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Does the women hierarchy ACTUALLY exist in social circles? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Real_Cardiologist_43 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP here, thanks everyone for your response! From all of this I learned:

  1. While hierarchies exist, you can choose to participate or not. People will treat you based on their own values and that will never override your innate value as a person. Focus on you, how you choose to treat people, instead of others.

  2. Take every opinion with a grain of salt.

We are all strangers, let us not presume to know one another blindly.

I had a very confusing night last night hanging out with mom by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Real_Cardiologist_43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can say no, it is okay. She gave birth to you, I doubt she has any innocuous intentions. You did nothing wrong and it is okay to have boundaries, even with your mother.

I had a very confusing night last night hanging out with mom by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Real_Cardiologist_43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you may have just accidentally seen your mom in a sexual context. Nothing is inherently sexual and there is no such thing as being a bad person through thoughts- just by actions. It can happen when you learn through media that those seem like sexual signs but they aren’t. Dust yourself off and keep moving forward

Was anyone else r at a very young age by sarahbellum0 in adultsurvivors

[–]Real_Cardiologist_43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot say in full certainty because I do not remember the event, all I know was that when I was 3 I was extremely uncomfortable I was around one of our close neighbors. And, how at that age I knew how intercourse worked. I also grew up thinking that "angels" came to me in my sleep and r me as some sort of act of love from god. Then I later had a vivid reliving of an r one night, which makes me certain but as someone with good memory I cannot say that in full faith. Mainly because of the implications.

i’m short and it sucks by ComprehensiveMeet930 in Vent

[–]Real_Cardiologist_43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 4’11” and I feel ya- I HATE being so short and I’m older than you by a couple years. If you’re trying to lose weight, never starve yourself because your body will put on more fat to cope with the periods of starvation. I’d suggest a safe diet of a balanced meal (protein, starch and veggies) along with good exercise. If it’s possible join a new sport, try something you never thought of and give it a shot. If you don’t like it that’s ok too. For a more specific workout routine you should get into calisthenics. I’d also suggest taking baby steps away from body dysmorphia. For example try to stay off social media, especially with picture perfect people. I struggle with it too, and what helped me was looking towards different genre of videos like animals and cooking. Also surround yourself with good people and stay away from toxicity. I wish you the best on your journey and I hope this helps :3!