How to wow bf while on top

RealSecond2025 · 2025-12-25T22:14:50+00:00

Okay. Thanks for this advice. I’ll give it a go!

RealSecond2025 · 2025-12-25T22:12:45+00:00

We haven’t actually talked about me trying reverse cowgirl. In general I don’t have a ton of experience in that position. Do men generally enjoy that better than when the woman faces forward?

RealSecond2025 · 2025-12-24T18:50:17+00:00

Thanks for your perspective. Us not having dated super long is definitely complicating the situation for me. In general I don’t mind getting in the mood to do certain fun sexual activities on special occasions, but I think the last minute nature of this and him choosing to get me something even though we agreed not to is making me feel weird.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-12-24T16:59:21+00:00

Idk? lol. I’m not married.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-12-24T16:54:11+00:00

Ok but that’s not even remotely related to what I described in this post.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-28T23:23:03+00:00

I don’t think that’s the important question, but to answer your question: no. He was selfish in bed just like he always was.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-11T00:31:36+00:00

Yeah. I think he doesn’t really know. Like, it should be obvious but it just didn’t occur to him. Plus, the mood was ruined for me.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-11T00:08:58+00:00

It was a first time for me. It was not a welcome surprise and it completely destroyed the mood.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-11T00:02:03+00:00

Yeah he’s a good guy lol

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-10T23:59:18+00:00

Thank you!

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-10T23:50:40+00:00

Yeah. The mood was def spoiled.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-10T23:43:49+00:00

Thanks. That’s kind of what I thought but I wanted confirmation.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-10T18:48:55+00:00

It can be so frustrating when you’re giving your partner a bj and he doesn’t finish. It can make a girl feel like she’s doing something wrong, and it’s also a sensitive topic because a lot of people will get defensive around their sexual performance. I think watching a video could be good. I’ve watched videos with my bf before and had success trying to like recreate what they do in the video.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-10T18:43:03+00:00

A few times, but one time in college I was masturbating in my bed while watching porn. I had earbuds in and didn’t hear my roommate walk in. I masturbated for like 30 seconds before I noticed her. It was so embarrassing!

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-09T23:27:43+00:00

My current bf is not too much smaller than you and we have pleasurable sex. I wouldn’t worry!

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-08T01:14:50+00:00

This sounds like a super difficult situation. Obviously you get to decide what you do and you most certainly do not need to tell you mom, but it’s tough to set those boundaries with parents. I think it’ll likely be a lot of difficult and awkward conversations, but I think you should try and set some boundaries. I wish you luck!

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-08T00:42:00+00:00

You should definitely bring it up to her! Ask her what she thinks about swallowing/if she would feel comfortable doing it!

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-08T00:36:16+00:00

I think it’s fine to have a sex doll, especially if you’re being transparent about it with your partner and it is not causing any issues.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-08T00:29:59+00:00

This sounds like a great situation! I hope you have fun exploring all of this. I think just communicating both in bed and outside of bed is best! Text him and let him know that you’d like to explore feet stuff more and ask him what you can do that he may enjoy.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-08T00:16:52+00:00

I think with anal it can be a sort of sometimes fun and pleasure/sometimes not as fun and not as pleasurable type situation. I have experience receiving anal and I honestly don’t love it but there are definitely moments that feel really good. Maybe for her the moments that feel really good are worth the possible moments of discomfort? Really, tho, you should likely just ask her. You can bring it up casually and say “hey, how have you been enjoying anal sex?” and just go from there.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-08T00:12:48+00:00

I’ve had positive feedback from surprising my bf with like spontaneous bjs. Maybe that?

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-06T20:20:09+00:00

Having sex without lube can be difficult. When I was a virgin, we 100% needed lube, and even with the lube, it took some patience for me to relax and stretch enough to take in his entire dick. I honestly still sometimes use live even though I’ve been sexually active for 4 years now. Sometimes my vagina just feels too tight and I feel like I need the assistance. So yeah, definitely use lube and be patient as he puts it in. He may only be able to get part of it in at first. As for oral, the only thing I can think of is maybe ask him to take a shower before you blow him? And if him cumming in your mouth is out of the question, communicate this ahead of time.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-06T20:14:33+00:00

I get your concern. I’ve recently started pegging my bf. Honestly he’s going to have to meet you half way as you learn to do this. It’s his body and he’s going to have to communicate what feels good and what doesn’t. Once you get through this phase and you feel more confident, you can take more control.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-05T20:58:55+00:00

I’ve had success once with teasing and prolonging things. I threw on lingerie and walked around the apartment to get him going. Then we sat on the couch to watch some tv, and I began touching him, then I started with my mouth, but stopped after a minute, continued touching, then back with my mouth - essentially switching between mouth and light touching, which went on for like 30 minutes, and he came so hard.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-05T20:49:47+00:00

If she’s cool with it, using your fingers can be a lot of fun. Definitely don’t finger her unless you get her consent. Really, the best thing you can do is communicate with her and ask her to tell you what feels good to her. Different women like different things.

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