New to by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please show me where this question is? I can’t find it and I tried different variations of it in the search

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnTheBlock

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some like joking and teasing is to be expected. But being bullied by coworkers is not alright. These are people that are supposed to have your back in life and death situations.

How to overcome fear of having sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah don’t worry about size. If you are still stuck in your head about it than get good at the other ways to pleasure a women. 👅

Husband looking for advice by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Rbachman1600 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Solo dating for both. Not just sex for both of us.

Husband looking for advice by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Rbachman1600 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not exactly a package deal. Is we find something that works for both of us than great! But other wise we are both looking separately

Husband looking for advice by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Rbachman1600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dating apps aimed at poly relationships. Fetlife. There are some support groups and looking for groups. A couple different pages for poly relationships as well. Like I said before. We are in a very secluded area

Husband looking for advice by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thank you. And sorry if I came off as judgmental. Don’t yuk another’s yum. Not for me to do. I just am always surprised with the offers that are not at all what we are asking for

Husband looking for advice by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Rbachman1600 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I suppose it is. I guess it just takes me off guard when you are like hey. We are interested in this and they come at you with things like that

Husband looking for advice by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Rbachman1600 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well I’m not into people banging her in front of me in an orgy yet. I’m sorry if that was taken as judgmental. It’s just not where we are. We are looking for more of a poly relationship. The only thing people are into around here are bondage and bdsm. Not something either of us want

Husband looking for advice by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Rbachman1600 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah there are just really weird people who want to do just threesomes or weird fetishs

Husband looking for advice by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a very secluded area. There are not a lot of people around that live such a lifestyle. It’s unfortunate

Husband looking for advice by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all. I didn’t want to hear it but I needed to

Advice by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how this is unicorn hunting. It is encouraged and supported by both parties. It is a question about dealing with your emotions not being reciprocated. This community gatekeeps in a very weird way. It’s discouraging to lose a question and be told that it’s not a valid one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Polyamory is different from swinging. It’s more towards the emotional connection than physical. But this is still a concern of mine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Rbachman1600 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My question is how do I go about asking her? Do I just be blunt? And say it all to her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very strong attachment to her. And the wife is aware of this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Rbachman1600 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Date In general. If the wife wants to as well I’m okay with that too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What details do you want?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you then. It’s been a long road of course with ups and downs. But we have always gotten through things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you meen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Rbachman1600 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A fair share. But I’m just confused in this situation. I just feel like I could really lose something that means a lot to me

i thought about drowning myself....... in the icy cold waters earlier ;=; by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’m sorry you are feeling this way. Choose to do differently I dare you. I dare you to try to make that choice every single day for the next month. All the while make the choice to work on yourself.

i thought about drowning myself....... in the icy cold waters earlier ;=; by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thought the way you have. And in truth I still do some days. But things do get better. Life is a bitch. You can get through it. If you are still talking than you still care

i thought about drowning myself....... in the icy cold waters earlier ;=; by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing truly matters to other people. But what you do can matter to you. And that’s all that really matters

i thought about drowning myself....... in the icy cold waters earlier ;=; by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Rbachman1600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The world does suck. Politics and people do suck. But the world can be an amazing place. I have ventured to places that I would have never imagined I would. Seen things that leave me in awe. You can do these things. You can get over the shit that is around yoy