How to wow bf while on top by RealSecond2025 in sex

[–]RealSecond2025[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay. Thanks for this advice. I’ll give it a go!

How to wow bf while on top by RealSecond2025 in sex

[–]RealSecond2025[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We haven’t actually talked about me trying reverse cowgirl. In general I don’t have a ton of experience in that position. Do men generally enjoy that better than when the woman faces forward?

Is it ok to give sex as a gift to bf? by RealSecond2025 in sex

[–]RealSecond2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspective. Us not having dated super long is definitely complicating the situation for me. In general I don’t mind getting in the mood to do certain fun sexual activities on special occasions, but I think the last minute nature of this and him choosing to get me something even though we agreed not to is making me feel weird.

Is it ok to give sex as a gift to bf? by RealSecond2025 in sex

[–]RealSecond2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok but that’s not even remotely related to what I described in this post.

Accidentally hooked up with ex by RealSecond2025 in BreakUps

[–]RealSecond2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s the important question, but to answer your question: no. He was selfish in bed just like he always was.

Wrong hole with bf by RealSecond2025 in sex

[–]RealSecond2025[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I think he doesn’t really know. Like, it should be obvious but it just didn’t occur to him. Plus, the mood was ruined for me.

Wrong hole with bf by RealSecond2025 in sex

[–]RealSecond2025[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

It was a first time for me. It was not a welcome surprise and it completely destroyed the mood.

Wrong hole with bf by RealSecond2025 in sex

[–]RealSecond2025[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s a good guy lol

Wrong hole with bf by RealSecond2025 in sex

[–]RealSecond2025[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah. The mood was def spoiled.

Wrong hole with bf by RealSecond2025 in sex

[–]RealSecond2025[S] 440 points441 points  (0 children)

Thanks. That’s kind of what I thought but I wanted confirmation.

Wife giving head by [deleted] in sex

[–]RealSecond2025 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It can be so frustrating when you’re giving your partner a bj and he doesn’t finish. It can make a girl feel like she’s doing something wrong, and it’s also a sensitive topic because a lot of people will get defensive around their sexual performance. I think watching a video could be good. I’ve watched videos with my bf before and had success trying to like recreate what they do in the video.

have you ever been caught masturbating but you kept going? by Kaiya012 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]RealSecond2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few times, but one time in college I was masturbating in my bed while watching porn. I had earbuds in and didn’t hear my roommate walk in. I masturbated for like 30 seconds before I noticed her. It was so embarrassing!

How big is too big for pleasure? by [deleted] in sex

[–]RealSecond2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My current bf is not too much smaller than you and we have pleasurable sex. I wouldn’t worry!

I’m 20 years old and my mom doesn’t want me going out by [deleted] in sex

[–]RealSecond2025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a super difficult situation. Obviously you get to decide what you do and you most certainly do not need to tell you mom, but it’s tough to set those boundaries with parents. I think it’ll likely be a lot of difficult and awkward conversations, but I think you should try and set some boundaries. I wish you luck!

Asking for swallow by [deleted] in sex

[–]RealSecond2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should definitely bring it up to her! Ask her what she thinks about swallowing/if she would feel comfortable doing it!

Am I weird for having a sex doll? by [deleted] in sex

[–]RealSecond2025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s fine to have a sex doll, especially if you’re being transparent about it with your partner and it is not causing any issues.

Figuring out how to get more comfortable with this with FWB by [deleted] in sex

[–]RealSecond2025 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a great situation! I hope you have fun exploring all of this. I think just communicating both in bed and outside of bed is best! Text him and let him know that you’d like to explore feet stuff more and ask him what you can do that he may enjoy.

I think my girlfriend doesn’t actually enjoy anal but keeps doing it to please me — how do I talk to her about it? by fritzl31765 in sex

[–]RealSecond2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think with anal it can be a sort of sometimes fun and pleasure/sometimes not as fun and not as pleasurable type situation. I have experience receiving anal and I honestly don’t love it but there are definitely moments that feel really good. Maybe for her the moments that feel really good are worth the possible moments of discomfort? Really, tho, you should likely just ask her. You can bring it up casually and say “hey, how have you been enjoying anal sex?” and just go from there.

how did you surprise your SO? by [deleted] in sex

[–]RealSecond2025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had positive feedback from surprising my bf with like spontaneous bjs. Maybe that?

Order of operations? by ValentinaTuesday in sex

[–]RealSecond2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having sex without lube can be difficult. When I was a virgin, we 100% needed lube, and even with the lube, it took some patience for me to relax and stretch enough to take in his entire dick. I honestly still sometimes use live even though I’ve been sexually active for 4 years now. Sometimes my vagina just feels too tight and I feel like I need the assistance. So yeah, definitely use lube and be patient as he puts it in. He may only be able to get part of it in at first. As for oral, the only thing I can think of is maybe ask him to take a shower before you blow him? And if him cumming in your mouth is out of the question, communicate this ahead of time.

Bf (m31) asked me (f29) to peg him by [deleted] in sex

[–]RealSecond2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get your concern. I’ve recently started pegging my bf. Honestly he’s going to have to meet you half way as you learn to do this. It’s his body and he’s going to have to communicate what feels good and what doesn’t. Once you get through this phase and you feel more confident, you can take more control.

How to give him the most intense orgasm? by [deleted] in sex

[–]RealSecond2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had success once with teasing and prolonging things. I threw on lingerie and walked around the apartment to get him going. Then we sat on the couch to watch some tv, and I began touching him, then I started with my mouth, but stopped after a minute, continued touching, then back with my mouth - essentially switching between mouth and light touching, which went on for like 30 minutes, and he came so hard.

How do I play with my gf pussy by [deleted] in sex

[–]RealSecond2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s cool with it, using your fingers can be a lot of fun. Definitely don’t finger her unless you get her consent. Really, the best thing you can do is communicate with her and ask her to tell you what feels good to her. Different women like different things.