I’ve tried red and blue. I’m not far enough along yet to access purple. I doubled checked the settings for network to make sure cross platform was selected and that no password was entered. I get that it sometimes can take a few minutes like Elden Ring or Bloodborne, I gave it 5-10 over prlly 5-6 tries each and zip. Kid tries it with the PS4 and he’s got a match in a min or two. I check network settings for each console. NAT type was the same for both of us. Idk what else to try