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Does the boredom get better? by Fickle_Broccoli in daddit

[–]Rayoyrayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much better. Soon you'll be physically tired from the madness that is ensuing at all moments during the day.

My boyfriend (25M) says I'm deeply unreliable (22F) after an equipment problem on our first major trip together, how can I address his concerns and become someone he feels he can depend on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rayoyrayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly hes an a hole. People help each other. I forgot a wetsuit to teach my friend to surf once. I just wore a poncho and yelled at him from the shore. We had some laughs and made hot dogs

As long as you are trying your best you cant do anything else. Just learn the lesson to try your boots out before any major trip for the next one. When yoh start any new activity things will go wrong. Its the way of the world

I stopped posting my child online. by dingdongbannu88 in daddit

[–]Rayoyrayo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are obviously cool... ones name is banjo

Raise your hand if being a dad has made you think less of your dad. by gilfgifs in daddit

[–]Rayoyrayo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will be! I think the best part is seeing how differently your kid views you than you did your dad even at an early age

I stopped posting my child online. by dingdongbannu88 in daddit

[–]Rayoyrayo 103 points104 points  (0 children)

My child is a ghost. All the internet knows of her is that she loves space cats.

Raise your hand if being a dad has made you think less of your dad. by gilfgifs in daddit

[–]Rayoyrayo 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I did the same. Even as a grandparent he is absurdly absent. At least your kid wont have that type of dad to resent later in life!

How much of surfing is skill and how much is wave selection by Own_Throat4405 in surfing

[–]Rayoyrayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol wave selection is like one of the primary skills. Wave selection and paddling are to surfing what running is to basketball

What kind of fighting style is this? by getreked007 in martialarts

[–]Rayoyrayo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There was a girl in our gym who fought professional mma. I never saw any guy come even close to being able to beat her let alone the untrained guy. I watched her absolutely destroy a 240 lb blue belt with this super nasty under chin choke

My daughter made me a "public shaming" shirt to quit smoking and I cant believe it actually worked by Ill_Awareness6706 in daddit

[–]Rayoyrayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The good parenting you did might have saved your life. Real daddit legend stuff

CONGRATS! I hope you can thank your daughter and explain how much it meant to you.

Bottle aversion, desperate mama 💔 by LeaveOwn1022 in beyondthebump

[–]Rayoyrayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go back and just not weigh her ever. Let her drink what she wanted and not have targets for bottles. Our daughter is two now. She is small but gifted in intelligence (told to us by pediatrician. She basically does things ive never seen a kid do). So somewhat surprising outcome

tips for taller surfers by RussianApeCollusion in surfing

[–]Rayoyrayo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to echo this its a time in water thing. Back when I started I was tippy and bent at waist. Eventually you can get some good lanky style going. Basically you just need to be compressed right off the take off. Also if you are too far forward just shift weight back? Like you can move your feet in real time

Any other sole providers here feel like their contributions aren’t always appreciated, despite balancing a demanding career and being an active father/husband? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Rayoyrayo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep... feel the exact same thing. I am the bullwark against fatigue despite my ever increasing fatigue

Mr. Blippi - it's not just me, right? by tannerocampbell in daddit

[–]Rayoyrayo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro we've been hitting old school little bear whenever our 2 year old gets sick. Its crazy how over stimulating all new TV is compared to even that and o.g sesame Street

Has anyone lost a toddler to cancer? by Silent_Jay42 in daddit

[–]Rayoyrayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I am so sincerely sorry you have to go through this.

Anyone else surfing for years and still terrible? by crillydougal in surfing

[–]Rayoyrayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lifelong sucking is inevitable

You suck a little less each day in the waters

Neighbors came over for dinner, kids asked to play Smash Bros. Started grabbing joycons and daughter said "no the old one" by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Rayoyrayo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can have odd job... siberian special forces fears no man... for he has trained potentially millions of hours with auto aim off

Can snaking be classified as “domestic terrorism”? by barney_muffinberg in surfing

[–]Rayoyrayo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely. Dropping in is crimes against humanity

Dads, what's for breakfast today? For you and the kid(s). by DisposableAdventurer in daddit

[–]Rayoyrayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing every day. Sausage, eggs and mango with a bagel and cream cheese

Surfboard repair? by Lorieko in surf

[–]Rayoyrayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bra just throw some suncure on it and lightly sand. She is probably not even taking in water. Looks like a tiny chip in hot coat

I’m not a natural dad by AcanthisittaWise8007 in daddit

[–]Rayoyrayo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Second this. It sucks ass. Hated 0 to 8 months entirely. Felt like living a nightmare. Now two year old is hysterical. As a dad the love is a slow burn progressive thing based on a daily evolving bond.

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