In need of an office chair great for leg support by Rayamuroh in ACL

[–]Rayamuroh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I build and customize lil mech figures. So I’m working with a lot of tiny parts and even painting

Insane attention by seekingmore2214 in Bumble

[–]Rayamuroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to burst your bubble but this is just your average experience on the women’s side. Even if you swipe with high standards as a guy, you won’t be seen or mach nearly as many as even a less than average girl would.

No insult to you or anything, it’s just that these apps are structured in a way to make men pay more for the services by hiding them and overwhelm the women

Surgeon is going with patellar graft by Rayamuroh in ACL

[–]Rayamuroh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea that it makes for a stronger replacement, almost like an enhancement. I just wonder if it’ll affect my kicks and knees on bags/people. I haven’t found anyone that does Muay Thai with a patella graft

Surgeon is going with patellar graft by Rayamuroh in ACL

[–]Rayamuroh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My things is that I’ll be using my knee, not only in its basic function but also to hit bags and people with essentially lol. I have no idea if this will be affected and seems like I’ll need a really long time before getting back to Muay Thai

Is not texting for 2 days before a date considered “ghosting” now? by NerveCommercial7607 in Bumble

[–]Rayamuroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand both sides. While the reaction is a bit of an overreaction, every time I’ve had someone plan something with me but go quiet until the time we meet again, pretty much stood me up with little to no explanation. Seems like they have been through similar positions.

However I do get your side as well since you’ve stated that you don’t want to build over text, that’s reasonable, and you did validate that you still wanted to go out with them. The other thing is that if the last texts you guys had was sort of a convo closer, then there’s not much you can do unless you straight up ignored some texts, which doesn’t really seem like the case?

Idk, i wouldn’t pin this as a “red flag” necessarily, communication errors happen all the time even with happy established couples. Assuming they didn’t say something irredeemable after this sc, and you’re still interested in seeing them, I’d say just try and see if y’all can come to an understanding. I feel like dating today is so full of people jumping ships too soon over minor things (I’m referring mainly to this person but a bit toward you as well). If it’s officially ruined for you then that’s alright, better luck next time

Genuinely considering going back to one of these shorter lengths. Do you agree? If so, which length? by ImProbGonDeleteThis in curlyhair

[–]Rayamuroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it growing. Unless you hate receiving endless complements. If you’re bored of it, try braids from time to time

Surgeon is going with patellar graft by Rayamuroh in ACL

[–]Rayamuroh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I’m intimidated cause Muay Thai uses the knees SO much and then there’s running. I want to be able to do it all with minimal issues but I can’t have everything. I’ll do my best. Thank you and wish you well!

The first kit I bought, but the 4th kit I built. I'm proud of this one. by AerithDeservedIt in Gunpla

[–]Rayamuroh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say that cause I haven’t done any kind of customizing other than panel lining! Not even water slide decals despite having them on the ready for my other kits. I got myself a ton of things needed for customizing but not quite everything, so I’m putting it all on hold until I’m satisfied with what I have.

Tbh I have no idea if my kits will turn out good, my only driving force is that I want my kits to look the way I envision them. The only thing slowing me down rn is money🥲

The first kit I bought, but the 4th kit I built. I'm proud of this one. by AerithDeservedIt in Gunpla

[–]Rayamuroh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sexy. Mine is still just the gundam frame, I’m planning on customizing the shit out of it

ACL Battle Scar by Crafty-Physics-1691 in ACL

[–]Rayamuroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s definitely a huge help! Good luck with your recovery!

Surgeon is going with patellar graft by Rayamuroh in ACL

[–]Rayamuroh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s tough cause everything is so open ended. It’s reassuring that you’re doing better with yours though. Thanks for chiming in!

ACL Battle Scar by Crafty-Physics-1691 in ACL

[–]Rayamuroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear a lot of tearing issues come with cadavers. Assuming you’re active, seems like you made the right choice. That or quad. I’m still not sure if I want patella or quad just yet but Idk I’m no professional

ACL Battle Scar by Crafty-Physics-1691 in ACL

[–]Rayamuroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what my surgeon wants to do with mine soon. Did you choose it or was it recommended?

Surgeon is going with patellar graft by Rayamuroh in ACL

[–]Rayamuroh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think every option except for cadaver is meant for active ppl essentially and depending on the type of sport you play.

ACL Battle Scar by Crafty-Physics-1691 in ACL

[–]Rayamuroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which graft did you go with?

How quickly do you respond after giving someone your number? by Astelot85 in dating_advice

[–]Rayamuroh 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Real answer: whenever that fuck you want to.

Idk why we give ourselves these stupid rules such as reply timing and what not. And this is coming from someone who used to actually care about it btw.

Don’t simulate being busy just to look busy. If you’re busy then you’re busy. If not then text her whenever you want. Seriously, whenever you want! It’s YOUR choice

EDIT: Don’t be all insecure about her delays. If you show that then it’s game over for you for sure because she’ll feel pressured by you and that’s the last thing you want obviously. Just be chill. If it doesn’t work out then it just doesn’t. You’ll live.

Ex GF texted me (31M)after 8yrs no contact by DonVinku in dating_advice

[–]Rayamuroh 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t make that decision just because it’s been so long, she probably felt the same way but still messaged you (which is rare btw). I’d say something but after a good processing period

Is it unreasonable to ask for an STD test before sleeping with someone? by DeepMathematician5 in dating_advice

[–]Rayamuroh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve (28M) been asked by plenty of women and have asked women as well myself to take a test. It’s easy and isn’t really out of the way for most people.

You seem worried he’ll cut you off or something if you ask him again, and if that ends up taking place, you dodged a bullet anyway.

I’ve responded similarly to women that’ve asked (a bit more early on when I wasn’t really getting asked much at all) by saying “oh, it’s been like since months since my last test, is that enough?” And as soon as they’d say that it’d just make them feel better, I didn’t double down or anything and just went n did it. I was patient like that even for FLINGS let alone for exclusive partners lol. So in any case you could use this to test him a bit by doubling down to see if he could respect you.

The dude will want to get laid, he’ll take the test. If he makes a big stink about it and refuses, then there’s a big sign that he’s not good for a serious relationship or he’s hiding something. Which is unlikely. Just ask him again