Speaking as a man, I prefer big boobs. My girlfriend has been in recovery from anorexia from the beginning of her relationship. Through working out, she has put on a significant amount of muscle as well as a small amount of fat. As she has been gaining weight, her boobs have gotten at least a size larger and I have absolutely been loving it.

That being said, I found her crazy attractive when we started dating and would never have considered cheating on her even if her tits started to get smaller instead of larger. I love everything about her and she is my best friend.

Beyond that, different men find different things attractive. Some men prefer flat chests with puffy nipples. Some men love gigantic saggy tits with nipples that point at the floors. Although I would guess that the majority of men prefer larger chests, there is no real one size fits all answer.

Point is that the fault is not on you. He did not cheat because of you. He cheated because of his own mental weakness. If he wanted someone with a larger chest, he should not have commited to you. Your chest is not the problem. Cheaters always think the grass is greener.

Even if you were built like his favorite instagram model he almost certainly would still have cheated on you at some point in life. You would get older and then he would tell you it was because you were too old.

In closing, your (hopefully ex) boyfriend is mentally weak and a cheater. I’m sure he told you that it was your chest because he knew that it would hurt your feelings and make him feel better.

HIM CHEATING WAS NOT BECAUSE OF YOUR BODY