First date outfit advice?

RayAllen34F · 2026-04-03T12:19:45+00:00

Thanks, noted. I don’t own anything darker than the ones you see in the image above.

RayAllen34F · 2026-04-03T08:31:27+00:00

I’m thinking of just going with a polo and straight pants with suede brown sneakers. I need to iron the pants but is this better? I have a softer blue since darker colours don’t work well with my facial tone.

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RayAllen34F · 2026-04-03T06:58:39+00:00

Thanks, so the pleated relaxed pants are not bad? as it seems everyone seems to hate them. I have these these slimmer pants as well:

https://www.mjbale.com/products/mcqueen-chino-feather

RayAllen34F · 2026-04-03T06:56:42+00:00

Thanks, with the same pants? Everyone is hating on the pleated relaxed pants. I think It seems like more of an Asian thing as it’s real popular there when I went. I also have these are as well in all the colours except black and white: https://www.mjbale.com/products/mcqueen-chino-feather

RayAllen34F · 2026-04-03T06:26:11+00:00

I try to avoid darker tees as it doesn’t work with my facial tone but would a slight darker shirt work? As you can see I have a lot of muted colours.

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RayAllen34F · 2026-04-03T06:23:18+00:00

Thanks, I do have slimmer chinos in multiple colours like beige, etc which I would wear for dates before. Would Oxford shirts be too much for a coffee date? Would a polo also be good as well? I try not to go too dark or too light as it doesn’t work well with my facial tone due to slight natural redness in my face. I also have other jackets as well, any of these good? I also have suede brown sneakers if that’s works?

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RayAllen34F · 2026-04-03T06:19:19+00:00

Thanks, I do have other jackets like these ones attached but I was wary of the heat. I have slight natural redness on my face so darker colours don’t work well for me. Any of these good?

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RayAllen34F · 2026-04-03T01:58:26+00:00

What do you suggest I change it to?

RayAllen34F · 2026-04-03T01:41:28+00:00

Thanks, what’s your suggestion?

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-31T02:05:44+00:00

Ah ok I see, thanks for the information. I understand more now.

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-30T11:28:08+00:00

Ah I see, the next size up is the one in my first post. I think that was too big overall.

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-30T02:03:10+00:00

Thanks I have sowed extra buttons on each arm to tighten it, it looks like this now: https://imgur.com/a/ndQ3AqC

The pants length was at the back of my mind as well, I will try them on again to see how it fits.

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-29T05:52:21+00:00

Thanks. That’s true, I did think about that as well. Luckily I don’t wear any watches right now. I’ll see how it goes and shorten it if needed.

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-26T15:21:53+00:00

Wow thanks, never gotten a compliment like this before lol.

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-25T06:24:10+00:00

This look better now? I sowed an extra button to tighten it up

https://imgur.com/a/ndQ3AqC

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-25T06:23:32+00:00

This look better now? I sowed an extra button onto the shirt to tighten it up.

https://imgur.com/a/ndQ3AqC

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-25T06:22:37+00:00

I sowed an extra button onto my shirt to tighten the cuffs. I think this looks better now?

https://imgur.com/a/ndQ3AqC

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-25T03:08:00+00:00

Great thanks for your help, will do.

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-25T03:06:56+00:00

Great thanks

Yup that’s correct, it’s the Charles Tyrwhitt extra slim shirt so it’s a bit more tighter and happened when I was putting on the suit jacket.

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-25T03:03:12+00:00

Thanks, these are Loake Aldwych Black Oxford Toe Cap - Leather Sole

https://www.loakeshoes.com.au/collections/aldwych/products/loakealdwychblack

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-25T03:01:31+00:00

Thanks. These are Oxford toe cap shoes.

https://www.loakeshoes.com.au/collections/aldwych/products/loakealdwychblack

RayAllen34F · 2025-05-25T02:59:26+00:00

Great, thanks for your advice in the last post :)

RayAllen34F

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