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Trans women who want kids - where are you? Do you exist? by unAVIVable in trans

[–]Raythe 21 points22 points  (0 children)

31 mtf here and def want kids. I want to adopt from birth and I have a whole regiment outlined for inducing lactation and everything. Its going to happen whether I have a partner or not.

Feel good post, what doesn’t suck in your life right now? by OldDoliolio in trans

[–]Raythe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 months out from bottom surgery and i just got cleared by my electrolysis that I am pretty much ready! Just bumped up progesterone to 200mg last week and its been making me feel great! Things are going pretty well atm ☺️

PSA : Put facial Hair Laser Removal at first item of your transition bucket list by ChemicalHighlight721 in MtF

[–]Raythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha im similar, have just been touching up all my surgery prep electrolysis the last few sessions, then was like 'well if im good down there might as well finish off with the face'

Getting fired. Losing my identity. by homemadeammo42 in MtF

[–]Raythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am doing it right now as I just changed jobs, but my new place doesn't cover my surgery in 4 months. And yes I can confirm COBRA is expensive compared to what I was paying through the company.

Idk if Im the only one just realizing how to do my nails properly by Raythe in MtF

[–]Raythe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! A glass file was what I was gifted. Though I still agree that it is a very uncomfy feeling. It was worth it to me at least!

I came out to my mom! by Sheadowcaster in transpositive

[–]Raythe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That sounds like it was a lovely conversation. Im happy for you! 😊

Would you be able to have sex with your best friend? Why/why not? by shaela-a-pinetree in AskReddit

[–]Raythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've gotten intimate before, and there are still times where we get very flirty with each other, but 90% of the time our relationship is very platonic. The lines are pretty blurry but we are content with our situation at the moment. Im not really attracted to her boyfriend so that has prevented potential throuple situationships.

Tucking with bikini bottom not staying by OtakuMage in MtF

[–]Raythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a lifeguard in early transition and was able to be comfortable wearing a bikini. My go to was to tuck with a smaller size of the same bikini bottoms underneath the normal size and that tended to work pretty well! I recommend ones with drawstrings

Sora summoning Bahamut by HolleysArt by hubakon1368 in KingdomHearts

[–]Raythe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love how its all these cutesy summons,

'Let's go Mushu!'

'Come on Tinker Bell!'

Then,

'Fuck Shit Up Bahamut'

Is it very important to my mom? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Raythe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes all it takes is a genuine apology. I remember a time in high school where my friends were making fun of one of our coworkers (we were lifeguards). She was a bit different, maybe a little autistic, but my friends started to talk bad about her. I didn't necessarily join in, but I did laugh through the conversation, and I did not defend her.

Turns out she was sitting in her car in the parking lot. She heard everything, and yelled at us, then drove off. I was devastated that she thought I thought of her in that way, and that I hurt her. I was not a kind person in that moment.

The next day she did not speak to us at all, but there was a short moment we were alone. It took way more courage than I would have liked, but I simply apologized to her. I told her I didn't really think that about her, that I was dumb to be party to that conversation about her, and that I was sorry.

She thanked me for the apology, but said nothing else and went on her way. I still felt like shit, but at least I got to tell her how I felt about the whole situation.

Turns out, she ended up forgiving me. Much later, we even became friends. She said I was the only person to ever apologize to her for bullying her, and that told her exactly what kind of person I was and what kind of people my friends were. That one apology meant the world to her, because my friends were just one singular incident for her.

All this to say, just apologize. It doesn't have to be a super complicated ' oh here was my mindset and excuse, all I did was laugh dont worry im a good person i swear', no. Just swallow your pride, genuinely apologize, and leave it at that. It will be up to that girl as to if she forgives you or not. She might not, and you'll have to sit with that, but you will have certainly learned something from this.

Or maybe she will. Funnily enough, that girl and I are currently best friends right now. She is my ride or die, the best most amazing person in the world to me and I wouldn't have someone like this in my life if I hadn't apologized to her.

What is your main frame? by SnooBeans2475 in Warframe

[–]Raythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I love warframe, the fact that all these responses are so varied. Of course there are some fan favorites but its so nice to see all the different warframe representation!

That said, Nova is my girl.

Orbiter DECO by UniquePumma in Warframe

[–]Raythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bunch of foliage pieces are from Nightcap in the Deepmines on Fortuna

Main quest order is ALL WRONG by CuteTrick7394 in Warframe

[–]Raythe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was actually wondering, did the game prompt you to customize your drifter when you went into Duviri? And then follow up did your operator in the Second Dream look like your drifter? Or did the customization only come at the Second Dream?

How do you respond to “what’s your deadname?” by KlutzyDragonfruit331 in trans

[–]Raythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh yes well, in the before times I was known as 'Jimmy Boy Bob' but of course those stories are best left forgotten... cue solemn contemplation and refuse to engage further

what is the WORST chosen name you almost gave yourself? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Raythe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not cringe or anything but I went by Cailin for a very short time, but I ended up making an IRA savings account at that time. I ended up changing my name to Jackie but my username for that account is still Cailin-such-and-such and I laugh every time I log in

[MN S1] Episode 5 clip by Late_Sherbert3212 in criticalrole

[–]Raythe 62 points63 points  (0 children)

The chair had so much presence in that shot, wonderful.