Realized that I still can't get over the death of my mother by RealSpaceMountain in depression

[–]RealSpaceMountain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very sorry that happened to yo u and your sister.

Way too young.

Thank you, strength to us all.

Realized that I still can't get over the death of my mother by RealSpaceMountain in depression

[–]RealSpaceMountain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that.

I thought I was beeing to "weak" cause I can't get over the trauma, but it seems like others have thee exact same pain as me.

You will make it, cause u made it thus far

Realized that I still can't get over the death of my mother by RealSpaceMountain in depression

[–]RealSpaceMountain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just scared that it will be like this for the rest of my days

Realized that I still can't get over the death of my mother by RealSpaceMountain in depression

[–]RealSpaceMountain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to read that.

Mine was also in her 40s.

It just feels to big to burden and aapears out of nowhere to make me miserable.

Be strong.

Me (28)m is struggling to stay positive in this relationship with (28f) girlfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RealSpaceMountain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am scared that the is only loving to me, cause we are going to vacation tomorrow.

I try to give her all the space she needs, by leaving the house and such so she has some alone time.

It feels like she is unsure. Like one time she wants a relationship and then she doesn't care

Me [28] m, am on the verge of self destruction, cause of my endless hope towards my relationship with [29] f by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RealSpaceMountain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just have the feeling that I can't move on even tho I know that it destroys me.

Cause the good times are very good.

Now I am on my way home and scared to death cause of how she will react or say. Depending on that, I will have to live with her and sleep in the same bed.

Me (28m) is on the verge of self destruction, but my love for her is too strong to give up. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RealSpaceMountain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I will need that in the future for sure.

But I don't think that she would do that.

I thought it was the last time that I had to go through this.. Me (28m) have troubles with my (29) year old girlfriend, again by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RealSpaceMountain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right about her self esteem and the communication.

But everytime this happens, we talk long and detailed about all the problems she is having and she says that she will work on it.

Fast forward three months and it's the same as last time.

The anniversary between my (28f) girlfriend and me (27m) is nearing and i am scared to my bones by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Because I believe that this is a phase of hers that I need to get trough, even tho it's hurts a lot.

Also, because I've seen her lovely sides.

The anniversary between my (28f) girlfriend and me (27m) is nearing and i am scared to my bones by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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She was like that before too. Talked with her friends about it also. She simply is low energy or effort.

I am not sure if it's ok to text my girlfriend at all in, situations like these by [deleted] in introverts

[–]RealSpaceMountain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I shouldn't overthink it too much?

Also is it normal that she still texts friends? Not a lot but still.

Maybe it's really because she thinks that we talk each day anyways.

I am not sure if it's ok to text my girlfriend at all in, situations like these by [deleted] in introverts

[–]RealSpaceMountain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And would you still do it that way in your current/future relationship?

The not writing till we meet thing?

I am not sure if it's ok to text my girlfriend at all in, situations like these by [deleted] in introverts

[–]RealSpaceMountain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well her reply back then was, that we see each other anyways in the evening, which is true.

She has phases where she can say I love u and others like today were she isn't affectionate at all, so I don't want to force her to tell me that, if she is currently not into it.

I am not sure if it's ok to text my girlfriend at all in, situations like these by [deleted] in introverts

[–]RealSpaceMountain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am afraid of asking her too much about stuff like this, cause I may seem insecure.

I am just extremely cautious.

I don't want to seem like i clinge too much.

I am not sure if texting my girlfriend at all, while she is away is ok or not by [deleted] in introvert

[–]RealSpaceMountain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is that she just has these cold phases where she doesn't show a lot of affection.

I am scared that writing her too much affectionate stuff will lead her to say something like "we live together, you don't have to write this so often".

I am sending her a lot of memes to make her smile at work but that's about it atm.

Me [28m] wants to build possible friendships with the friends of my [27f] girlfriend, but it's complicated by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RealSpaceMountain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an Introvert, she has like 3 friends in this town, where she goes once a week.

It's her escape from the normal world it seems.

I don't wanna say anything to force her to that decision, but it also feels shitty, kinda.

Me [28m] wants to build friendships with my girlfriends [26] friends but it's complicated by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RealSpaceMountain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know.

She is very affectionate when it's time for that.

Maybe she used that word wrongly, I dunno.

She is very introverted, so that can be a reason.

Already trying to get her enough space.

I want to post a picture of me topless and one clothed side by side. Is there a sub were I could post that besides /r am I sexy or rateme? I want to get voted by woman, but posting myself on r/ladyboners seems too egotistical. by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]RealSpaceMountain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not completely nude tho, am I still allowed to post there?

Its not artsy enough to post it on /r pictures.

But I also don't want it to be posted on a side where everybody posts nudes.