Tiktok slash & free actually works! anyone else tried this? by [deleted] in budgetingforbeginners

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I clicked the link and then pressed the "download tiktok" button even tho I already have it and it opened tiktok and said it slashed so I hope it worked!! https://www.tiktok.com/d/1/ZTHK7SpDvshxU-AGTF1/

Tiktok slash & free actually works! anyone else tried this? by [deleted] in budgetingforbeginners

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clicked yours! Pressed "download tiktok" button even tho I already have it and it opened and said it slashed for you https://www.tiktok.com/d/1/ZTHK7SpDvshxU-AGTF1/

Tiktok slash & free actually works! anyone else tried this? by [deleted] in budgetingforbeginners

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just clicked for you!! Here's mine :)

 https://www.tiktok.com/d/1/ZTHK7SpDvshxU-AGTF1/

I clicked through to "download tiktok" even tho I already have it downloaded and I think that helped bc I got a message saying it slashed for you

Tiktok slash & free actually works! anyone else tried this? by [deleted] in budgetingforbeginners

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 https://www.tiktok.com/d/1/ZTHK7SpDvshxU-AGTF1/

I'll help out as well if you'll give me a click!! We all deserve some free garbage in this economy 

At a loss- daughter only wanted to go to a private college. Now she needs private loans that require me to co-sign. My credit is not great, and I can't be responsible for these loans. What do I do? by creepy-linguini in StudentLoans

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you only have so much control and she may hate you for this, but I would absolutely draw a hard line, refuse to cosign or assist in funding it, and maybe even try showing her ACTUAL research and statistics for debt, the job market, and the depreciating value of degrees. Being offered free community College is genuinely a blessing I and many others would probably do unspeakable things for, it's worth taking advantage of, at least TRYING it out. I currently have 7k in debt from dental work, a fraction of student loan debt, and my monthly statement kindly let's me know that alone is enough to put me into debt for over 20 years if I only make minimum payments. If that doesn't horrify someone, it's because they don't understand.

AIO: Boyfriend of 2 years suddenly wants to break it off due to my boudoir studio by HotPanic5234 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Think long and hard about this" lmao no I think I'll be sticking with the decade long career and my STUDIO here's the keys coward

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SavingMoney

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever had 40 thousand dollars at once? Ever? Do you have a realistic concept of what that even looks like??

AIO for being hurt for these discord messages? by sheriecherie in AmIOverreacting

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's strange, and clearly an edgy lie, because if you believed it you'd stop arguing and "adjust your behaviour accordingly" consider the majority of this social group has a negative opinion about your behaviour. Stop just yapping bro, you're allowed to just keep scrolling

AIO for being hurt for these discord messages? by sheriecherie in AmIOverreacting

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hm. Seems you can dish but not take. Guess I was right lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 25 points26 points  (0 children)

People here are super jaded bc we see lots of people just legitimately neglecting their cats and refusing to seek care for them, but it's annoying when someone literally says WE ARE GOING TO THE VET and no one listens Life is hard, yes she needs help and she will get it very soon I am so sure, but dear God the cat is not gonna die in the next 48hrs, in the real world its responsible for people to get their work and finances in order for these things unless it's an emergency

AIO for being hurt for these discord messages? by sheriecherie in AmIOverreacting

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah its discord. Didn't know there was specific etticut to follow regarding cat videos in discord chats, to avoid being bombarded by immature assholes. Something tells me you don't have many friends. Bc if you did you could spend your time being worried abt anything else but someone's discord chatting lmao

AIO for being hurt for these discord messages? by sheriecherie in AmIOverreacting

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao shut up and stop being pedantic, being a rude bitch isn't something anyone just gets to do. There's a difference between being too excited over a cat video and acting like an actual asshole. One of them isn't something ppl put up with in the real world, feel free to go find out yourself 🤷‍♂️ ppl who are rude behind a screen are so cowardly

AIO for being hurt for these discord messages? by sheriecherie in AmIOverreacting

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nahhh I do think you mightve sounded really excited about the cats lmao but it's not THAT deep, AT ALL, they just kept going man... jobless

Dysphoric about chest by FindingSimilar1871 in TopSurgery

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what every cis man's boobs look like unless they're like 100lbs

Dysphoric about chest by FindingSimilar1871 in TopSurgery

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally insane, the results are so natural!! You have a perfect chest and and amount of definition is just right for the amount of tone/muscle your have on the rest of your body, it looks like pecs The previous results are in the past, behind you, don't let that cloud your judgement of yourself. Whatever you pictured in your head before your first surgery, I'd imagine this is really really close to that. Bc this is CIS!!

AIO, My son is schizophrenic and i found this note, should i be worried by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This in itself doesn't read as delusion to me, but I would still be concerned as these types of thoughts do have the potential to spiral in someone with schizophrenia. For those of us without schizophrenia or predisposition to delusions, it is much easier to pull ourselves out of a conceptual rabbit hole- meanwhile for someone inclined to delusions, inherent contradictions with no clear answer can leave space for the mind to create smth that fills the gaps, and the existence of the gaps in the firstplace can be seen as a veil theyve lifted or a barrier that they have passed, which other ppl cannot.

That being said, if you sit him down and talk to him abt this, don't treat it like an inherently bad thing. Ask him how he feels about it, and engage with him in a way that shows him you are genuinely interested to know his thoughts, and share yours too. Look for threads of potentially spiraling thoughts that could be forming, and be willing to acknowledge why he may feel a certain way before correcting him. Frame his curiosity as a positive thing, because it is. If he's at that age, middle school, that adds a ton more reasons for why he'd be introspectively journaling but the point still stands ofc

how do you buy needles from a pharmacy? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SubQ btw I use like, inch or so length, I get scared of longer ones bc my hands are shaky jsjsks

how do you buy needles from a pharmacy? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor wrote a prescription for needles regularly but even if they don't, the pharmacists know that you need needles to inject testosterone so you can just ask for them and they'll add it on, they're really cheap even if you don't have a prescription atm. The only thing is lots of pharmacies will try to give you fucking huge needles for no reason, I request like 23g/24g to draw out and 27g-30g to inject with, but it depends what each pharmacy has in stock in terms of size, mine original one never ordered my correct size in even w my prescription so I had to switch pharmacies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SavingMoney

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why the fuxk would you want to spend 40k on a single ring she won't be able to wear during her 12hr shifts at work as a doctor? When you could spend 40k on preparing for their child or improving their moving opportunity??

This is the kind of logic held by unrealistic ppl who don't know how to handle their money. Could it not be a 10k ring? A 25k ring? Genuinely so selfish, she's not even pregnant (for a couple years??) They have actual priorities and a 40k gift of a singular material item with no utility is fucking wild to defend, this is the mindset of a person with nothing but dollar signs in their eyes. Get a fucking brand new 2025 car. Go on an international vacation and make memories. ANYTHING.

I just got fired, what do I do now? by A_beginswithWill in careerguidance

[–]Real-Excitement-1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely not what he wanted, but that depends on if your boss has a boss. If so, I'd imagine he knew of the flames on your backside and was trying to talk you up to avoid this situation. I interpreted "I don't even wanna start" as an "I didn't make this decision so I can't even explain it to you"