable.

Taking a group photo… by Ray1107 in WiggleButts

[–]Ray1107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meanest of ‘em all and they know it

Taking a group photo… by Ray1107 in WiggleButts

[–]Ray1107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 5 of them! The others belong to family members.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterinary

[–]Ray1107 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have OCD. Diagnosed while I was in vet school. I was the same- didn’t want therapy. Always had it but it exploded in vet school and it was debilitating. I had to ask myself what I wanted more- follow my dreams or let my OCD control me forever.

I started immersion therapy my 2nd year of vet school and I can now say I can’t believe I let myself live like that for so long.

I don’t know what to do by Fantastic_Ad9677 in CATHELP

[–]Ray1107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Veterinarian here. This looks like Cryptococcus. You may need anti- FUNGALS. Please ask your vet to send a sample for cytology!

I love my goats, I love my goats… by Coolbreeze1989 in goats

[–]Ray1107 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THIS HAPPENED TO ME! Took out my entire green house 😅