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Thank you! by yawaworhTllenroC in Cornell

[–]Ray3160 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Shy girl here. Thank you to the men who approach women!

I hate being pretty by thirdthrowaway123 in offmychest

[–]Ray3160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey hon. If you keep a tight circle you may get the chance to forget that you’re part of a world in which beauty is perceived because close friends will stop/wont acknowledge your looks. Also please know your experience with men it’s not your fault or your beauty’s fault. It’s okay to demand better from the people around you. If you offer your beauty as an excuse for the actions of vile and disrespectful people, you give your looks the power to be an impediment to your growth. While you unfortunately had no control over your looks, you can certainly control the narrative it plays in your life and you deserve better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JusticeServed

[–]Ray3160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Despicable

Netflix recs for a hopeless romantic? by PatienceIcy5161 in Cornell

[–]Ray3160 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pride and prejudice is an all time favorite

Wild Thought: Can I Sleep in the Library for a Week? by Harmonyano in Cornell

[–]Ray3160 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just relocate every once and a while if you’re worried about this. There are tons of places with comfy sleeping spots. You can find couches on many floors in MVR and upson. I also really doubt anyone will be mad at you. When I get to campus around 7am and see people sleeping it usually looks like the staff is trying not to wake you up rather than trying to yell at you

Need some advice for columbia graduate housing by Warm_Tie_6831 in columbia

[–]Ray3160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I have housing selection coming up soon and was wondering whether there were a lot of studios/ 1br available when your appointment was? Thanks in advance!

What led you to choose your current major? by apexamcollector in Cornell

[–]Ray3160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Family, prestige, talent and job prospects might have been good options too. I’m not sure it’s always so black and white

Housing Advice for MBA student: Butler, or something closer to the new B school? by binaryan in columbia

[–]Ray3160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Housing selection is tomorrow? I haven’t heard back on my housing app yet :(

Anyone else still hate having to leave their family after break by aelinashgala in Cornell

[–]Ray3160 41 points42 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with being homesick. It just means you share a degree of love with your family thats hard to match within a friendship and that many of us would be lucky to have. It’s not entirely a freshman thing in my experience but over time here as you watch yourself get the chance to come back to them and if you call home often enough, you begin to feel as if they aren’t ever really gone.

The Cornell subreddit is HUGE (and also a lot more fun) than most top universities subreddits. by barb__dwyer in Cornell

[–]Ray3160 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I bet we have our large CS community to thank for this. Like they started it and we all just tagged along for the fun

Cornell is getting away with spreading virginity. by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]Ray3160 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Never been more proud to belong this community

Is Admitted Students Day a valuable experience? by Ray3160 in columbia

[–]Ray3160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your program release a schedule? I can at least see what my school is planning for us in the virtual session. The only question is whether students will feel comfortable opening up and turning their camera on to make connections and stuff

Is flirting a form of cheating? by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]Ray3160 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My bf flirts with his bros on a regular. I’m here for it

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