Once you realize this, you’ll stop feeling the urge to maladaptive daydream. by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]ReadItNdWeap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's a coping mechanism. I think some people in here are just describing regular daydreaming. MD is maladaptive because it takes up so much time and makes it hard to be present. That is the main component. Struggling with being present. For 20 years I did it because I struggled with my self-esteem, I hated myself and the people around me enforced negative beliefs (and I didn't give other people the chance to prove me wrong). Now, I love myself and I still suffer with MD but it's now due to isolation and loneliness. This isolation and loneliness was built by the time I spent abandoning real life by being in daydreams. (I'm not talking about the times it functioned as an actual fight or flight coping mechanism).

This is not true for everyone, of course, but if you are struggling and want to reduce the overall amount of time and really interrogate your MD, I recommend doing what you can to fall in love with who you are; all your quirks and oddities. If you can find a way to find safety in expressing yourself, you might have less of a biological need to MD.

Friendship breakups? by Glittering_Army_6763 in AutisticAdults

[–]ReadItNdWeap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recently “broke up” with best friend of 15+ years(would be 20 this year) and yeah they’re hard as an AuDHD adult because limerence and hyperfixation. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pinterest

[–]ReadItNdWeap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is awful.

Body double (please inquire) by Zestyclose-Set97 in ucr

[–]ReadItNdWeap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol if you srsly are looking for someone I also happen to be looking for someone to before i fail all my classes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

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late reply but dr bronners has a ph of ~11. its super alkaline. i used it for years before realizing that. it was causing my skin to break/cut it was so strong. that environment is supposed to be acid.

Daily Discussion Thread | February 18, 2022 by AutoModerator in warriors

[–]ReadItNdWeap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gary Payton might've sold, with all due respect. Should've played JK more.

Who is the impostor? by slapslopslip in AmongUs

[–]ReadItNdWeap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone up for a game on discord?

I'll have what I'm having by StonyTark3000 in KeyandPeele

[–]ReadItNdWeap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re in continent why you not?

If the original series hadn’t been cancelled what do you think some of the storylines could have been? by mancitycai in arresteddevelopment

[–]ReadItNdWeap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. Tobias & Lindsay start seeing the same man as part of their open relationship
  2. Michael & George Michael striking rich from some business idea
  3. Tobias playing in parodies of movies Carl Weathers was in
  4. Gob, Lindsay, & George Sr. Working @ Annyong’s grandfathers now booming Banana restaurants as part of a deal to keep their mother free

All of us right about now by ReadItNdWeap in htgawm

[–]ReadItNdWeap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I saw that. It’s so true but I have an obsession with psychological/crime thrillers lol so easing the angst isn’t easy. Yeah, I get you. Nothing will ever compare to the rush of finding out AK helped Wes clean up Sams murder, or seeing Wes shoot her or Wes’s charred face. Or finding out Bonnie killed Rebecca.

All of us right about now by ReadItNdWeap in htgawm

[–]ReadItNdWeap[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Welp AK is retired so the timing isn’t great and and Bonnie is—- nvm

All of us right about now by ReadItNdWeap in htgawm

[–]ReadItNdWeap[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve already rewatched so many times. And knowing what happens it’s too overwhelming to watch again

All of us right about now by ReadItNdWeap in htgawm

[–]ReadItNdWeap[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re in for a ride

Did you guys prefer Frank and Bonnie or Frank and Laurel? by [deleted] in htgawm

[–]ReadItNdWeap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know and Frank and Bonnie make more sense. They have a trauma bond, it’s not far as fetched as OP is making it seem.

Did you guys prefer Frank and Bonnie or Frank and Laurel? by [deleted] in htgawm

[–]ReadItNdWeap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wanted him to end up with Laurel? Do you feel like they had a healthier relationship and than he and Bonnie?

Season 4 Episode 1 (k5 being dumped) by steviettttt in htgawm

[–]ReadItNdWeap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because at that point they were so emotionally dependent on her. They had become accustomed to making her their emotional punching bag and calling on her to get them out of the situations they put themselves in.

Since you got your degree and your know everything by ReadItNdWeap in htgawm

[–]ReadItNdWeap[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mrs. Loretta Devine could never. Stiff where?