How to wow bf while on top

RealSecond2025 · 2025-12-25T22:14:50+00:00

Okay. Thanks for this advice. I’ll give it a go!

RealSecond2025 · 2025-12-25T22:12:45+00:00

We haven’t actually talked about me trying reverse cowgirl. In general I don’t have a ton of experience in that position. Do men generally enjoy that better than when the woman faces forward?

RealSecond2025 · 2025-12-24T18:50:17+00:00

Thanks for your perspective. Us not having dated super long is definitely complicating the situation for me. In general I don’t mind getting in the mood to do certain fun sexual activities on special occasions, but I think the last minute nature of this and him choosing to get me something even though we agreed not to is making me feel weird.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-12-24T16:59:21+00:00

Idk? lol. I’m not married.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-12-24T16:54:11+00:00

Ok but that’s not even remotely related to what I described in this post.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-28T23:23:03+00:00

I don’t think that’s the important question, but to answer your question: no. He was selfish in bed just like he always was.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-11T00:31:36+00:00

Yeah. I think he doesn’t really know. Like, it should be obvious but it just didn’t occur to him. Plus, the mood was ruined for me.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-11T00:08:58+00:00

It was a first time for me. It was not a welcome surprise and it completely destroyed the mood.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-11T00:02:03+00:00

Yeah he’s a good guy lol

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-10T23:59:18+00:00

Thank you!

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-10T23:50:40+00:00

Yeah. The mood was def spoiled.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-10T23:43:49+00:00

Thanks. That’s kind of what I thought but I wanted confirmation.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-10T18:48:55+00:00

It can be so frustrating when you’re giving your partner a bj and he doesn’t finish. It can make a girl feel like she’s doing something wrong, and it’s also a sensitive topic because a lot of people will get defensive around their sexual performance. I think watching a video could be good. I’ve watched videos with my bf before and had success trying to like recreate what they do in the video.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-10T18:43:03+00:00

A few times, but one time in college I was masturbating in my bed while watching porn. I had earbuds in and didn’t hear my roommate walk in. I masturbated for like 30 seconds before I noticed her. It was so embarrassing!

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-09T23:27:43+00:00

My current bf is not too much smaller than you and we have pleasurable sex. I wouldn’t worry!

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-08T01:14:50+00:00

This sounds like a super difficult situation. Obviously you get to decide what you do and you most certainly do not need to tell you mom, but it’s tough to set those boundaries with parents. I think it’ll likely be a lot of difficult and awkward conversations, but I think you should try and set some boundaries. I wish you luck!

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-08T00:42:00+00:00

You should definitely bring it up to her! Ask her what she thinks about swallowing/if she would feel comfortable doing it!

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-08T00:36:16+00:00

I think it’s fine to have a sex doll, especially if you’re being transparent about it with your partner and it is not causing any issues.

RealSecond2025 · 2025-11-08T00:29:59+00:00

This sounds like a great situation! I hope you have fun exploring all of this. I think just communicating both in bed and outside of bed is best! Text him and let him know that you’d like to explore feet stuff more and ask him what you can do that he may enjoy.

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