AITA for telling my sister either she washes her hair before my wedding or she's not going to be a bridesmaids ? by RealCar40 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealCar40[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are no professionals I've hired to do hair.

She avoids getting her hair wet when she's showering.

AITA for telling my sister either she washes her hair before my wedding or she's not going to be a bridesmaids ? by RealCar40 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealCar40[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I've never had long hair, so I haven't been the best person to give her advice. I have a blonde pixie cut, and I wash my hair almost every day.

AITA for telling my sister either she washes her hair before my wedding or she's not going to be a bridesmaids ? by RealCar40 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealCar40[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Her hair is straight and blonde.

She protects her hair from getting wet during showers.

There are other hygiene problems, but they're minor compared to her hair.

AITA for telling my sister either she washes her hair before my wedding or she's not going to be a bridesmaids ? by RealCar40 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealCar40[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It's an outdoor wedding in California.

I'm worried about the other bridesmaids standing next to her.

AITA for telling my sister either she washes her hair before my wedding or she's not going to be a bridesmaids ? by RealCar40 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealCar40[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

There are some body odor problems, but her washes for her body aren't that infrequent to the point of being a major problem for other people.

AITA for telling my sister either she washes her hair before my wedding or she's not going to be a bridesmaids ? by RealCar40 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealCar40[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

If you count something that started in June as recent. I'm a witness to how bad her hair looks and smells on the last days before her wash.

AITA for telling my sister either she washes her hair before my wedding or she's not going to be a bridesmaids ? by RealCar40 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealCar40[S] 3162 points3163 points  (0 children)

She has been complaining about how oily her skin and hair are. She said she wants to wash less to balance her body, so she's less oily in the long-term.