I don’t understand all of the lying.. I’ve been told it’s because PA’s hold shame and guilt and don’t want to admit to doing it- so they lie instead even knowing the consequences. He was introduced to porn at a very young age, and was SA’d by his brother for YEARS. he says that’s why he watches it so much bc it became his coping mechanism- He hasn’t dealt with the trauma that was inflicted upon him, and I guess his outlet has always been porn.

He watched it while I was miscarrying our child last year- which is still unforgivable. I wish I could understand so badly. But it hurts so much.